What does it mean for a guy to reveal his heart to a girl?

I don't think that's anything special. When a guy confides in you, he may indeed regard you as a trustworthy person, and he may like you before confiding in you, but it is also possible that he just uses you as a trash can to vent his feelings.

I have experienced the above three situations, one is to treat me as a buddy, the other is someone who likes me, and there is a strange point, he neither treats you as a buddy nor likes you, he is just looking for a place to vent. I won't say much about the first two cases, whether the boy treats you as a buddy or really likes you, you can tell. Now I'm going to talk about the third scenario, which really makes me a little drunk.

I met a boy by accident before, how to say, I thought that the boy seemed to be more withdrawn and had no friends, so I took the initiative to contact him and wanted to be his friend. Then we only knew each other for a few days, and he began to come to me to vent his bitterness in various ways, and he came to me to tell me about the little things that happened in his family. I thought he liked me or considered me a friend, so I was happy to listen to him and give me some advice.

And in order to make more friends for him, I invited him into my friend's group, and then** after he didn't talk much, I chatted with a friend every day.

Then one day, he said something that made me angry while chatting with me, and I was angry and ignored him. After a few days, the friend in my group who had a good chat with me came to me and said that the man ran to talk to her, and called her a beautiful sister, and then she didn't ignore him out of politeness (she didn't know that we had a quarrel at the time), and then less than two days after their first chat, the man began to tell her about him, and confided in her heart in various ways. And what made me angry was that he actually said bad things about me to my friend.

Saying how bad I am, he misjudged me and so on. Later, I told him everything, and he said sorry to me, and then asked me if I could still talk to me, and I said to him: It might be better to talk to your family and your parents about these problems you encounter.

But he said, ""I can't talk to them. "Ay.

I still don't understand how there can be such a person, he is an outsider who speaks ill of me in front of my good friends, it is really incompetent. I have to say that when the forest is big, there are really all kinds of birds. Anyway, since then, my friends and I haven't paid attention to him anymore, and he should be lonely if he wants to be withdrawn.

Since then, I have known that when a guy confides in you, it may just be that he has a lot of secrets buried in his heart.

Therefore, when a boy confides in you, in addition to treating you as a trusted person or someone he likes, it is not excluded that some strange boys just want to use you as a trash can to vent their emotions.

I can't speculate on the psychology of many other people, but if it's me, if it's me confiding in a girl, it means that she is an important person in my life.

This kind of importance has nothing to do with the relationship between men and women, but more about intimate friends. Because I know that she will understand when I tell her this, and she will support me when I am in trouble, and it is not wrong to call this kind of person a confidant. And people don't have many confidants in their lives, so there are not many people who can confide in me about them.

That's true for me, and I say almost everything I say. But there are also some words in the heart that are said on special occasions and at special times, and if you want to say it at this time, it depends on the situation.

A famous example is Bai Juyi's "Pipa Xing", in which he and the singer complain to each other. After the pipa girl's song, she talked about her sufferings, and Bai Juyi also felt when she heard it, and talked about her unsuccessful career and being repeatedly sent and degraded as an official. This is they confiding in each other, but it can't be said that they appreciate each other, with the feelings between men and women, at most they sympathize with each other's experiences and understand each other's feelings at this time.

So when a guy confides in a girl, he may just think that he can talk to you, and now he wants to talk to you about it; Or maybe he really thinks that you are already his more important person, and he is willing to tell you, hoping to get your feedback and support. In this case, what kind of feelings the boy has for the girl, the girl should also know very well in her heart, so she should be able to have a clear judgment.

Don't think of it as a burden, but as the trust of others, and as a blessing.

Don't guess, maybe you're just trying to find someone to talk to! If you want to know the real answer, ask him!

First of all, the eyes are the empty window of a person's soul, so some clues can be seen from a girl's eyes on a boy.

If a girl likes a boy with filial piety, not only will she not resist physical contact with this boy, but will look forward to physical contact with the boy in her heart.

If two people are good friends, girls will also show their liking for blind boys in some details in daily mobile phone chats, such as replying messages in seconds, saying good night every day, and always chatting with boys.

On the other hand, if a girl likes a boy, then she will often inadvertently mention this boy in her daily chats with friends, classmates, and family, which is an aspect that she cannot be aware of, but others will quickly perceive.