How can a family be maintained?

The organization of a family is formed by the union of marriage, and in order to maintain a family well, it is necessary to have a good marriage. As the head of the family, a man must be a responsible, responsible, and belly-ready man. You must know how to respect your wife, don't be careful, and know how to care for her and be considerate of her.

Although the man is the head of the family, in fact, the woman is the biggest pillar in a family. She is the one who has given the most in this family, and she has endured the pain of leaving home to marry you, without regrets. And as a man, he really owes his wife too much.

As a daughter-in-law, you should respect your elders, communicate more with your mother-in-law, respect the wishes of the elderly and live in harmony, and repay your mother-in-law's help. Therefore, some contradictions are inevitable, as long as we can know how to back down and understand each other, the contradictions can also be resolved.

Building a harmonious socialist society inevitably requires family harmony and stability. The family is the cell of society, and without the harmony of the family, there can be no harmony of the whole society. There are more than 300 million families in our country.

A harmonious and happy family is conducive to the free, equal, healthy and all-round development of each family member, and to the harmony and progress of society. Women have a special place in the family. The establishment of a harmonious socialist society has provided more and more opportunities for family members, especially mothers, to improve their own quality and achieve their own development.

At the same time, however, with the in-depth development of the market economy and the continuous advancement of reform and opening up, people's thinking has become unprecedentedly active, and a trend of diversification has emerged in social consciousness. Reflected in the family sphere, table.

At present, due to the diversity and complexity of the ideological consciousness and cultural needs of family members, the profound changes in society have brought about some unprecedented practical problems in the field of marriage and family, and some families have problems such as distorted values, anomie in moral behavior, wrong education of children, declining marital stability, and aggravation of domestic violence. The active participation of women is essential to addressing these issues. Therefore, encouraging and guiding the broad masses of women to establish a modern concept of family, learn the knowledge and methods of teaching children in science, advocate a scientific, healthy, and civilized way of life, and pursue a fulfilling and healthy spiritual and cultural life is conducive to family harmony, social harmony, and the promotion of social civilization and progress.

Excerpt from Study Times

Better family maintenance is the need to have enough love, love between family members, love from dad to mom, love from mom to mom, love from dad to child, love from dad to child, when surrounded by love, our children will feel safe and happy, children will get better and better, our happiness will be strengthened, it is a virtuous circle.

If you look at it from the perspective of parents, the way to maintain the family is to have a certain degree of family cohesion as a parent, first ensure that the relationship between the husband and wife is single-minded, so that your children feel that their parents are very affectionate, and then the love of the family will spread.

If you want to have a happy home, you must learn to complement each other. Caring for each other, respecting each other, trusting each other, getting along in harmony, and caring for children, so that the family can have a happy taste, not for themselves, but also for their children.

It is necessary to have a positive and hard-working heart, so as to stabilize people's hearts and let their families see hope. On the other hand, only motivated people will have a sense of responsibility and will continue to improve their family life.

As the saying goes, new couples lack experience in housekeeping. A new family that has just been formed also needs the husband and wife to tolerate each other, understand, forbear, communicate, and honor each other's elders. A good wife can be prosperous, and it is the best way to maintain the family.

Men and women who get along with each other sincerely and know each other are all rushing to get married and start a family, and they can have a stable and harmonious small family. Men and women have a marriage and form a family, understand and cherish each other, empathize, be more tolerant and tolerant, and accept each other's strengths and weaknesses.

Usually educate children more at home, and take children out to play more when they have time, which can promote children's growth and knowledge, so that children can have a happy childhood.

1.Maintain good communication: Maintain good communication between family members and try to avoid quarrels and fights. Family meetings can be held regularly to discuss family matters and decision-making.

2.Establish family rules: Establish family rules, clarify the responsibilities and obligations of family members, and maintain family order and stability.

3.Maintain family atmosphere: create a warm, harmonious and happy family atmosphere, and participate in family activities and travel together to enhance the feelings between family members.

4.Share housework: Family members should share housework and take care of family affairs together, so as to reduce the burden of housewives or househusbands.

5.Pay attention to the needs and needs of family members: Pay attention to the needs and feelings of family members, give support and love, and promote the health and well-being of family members.

