How to spend the discomfort period of kindergarten?

When the child just goes to kindergarten, he must be very uncomfortable, even if the child does not cry or make trouble, his heart is also anxious, often this time period, will be different according to the differences of each child. How to spend the discomfort period of kindergarten?

1. Have parents accompany their children to a few transition classes together.

The main reason why children show this feeling of discomfort is that the environment is unfamiliar, and the playground, classroom, teachers, classmates, ...... are unfamiliarNo matter how beautiful the environment is, no matter how gentle the teacher is, no matter how amiable the classmates, it is not as good as the family, the child has lived at home for three years, everything is so familiar, then, parents should let the child be familiar with the kindergarten, in this process, parents should accompany the child to do things. Many kindergartens have transitional classes, inviting parents and children to attend classes together, parents and children slowly familiarize themselves with the kindergarten, with parents accompanied, children are no longer so resistant, when the child is thoroughly adapted, parents can really let go.

Second, parents must give their children enough security.

Children are not suitable for kindergarten, because of a lack of security, children do not understand why they want to go to kindergarten, why parents will leave themselves, then, parents must make it clear to their children, parents do not want children, parents still love children, and children agreed, they will go to the kindergarten door early to wait, so that the child has some expectations in his heart, when out of the classroom, he will see the kind face of his parents, the child's sense of security arises spontaneously, and the next day will also look forward to this feeling, Then the child's attention will be diverted during the day, and he will quickly adapt to the life of the kindergarten.

3. Parents should reward their children more.

Every morning and evening, when parents and children get along, they should give their children a loving hug, buy some small gifts for their children as much as possible, coax their children to be happy, tell them that they are very brave and can go to kindergarten independently, and parents can also make some small gifts by hand, so that children can experience the love of their parents.

I think this requires the joint efforts of parents and kindergarten teachers, teachers should pay attention to the physical and mental development of children, and parents should pay more attention to some improper performances of their children and communicate with the school in a timely manner.

First of all, you should take your child to the kindergarten in advance to familiarize yourself with the environment, and then enter the kindergarten after being familiar with the kindergarten environment, which can reduce the child's anxiety. Secondly, let the child play more with other children and make more friends, so that the child can adapt to the kindergarten faster.

Don't stop going to kindergarten because your baby is crying (this is especially important for the elderly). You can talk to your baby about interesting things in kindergarten, praise him (her) for his or her progress, and enhance your baby's interest in going to kindergarten.

You should explain the reason to your child, and at the same time, you should let your child understand some of these things, and at the same time, you should also bring more food and snacks for your child when he is not used to it.

It is necessary to actively enlighten the child, to guide the child to change this bad situation, to communicate with the child more, and to learn to encourage the child.

Let's go through it slowly, there must be an adaptation period, adults are still nervous in an unfamiliar environment, let alone children.

It is necessary to actively communicate and communicate with the child in the first draft of the limb, do a good job in the psychological construction of the child's filial piety, and prepare the child in advance before the start of school, and you can take the child to visit the kindergarten. In normal times, it is also necessary to exercise children's independent ability and do a good job in children's ideological work.

If the child is reluctant to go to kindergarten, he should also let him pass away, and tell him that kindergarten is very fun, except that his parents are not around, and he should cultivate his independence, and communicate with the teacher to let the teacher help the child through this period.

It may be that you need a pair of toys that you use as toys as you often use. You can record it, so they can listen to your recordings at school at any time.

Children will have a separation anxiety period when they first start kindergarten, so the main manifestation of the child's separation anxiety period is crying and unwilling to go to kindergarten, so in this case, parents will be more worried and worried, so how to let the child pass this anxiety area smoothly and adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible? Here are a few points to share with you:

1. Let children know about kindergarten in advance.

Let the child know more about the kindergarten in advance, understand the environment of the kindergarten, the rules of work and rest, and if conditions permit, you can take the child to the trial garden.

2. Let the child experience the independent class plot.

Before entering the kindergarten, let the child feel the company of the family and attend classes independently, which will help you adapt to the mode of getting along with children and teachers alone as soon as possible after entering the kindergarten. Nowadays, there is a lack of trembling, and many early education institutions will set up this independent class experience. You can communicate with the early education teacher in advance and give the child the link of independent class.

3. Communicate with teachers in a timely manner to understand the situation.

After the child enters the kindergarten, parents should communicate with the teacher in a timely manner, which will help parents to understand the situation of their children in the kindergarten in a timely manner and guide their children correctly. After the child enters the kindergarten, parents should understand and respect the work of kindergarten teachers, abide by the relevant rules of kindergarten, and actively cooperate with teachers to do a good job in kindergarten and class.

Fourth, adjust your own mentality and guide positively.

