Should parents live together if they haven t seen each other? 60

As a person who has never met my parents, I think I can give a few suggestions on whether I can live together

I don't know if you are born in the 90s, my idea is that today's society is so open, cohabitation is also a common thing, and it doesn't have much relevance to see your parents, and the dominant power is still on you;

But you have to know that the purpose of cohabitation is not only to be with each other all the time, but also to observe each other's lives, after all, many daily shortcomings of cohabitation will be exposed, the key is whether each other can accept and understand, after all, it will be a lifetime in the future, if it is not appropriate, then quickly withdraw from it. In addition, if you live together, the girl must protect herself, which is responsible for herself, her children, and her parents.

Nowadays, young men and women fall in love, in fact, many of them live together without going through their parents, in fact, there is no love that should or should not be two people, is it you and me? In real life, many men have encountered such things as women taking the initiative to send messages asking "what are you doing", what about you in general? Today, we will briefly discuss this issue.

First of all, we have to know what it means for a woman to send this sentence, generally speaking, there are two kinds, the first is that I want to ask you for help with something, and the second is that I really miss you. Either way, it means that the woman needs you, and in this case, it depends on how you feel about the woman.

If you don't have affection for her, then you can directly reply "I'm sorry, I have something to do now, and I'll get back to you when I'm done." The reply to this sentence is actually quite clever, it can clearly express your current situation, but also be polite, and it can also make the woman understand your attitude. If you have a crush on this woman, then you can use the following 3 ways.

1. Humorous.

If a smart man is interested in a woman, when he sees her sending a message, he will use flirtatious words, such as "I am thinking of you". This kind of will make the girl feel shy and blush, and even if it is not interesting to you, her heart will fluctuate after hearing such words. In fact, most women like men who are funny and humorous, because such men are interesting and they will feel very happy with them.

Women have always been more emotional, and they feel that whoever they are happy with will choose to be with this person.

2. Statement.

There are also some men who will use declarative words to women, such as "I'm thinking about things", and most women will see such a reply and ask what they are thinking, so that there is a topic for chatting. This kind of reply is actually very similar to the mentality of a woman when she asks a man for help, and a man can use this way to intersect with a woman and make your life more interconnected, so that it will become more and more familiar.

3. Rhetorical question.

When seeing a woman send a message of "what are you doing", some men will reply with rhetorical words, such as "what are you doing", when seeing a man send such a message, women will often tell the man what they are doing now. If we look at it from the depths, women only ask this sentence after thinking about men, maybe they want to ask you for help, maybe they really miss you, no matter what it is, their purpose is to be able to see you. The man asks the woman, and the woman will tell the man where she is, and the man will be able to go directly to the woman.

If you are a smart man, you have to learn these methods above when you see these three words from a woman, like it or not, as long as it is in place, you can achieve your goal.

Judging from your description, I feel that you should find a chance to meet his parents and communicate before living together.

After all, his parents are not optimistic about your future, you are a girl, how can you be cautious, meet and talk to his parents, it depends on the attitude of his parents.

You should not live together until you have met each other's parents, and you need to tell each other's parents about a relationship, which is also a sign of respect for them. When you are in a relationship, you generally do not live together, and you will start living together a year or two before you decide to get married, and you will get used to each other first to see if the other person can really be consistent.

Don't let him get you too easily. The easier it is, the more likely it is that he won't value you.

In the same way, don't let his family think that you are cheap, and he can get you without paying for it.

If you go to live together like this, his family will look down on you in their hearts, although they don't say it.

You have to ask their family to pay a certain price so that they will feel that you are what they have worked hard to get, and they will cherish it.

Your boyfriend wants to live with you when your relationship is not very stable, he has bad intentions, you are stupid.

If you don't want to have a long-term development with him, then don't live together, if you want to have a long-term development or get married with him, then you can't live together, if he loves you, he will first ask for your parents' consent, and he will respect you more.