In short, maintaining a good family requires the joint efforts and understanding of family members, and the establishment of good family relations and family culture, so that family members can support each other, trust each other, and live in harmony.

1. Get along honestly Love is a kind of force that makes people work hard, and the husband and wife are first of all a kind of harmony between the thoughts and feelings of both parties, and a kind of mutual compensation in psychological activities, so that both parties can produce a warm and coordinated healthy psychology. Therefore, it is more pleasing for husbands and wives to be honest with each other, to respect and love each other, and to take care of each other than to give gifts.

2. Communicate frequently Husbands and wives should often sit down to exchange opinions, communicate ideas, and pour out the joys and hardships in their hearts. Especially in times of adversity, what you need most is the comfort of your loved ones. A word of sympathy and an encouraging look will reduce the psychological pressure of the other party, enhance the confidence and strength to overcome difficulties, and truly see the truth in the midst of adversity.

3. Respect each other's personality traits A couple, even if they are childhood sweethearts, still have their own personality traits. Some husbands are active and have been wandering outside for many years, and they can't stay at home. And the wife is quiet and has a narrow social surface, and hopes that her husband will be at home with her all day long.

Every time the husband returns, the wife is unhappy, and sometimes she is a little petty, and if the husband can't stand it, there may be a quarrel. An empathetic wife or husband should respect the personality of the other person, do not impose her will on the other person, and reserve a certain amount of freedom for the other person to allow the other person to have their own social circle. In this way, marriage is not a kind of confinement, but not only to give full play to their individual characteristics, but also to be a warm home for mutual attachment.

4. Learn to be patient Husbands and wives must learn to be patient, Chekov said: "The most important thing in married life is patience." "When the other person loses his temper or sends a provocative signal, it is best to adopt the method of patience and avoidance, or put yourself in the position of understanding the cause to help relief, rather than being influenced by the other person's emotions and putting yourself in a bad emotional state.

5. Take the initiative to undertake housework After getting married, there are major matters that need to be negotiated together, but more often are the daily chores of firewood, rice, oil and salt. The equal interaction between husband and wife is manifested in the joint sharing of housework, and taking the initiative to undertake a part of the housework is the first concrete manifestation of the husband's love for his wife and the wife's consideration for her husband. If you need the other person's help, it's best to replace the commanding "you do it" with a friendly "help".

6. Influence the other party Use your own warmth to make the other party get probation. For example, on a rainy day, the husband takes the initiative to take an umbrella to meet his wife at the station; The husband reads or writes at night under the lamp, and the wife quietly sends a cup of hot tea and hot milk to the feast. This kind of practice of enhancing feelings often makes the other party resentful.

Many people's husbands may often be away from home due to work reasons, and at this time, they will leave their wives at home alone, which often causes many problems. In fact, it is right for men to be attentive in their careers, and they are also working hard outside for a better life for the whole family. So as a wife, what should you do to maintain the whole family well.

I think the most important thing is loyalty, my husband works hard outside the home, and he doesn't work hard to earn money so that he can live a good life. Although it is inevitable that a person will be lonely and not taken care of at home, the most basic loyalty must be had. It's okay to go out to play, but the most basic bottom line is to keep, I am a married woman, and I am clear what to do and what not to do.

Of course, in addition to entertainment, the trivial matters at home still have to be dealt with clearly. Sometimes your husband's parents also need to be taken care of, and your own parents also need to be taken care of, and you need to do it alone because your husband is not around. These are the most basic things, and as a qualified wife, of course, you have to deal with them well.

Giving together and respecting each other, it's best not to be too aggressive on both sides.

In this life, people don't need to be rich and expensive, just be able to have a safe and healthy family.

Everyone will have their own difficulties, if a man thinks about being intimate with a woman all day long and does not do his job, then family life is also very difficult, if a woman in real life, does not have her own bottom line and principles, then the family will also be a mess.

Therefore, I hope that everyone must learn to face family problems well, and not make family life unhappy because of a little thing in life.

Family is our safe haven, I hope that each of us in the face of the family, can take their own responsibility, when you know how to maintain the happiness of a family, you will understand the family life is not easy.

