What does it mean for girls to live together, and what are the pros and cons of girls living togethe

First of all, I think living together out of wedlock is a very serious matter.

Couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, and it is recommended not to live together in the early stages of a relationship before the two individuals do not understand each other's temperament and character.

First, if you cohabit with the man too early, it is very likely that the future in-laws will despise you.

Second, after living together, what you face is not the romance of love, but a bunch of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you live with a boy inevitably have to wash clothes, cook and clean the house, you let him experience married life for free in advance, so what about another two years?

The third case is even worse, which is an unplanned pregnancy after cohabitation.

In the event of such a result, it will be more difficult to get out of the way.

If the man is a responsible person, maybe it's better, if the man is irresponsible, then the woman will be completely passive, and then talk about marriage at this time, the meaning is completely different.

It is difficult for parents in traditional families to accept couples living together too early.

If you tell them when the relationship is still unstable, the change in the relationship will only add trouble to the parents.

In the minds of parents, cohabitation may mean that two people will marry in the future.

In the lives of contemporary young people, cohabitation may not be so burdensome.

This gap in awareness not only affects the communication between parents and children, but also affects the emotional direction between couples.

Cohabitation is really something that needs to be carefully considered, and when the relationship is hot, it is easy for two people to make some impulsive decisions.

In general, it is recommended to consider cohabitation during the period of emotional stability, at this time, when two people get to know each other to a certain extent, it will be easier to solve the troubles caused by different living habits.

When you decide to live together after careful consideration, be sure to tell your parents first.

You can choose to have a tentative chat with your parents, talk about the examples of your friends who live together, and listen to your parents' views on the couple.

If your parents agree to live together, congratulations, you can save a lot of tongues, but if your parents don't agree to it, don't quarrel with your parents.

After all, they are the people who love you the most in this world, and you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and kindness into your daily life, slowly let your parents accept him, and tell your parents about it when the time is right.

Girl, let me tell you a statistic first, after you read it, then decide whether you want to live together or not?

In the blind date market, all men believe that cohabitation is equivalent to illegal marriage, and almost half of men are very concerned that women have a history of cohabitation; Two-thirds of men are unable to accept that a woman has had an abortion during cohabitation.

Even in my counseling career, many men can accept a woman who has had a failed marriage, but they can't accept a woman who has lived together for five or six years.

Usually the longer you live together, the less likely you are to get married, who have you ever seen who wants to spend a lot of money to buy a luxury car that has been driving for free for several years and is tired of driving it back home?

For men, of course, they want to live together in love, under the banner of love, they can solve physiological problems, and there is a free nanny, someone does laundry and housework, and from time to time they can also eat a loving meal.

But when they really talk about marriage, they look down on the girl who is abandoned after living together, this is the double standard of men, and it is a double standard that you alone cannot change.

And cohabitation, for women, is not so friendly, it can be said that there are many harms and no benefits, and there are endless troubles.

In the process of cohabitation, once you get pregnant before marriage, it will be more difficult for you, at least you will be suppressed as a bride price, or at worst, people will turn their faces and not recognize people, and they will not be responsible and care about you, anyway, the child is in your belly, and you are not in a hurry.

Either you get married wronged, and you may not get the process and details of other little sisters' marriages, so I ask you if you regret it?

If you don't get married, the child is in your belly, do you want it or not? Yes, do you have the courage and confidence to be a single mother? Don't, should your physical and mental health be considered?

Besides, after living together for a few years, you can indeed see many shortcomings of men up close, but these shortcomings, you can also observe them if you don't live together, is there any need to take the risk of cohabitation?

You don't want to live in a group, you can consider renting alone, why should you live with a man?

Of course, this is just my personal opinion, if you are sure that you and your boyfriend will definitely make it to the end, you don't need to face the criticism of the next partner, or you don't care about the final result, you want to live together recklessly, it's not impossible.

It's good not to regret it, not to complain.

Now the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, and the advantages in ancient times outweigh the cons.

The first is to save money, the second is to have a sense of belonging and happiness to accompany the town, college students, are full of vitality, can not be dragged down by noisy dormitories, now everyone is pursuing their own space. The third is that cohabitation is equivalent to a trial marriage, if the other party is not suitable, you can stop the loss in time, which is much better than regretting it after getting married. The nature of the other person can be seen in a cohabitation relationship.

There is a good saying that marriage is not about magnifying each other's strengths, but about tolerating each other's shortcomings. The fourth is that the relationship between couples is sweeter, you will feel the tenderness and consideration of your partner, and the relationship will be better. The fifth is that cohabitation means that with the constraints of the family, you can no longer entertain regardless of Lu Jianru, and you have to consider each other.