Why do good people always get bullied?

People are good at being bullied, in fact, it does not mean that kind people are always easy to be bullied, but when a kind person is faced with some bullying, he may sympathize with others because of his soft-hearted kindness, swallow the grievances he has suffered into his stomach, and will not worry about others, so it will make others always feel that kind people are always being bullied.

Kind people are always easy to sympathize with others and put their own things behind, so kind people may be willing to help others in front of their affairs, but it is precisely because they are good at helping others that they may not be able to distinguish some things, they may meet some bad people, and they are easy to be bullied.

Then secondly, because they have a kinder personality, they will not be too careful when they are bullied, which is very easy to encourage the arrogance of those bad people, they will think that you are afraid of them, so they dare not fight back and dare not resist, so they will be happy with this matter, and they will still bully good people next time.

Finally, for example, in the workplace, if some people want to find someone else to bear the blame, the first thing that comes to mind is those kind people, because kind people will not trouble them, and they may also carry this matter down for them, so on the whole, kind people are because they think about others, and their own personality is more generous, so they will always be bullied.

The reason why kind-hearted people are bullied is because they are unwilling to have more conflicts with the outside world, and in their eyes they will feel that more things are better than less things, in fact, many things they don't understand, but they are unwilling to adjust more incidents. But others don't necessarily think so, and when they see that the other party doesn't react after bullying, they will bully this person even harder, so this is why kind-hearted people are often bullied.

Don't think that kind-hearted people are stupid, in fact, many times those who are unwilling to speak are the real kings, and they often understand more than those who are easy to behave. The reason why they are reluctant to speak out is because they are unwilling to get involved, which does not mean that they do not understand anything in their hearts. So don't underestimate those around you who don't speak, and don't bully those who are kind-hearted, if you are provoked one day, the consequences may not be something you can afford.

Many times, those who bully others will feel that they will feel superior to others by bullying others like this. You will feel that you can do anything. But in fact, in my opinion, such an approach is very naïve, after all, everyone is an adult, isn't it good to get along well?

Why bully them? Besides, it will be good for you to be friends with those who are kind-hearted! After all, it's better to have one more friend than one more enemy, and no one knows when they'll be used.

Kind people are hurt because they are kind, they always think about others, even if they suffer losses and are hurt, they have to think about others, and others will take advantage of this characteristic of good people to talk about kindness, so that kind people feel that if they are not kind, they will be ashamed of their hearts and the whole society.

To tell the truth, they are kidnapped by kindness with no bottom line, they are not only easy to be hurt, but also very tired.

If you want to change this situation, in fact, it is not very difficult, that is, there must be a degree of kindness, kindness should be kind, and for those who are not worthy, don't give her kindness. In addition to kindness in life, we must also learn to say no and learn to say "no". In this way, you will not always suffer losses and be easily hurt.

It's still the same sentence, be worthy of your conscience, and have a clear conscience. Don't care what people say.

Because kind people don't have the heart to hurt others, kind people don't do evil to others, kind people always take human feelings too seriously, and kind people have a heart of influence. There are always some people who feel that kind people are stupid, that kind people will not retaliate even if you bully them, and that bullying kind people will give them a sense of accomplishment.

People are good and some people are bullied, and horses are good and some people ride.

The dragon entered the shallow water and was played by shrimp, and the tiger fell and the whole sheep was bullied by dogs.

These ancient times have been summed up, but people are watching the sky, today I did bad things, on the surface you are afraid of me, in fact, I will be punished by God one day.

People who are wicked are afraid of the sky are not afraid, and good people are not afraid of the sky.

Zengguang Xianwen", heaven refers to karma. That is to say, although some people may bully people when they are kind, they will be rewarded for their kindness, and they will be rewarded in the end. When a person is evil, ordinary good people will be afraid, but karma will always settle his evil with him, and evil will definitely have evil retribution.

Heaven can also be understood as the ruler of all things. In short, it is a good thing to do.

Because kind people will always tolerate the mistakes of others, making people mistakenly think that kindness is a sign of weakness, and some people will use the weakness of good people to plot against good people or even bully, because kind people rarely retaliate and fight back. That's why you're often bullied, if a kind person makes himself strong, although he is kind but he is more arrogant on the surface, so that no one will bully you, because no one wants to mess with a righteous bastard, and the bad guy doesn't know whether you are a good person or a bad person.

Why are kind people always bullied, just because of kindness, because kindness is honest, honesty is a sign of weakness, there are many people who are bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, psychologically it is like this, if he encounters hard stubble, he will be honest.

So sometimes kind people don't associate with others, or to guard against others, don't have deep friendships that they think are good, after a period of investigation, feel that the other party is a kind person, then find his friend, so that there will be no problems.

Kind people should have rules for associating with good people, and never associate with evil people.

<>People are good and are deceived by othersIn fact, one of the biggest characteristics of a kind person is that he is soft-hearted and emotional。Some people know that you are soft-hearted, do not take care of it, and will not be relieved, so they always come to bully you and take advantage of you. The saddest thing is that you subconsciously feel that a soft-hearted person is a good person, and in order to be a good person, a soft-hearted person with no bottom line will eventually become a bad person.

One: Slow response, timely counterattack if you don't understand

When there are thorns in other people's words, you can't hear the other party's connotation, so you can't fight back with the right attitude in time. In the long run, the other party will call you an inch, thinking that you are too easy to bully, and you can practice as much as you want.