Life is full of tastes, we have to learn to face, between husband and wife, to learn to support each other, so as to be able to make the road of love go further, if we are always complaining to each other, then this love will be separated sooner or later, I hope that each of us can cherish the hard-won fate between husband and wife, when we know how to consider each other, love will become stronger.

Cherish the fate between husband and wife, and love will become eternal.

Put your heart on your family. Your family will be thriving. That's just one word, that's and. The family is harmonious, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good, the relationship between husband and wife is good, and the family is harmonious. Then nothing will happen.

Having common hobbies and interests, or having the same personality, can come together, this is how people divide into groups. If two people have common interests and hobbies, they can enhance their in-depth understanding of each other, and become more mature and steady.

After two people get married, they can play various roles in life, they can also be relatives, friends, and even confidantes of each other. Of course, it can also be a bosom friend or a confidant, a couple who can do nothing between the two, be honest with each other, and have nothing to say. If two people can't even be friends, how can they be a long-term husband and wife, unless they get married for the sake of inheritance, but the married life of barely becoming a husband and wife will not be very happy.

Similarly, if you encounter any problems in life, you should communicate effectively in a timely manner, and small fights can enhance the mood of your husband and wife's life, and living together is inevitably too dull, so you need all kinds of surprises in your life to enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

We must learn to face all the tastes of life, and between husband and wife, we must learn to support each other, so that we can make the road of love go further.

Sustain it with love! Tolerate each other and care for each other! Hearts and minds will come together! ·

The following passage may help you.

1. Resolving family conflicts cannot be solved by forbearance and accommodation. When a conflict arises in some families, one of the contradictory parties blindly tolerates and accommodates in order to resolve the problem. On the surface, it seems that everything is fine if there is no noise or trouble, but in fact, everyone is awkward in their hearts.

After a long time, once the problems accumulate too much, it is inevitable that "wars" will break out, or there will be a situation that cannot be managed. Not only that, in the long run, on the one hand, it is easy to cause the other party to "gain an inch", not only did he realize his mistakes and feel guilty, but he felt that he was very correct, which objectively played a role in encouraging his wrong behavior to continue to develop; On the other hand, as a party that has always insisted on "harmony", it is bound to bear great pressure and pain in the heart, and in the long run, it is easy to cause mental illness, which will not only bring great damage to the body, but also affect other members of work and family. Therefore, it is not a good way to resolve family conflicts by adopting the method of tolerance and accommodation.

Isn't that just a needle-tip noisy at Maimandi? Definitely!

Second, the only way to solve family conflicts is to communicate with you. Conflicts between family members are generally not a matter of principle, such as who wastes pulling, who is lazy, or who washes their hair every day......It's all trivial, and there won't necessarily be any contradictions on the big issues of right and wrong in the family. Is it so trivial that you make your neck thick and your face blush?

Why can't we just sit down and exchange ideas calmly, and then talk about it? Hostile sides like the DPRK and the United States are still resolving the DPRK nuclear issue through negotiations, not to mention the big deal that the family can't solve, don't you say? Family conflicts should be bridged in a timely manner in the midst of continuous appearance, and too much must not be accumulated.

A gap and a hole are easy to bridge, there are too many loopholes, can't the water collapse as soon as it is flushed?

Of course, it's easy to say, but it's far from being like that. Communication should also pay attention to ways and means, first of all, both sides need to calm down and talk before they can achieve the desired goal; The same effect can also be achieved by taking some roundabout methods, such as finding relevant information that can persuade and educate the other party to recognize their mistakes. Especially when the juniors and the elders disagree, and it is obviously the elders' fault, but as a junior, it is not easy to say it directly, so it is easier for the other party to accept it by taking some roundabout methods.

3. Have a tolerant mindset. To err is human? No one is perfect, and everyone can make mistakes of one kind or another.

The family is also a group, and everyone in this group has everyone's strengths, and if you are strong in this area, he may be better than you in the other way. Don't take your own strengths shorter than others, and pick your nose and eyes at others. If you treat the people at home with a tolerant attitude, it will be easy to see all the problems in the family, and there will be much fewer contradictions.