Adjust your own mentality, first of all, parents should not be anxious, have a positive attitude, influence their children with a positive attitude, communicate with their children more, and help their children adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible. Parents' emotions are very volatile and easy to spread to their children, and parents' positive attitude will also bring positive effects to children. Parents should ask their children more interesting things in kindergarten, let children remember the good of kindergarten, and don't always ask if anyone is bullying you in kindergarten.

Therefore, it is also a technical task for parents to ask their children, and parents also need to think carefully before asking. Of course, after these aspects are done, the child will slowly adapt to kindergarten life

Parents should accompany their children more at this stage, and they should accompany their children to spend such a point in time in this difficult situation, and the most important thing is that parents must enlighten their children at this stage.

You can prepare your baby's favorite food to go to school every day, and every day you know that you should carry out psychological counseling and persuasion for your baby, so that you can let your baby successfully go through this uncomfortable period.

It is necessary to guide the child well, so that the child can have a particularly positive attitude, so that he can get through such a period.

Introduction: If the child has just entered kindergarten and is not comfortable with the parents, it is necessary to find the appropriate method.

If parents see that their children are not suitable for going to kindergarten, they should help their children spend time appropriately and find their children's children. Some children don't like to go to kindergarten when they are young, parents must do a good job of guiding their children, so that children have their own children, so that children feel very happy. Parents see that their children are always making a lot of noise, don't blame the children, which will make the children feel very sad, and feel that the parents are not going to abandon themselves, and parents should not let the children have this kind of emotion.

When choosing a kindergarten for a child, you must give your child a good guide, tell your child to behave well in kindergarten, and pick up your child after school, so that your child has a correct understanding, and don't let your child feel that he has been abandoned and unwilling to stay with his parents. Some children don't know what they can do in kindergarten, and parents have to tell them what to do.

Parents must tell their children how to behave in kindergarten, so that children can know how to develop. If the child makes a mistake in the kindergarten, parents should not blame the child, but should guide the child appropriately, so that the child feels that he can actually change, and the child will be happier. Parents can tell their children to be brave and be a good child in kindergarten, so that teachers can see the development of children.

Some children are afraid to go to school by themselves when they are young, parents can also accompany their children appropriately to help children develop a good habit, if children feel very unhappy when they are young, parents should also guide their children, so that children can get better improvement. When children have their own children when they are young, parents should not be noisy with their children, but should actively guide their children to help them find better things and let them do a better job.

For the child's kindergarten inadequacy, it should be effectively spent in this way: prepare for the kindergarten in advance, parents can take their children to visit and adapt to the various environments of the kindergarten; Learn to communicate, communicate and express, the child goes to kindergarten is an independent individual, if he does not communicate and communicate, he will not be able to make friends, so it is likely that he will be excluded from going to kindergarten; When sending your child to kindergarten, don't go back three times in one step.

Be sure to encourage the child, to guide the child, parents must soothe the child's emotions when picking up and dropping off the child, you can bring a snack or toy to the child, and parents should strengthen communication with the teacher.

Parents can talk to their children about some truths, so that their children can feel some good things and do some good things in the kindergarten, so that they can spend quickly.

You can let your child go to kindergarten often in your life, and you can also reason with your child when you come home every day, so that your child can spend it well.

Nowadays, most people usually take their babies to the park in advance to experience two or three months before the baby enters the kindergarten.

This is based on the child's personality.

This is not forced, and the baby must slowly adapt and get used to it.

The reason why the new children love to cry is mainly because the children feel the lack of love and the strangeness of the environment, for the children, from the family to the kindergarten, is a big turning point in life, originally they are used to a lot of people around him at home, at home is the little emperor, the little princess, but in the kindergarten but to share the teacher's love with peers, originally at home always exclusive toys, food, but now to share with peers; At home, the surrounding environment is so familiar, so accustomed, when you arrive at kindergarten, everything is so unfamiliar, so you feel insecure. So, how to help children smoothly through the kindergarten adaptation period? I think there can be several ways to do this:

One. In order to make the kindergarten children adapt to the collective life of the kindergarten as soon as possible, we must first help them overcome the anxiety caused by leaving their parents, so that they can change from being attached to their parents to being attached to their teachers. Therefore, teachers should learn from parents about the situation of their children at home and provide targeted education.

After the children enter the kindergarten, teachers should meet their emotional needs with actions and words, and use love to eliminate their anxiety as soon as possible. The teacher can hug them, touch their heads, pat them on the shoulder, squat down and whisper to them, and even kiss them, so that they can feel the friendliness and cuteness of the teacher, and gradually change from being attached to their parents to being attached to their teachers. No matter how much they coax him, some toddlers can't help it, and they cry all day long.

In order to let children get more love, we can organize "one-to-one" activities in the first few days of school, so that the older brothers and sisters in the large class can eat and play with them, so as to make up for the lack of many children in the classroom.

Two. Provide a variety of activities, so that children can find happiness in the activities and feel the fun of collective life.