Two: There is no principle and bottom line for pleasing people

Blindly believe in others, and hope that the people around you are happy, you do things without asking for anything in return, put the needs of others as your pursuit, you will not refuse. People don't have their own principles and bottom lines, and this kind of person will think that what I do to others will treat me as others do. But what about reality?

On the contrary, if you try your best to be good to others, others may just use you as a soft persimmon to pinch, or others may treat you as a good person.

Three: Not good at words, blindly retreating

Bullying all starts with words. If you don't silence him verbally the first time, then they will be villainous and start bullying you and belittling you in action. Anyway, I don't have to pay any price to bully you, I don't need to look at any time, I don't need to look at the day, right, and I can even make more small gains on you, why not?

There are always some reasons for being bullied by others to let children grow up in an environment, and they have slowly formed such a state in the process.

One: Father Hui Potato Liquid Mother does not like to socialize

The circle is very small, there are few friends, silent, usually go to and from work, and on weekends, they are also busy with work or staying at home. Children grow up in such families, and they are used to seeing boredom and boredom, and they cannot learn the ability to make friends. There is a high probability that he is always alone in school, so he is naturally easy to be bullied.

2: Parents are unsatisfactory in their work and lack a sense of accomplishment in life

Always inadvertently reveals feelings of disappointment, dissatisfaction, complaints, grievances and so on. Children know how helpless the outside world is from an early age, and they also watch their parents bow to life again and again. It develops learned helplessness, and he thinks that bowing to all unreasonable realities is a reasonable way to survive.

Three: Parents are not with their children for a long time

The child is raised by the elderly, or the parents are workaholics, and the child stays with the aunt for the longest time, the heart of this kind of child is lacking in the support of the family, in other words, he has no confidence, he does not feel that his parents can help him immediately when he encounters any problems, even if he has no worries about food and clothing, it is possible to develop a pleasing personality, because his caregiver does not love him unconditionally.

The stupid man who is always bullied is some of his own circumstances and some conditions brought to him by his family. made him constantly have some psychological trauma. It will take some time to correct it slowly.

Good people are always deceived.

If good people are not treated well, is it necessary to be kind?

There is such a story about an old man who lived with his son. One night, the son told his father that a new neighbor had moved in next door, and the family had a dog that was very fierce and often bullied the family cat.

After hearing this, the old man said to his son: Don't worry, I have my own way. The next day, the old man took a big wolf dog and knocked on the door of the house. As soon as he knocked on the door, the dog barked, and the owner came out to see that it was a vicious dog, so he closed the door.

The old man said to his master, "Don't worry, I won't hurt you." Then he took out a wooden stick and hit the dog on the head and hit it hard. At this time, the vicious dog suddenly rushed over and bit the master's hand.

Seeing this, the owner hurriedly ran into the house, picked up a stone, and threw it at the head of the dog. As a result, the stone hit the old man directly on the head.

By the time people found out, the old man was already dead. It turned out that that night, the old man was outside the door and heard the sound of a cat coming from the house, so he went out with a stick to check.

When he saw the vicious dog bullying the cat, he stepped forward to help. Unexpectedly, he was mistaken for a bad guy by this vicious dog, so such a bad accident happened.

The old man died because he saved the cat. However, his death made many people feel chilled. Some people say that in this world, the most unoffended people are those who are not pure-hearted. Because, not only do they not know how to be grateful, but they will also do some heinous behavior.

In fact, in this world, not everyone is worthy of our sincerity, and some people are not worthy of our help.

In real life, there are some people who, in order to achieve their own goals, do not hesitate to use various means to achieve the results they want.

For example, some people will do anything to get money in order to get it. Some people, in order to gain benefits, will take advantage of the trust of others and do things that violate their conscience.

These behaviors are a manifestation of selfishness and greed in human nature.

A person can only keep his bottom line if he knows how to refuse.

As the saying goes: you can't have the heart to hurt people, and you can't have the heart to prevent people.

As a human being, you must learn to protect yourself, so as to avoid unnecessary harm.

If you don't want to be hurt, know how to say no.

When you learn to reject others, others will not gain an inch, and your life can get better and better.

We often hear people say: "People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden." Why is it that the more honest and kind people are, the easier it is to be bullied? What kind of psychology are they doing to bully honest people?

1. Subconsciously think that honest people should be bulliedSome people subconsciously think that honest people are easy to bully and are taken for granted to be bullied, and this subconscious may be influenced by some environment or some people, creating their wrong psychology, so they will bully honest people.

Second, think that honest people are cowardly and incompetent psychologyHonest people are kind, do not like to fight, and do not like to show themselves, some people will regard the kindness and love of others as their cowardice, and think that honest people cannot, and then destroy their body and mind.

3. Bullying the weak reflects their strong psychology This kind of people are despicable and shameful, they bully the soft and afraid of the hard, how dare the egg touch the stone, they only pick the weak to bully, in order to reflect their strength, to bully honest people to prove that they are also a strong person, in fact, they are a shameful weakling.

Fourth, think that people are honest and have no "worries" after being bulliedHonest people generally choose to swallow their anger and not resist, and they will form a psychology of obedience for a long time. This also makes some people feel that bullying honest people has no worries and can be unscrupulous. Fifth, Wang Yan is easy to vent bad emotions on the weak psychology Now in the fast-paced society, the pressure is very great, and some people will vent their bad emotions on the relatively weak body, bullying honest people who make them feel weak, so that they have a feeling of superiority.

Fifth, it is easy to vent bad emotions to the weak psychology Now in the fast-paced society, there is a lot of pressure, some people will vent their bad emotions on the relatively weak, bullying honest people who make them feel weak, so that they have a sense of superiority.