If you can't get the blessing of your relatives, you will have a lot of troubles when you are reluctantly together in the end, cohabitation is generally nothing for men, if you can't walk together, then the last person who will be hurt is the woman! Measure it yourself, if he is very assertive and can be the master of his parents, it would be better, I am afraid that in the end he will have to listen to the opinions of his family, and he does not want to fall out with his family, and hesitates, then he can only be dragged and hurt! There is a problem with social cognition, it's okay for a man to talk about a few before he gets married, but not for a woman, as soon as people hear that you have talked about how many boyfriends you have lived together, then they will start to frown!

If you break up in the future, since the other parent is unwilling, then you should not live with him, if you break up in the future, if you break up in the future, you will be hurt the most by yourself, and the most hurt is yourself.

Parents who have not seen each other should not live together. Don't make any impulsive decisions without parental consent.

I haven't seen the man's parents, no matter how good the relationship is, I can't live together, I feel that you are too casual and look down on you, this kind of marriage without the blessing of adults is unhappy, I advise you to think carefully, and it is yourself who will be hurt in the future.

There is no one set answer to this kind of thing, it depends on your specific situation.

But it can be seen that the key to the problem is not whether you have met your parents, but whether there is a foundation for the two of you to go on.

Now there are a few people in this society who are in love and don't live together. There aren't many girls like you anymore. In fact, if you don't see your parents and you are old enough to get married, you shouldn't live together.

It's up to the two of you. You're right, you shouldn't live together if you don't see your parents.

You don't need to ask this kind of question, you just need to think about it, if one day he is not the person who accompanies you all your life, can you bear the consequences of handing yourself over, and whether your next president can accept this fact. If you have a next term and can't accept it, then you can also say frankly that you can't accept it, then don't be together. If you can, cohabitation is naturally not a problem, this is your right, you have to be responsible for the results when you enjoy power, and your next one also has its own choices and principles, there is no right or wrong.

It feels like you're not clear about what you want, and you and your boyfriend aren't very good at communicating. You also haven't figured out what exactly you're going to do, what your plans are, like when you're going to get married? When to stay together?

What will be the future of work and life? How is it possible that you rush to the elders without thinking about what to do, trying to make a good impression? The two of you have to think about all aspects clearly, how to do what to do, so that the elders will feel that you are not playing with temper and emotions, but are really thinking about the future, thinking about the other person and yourself.

You want your boyfriend to make a choice, and you don't even have a little room to think and think of a way, so naturally there is no good result. If you want the other parent to be able to at least agree, you have to show your attitude first, and you don't have to rush at this time, think calmly first, step by step.

If two people are truly in love, it is okay to live together before seeing their parents, only when the interpupillary distance is biochemical together can we know more directly whether two people can live together, and some small details in life can test the solidity of the feelings of two people, and make the feelings of two people stronger after running-in.

Cohabitation is not recommended if you do not intend to get married.

Since the other party's parents are unwilling, then you should not live with him, if you break up in the future, you will be hurt the most.

If the parents of both parties have not met, it is better not to live together, so as not to disagree with the parents, and when the two people break up, it will cause great harm to each other.

Don't cohabit. Even if you are clinging to each other, you still need to think carefully about cohabitation, and you can tell your parents that you have a partner or something like that, so that both parents know.

I don't think it's better. Otherwise, it is easy to leave a bad impression on both parents, and I personally think that it is better not to live together.

If the parents of both parties have not met, they should not live together, which is conducive to the self-protection of the girl, and the parents of both parties have not yet met and have not decided on the relationship, so as not to lead to conflicts due to the disagreement of the subsequent parents.

That is, don't live together, the other party may cheat on your feelings, you yourself just need to be careful and be a good person.

I think depending on the depth of your own feelings, I don't think it's okay to live together, I didn't even tell my parents that I was in love, I lived with my boyfriend.

Don't cohabit. The two parties should not rush to live together before they are sure to talk about marriage, especially girls, this is responsible for themselves, girls must know how to protect themselves, and if boys respect girls enough, they will not forcibly say that they live together.

I think it's better not to be the best, girls should know how to love themselves before getting married, and boys should know to respect girls before they get married.

I think it's necessary, but there are a few things that have already been met before cohabitation.

1. Both parties are engaged or both parents have met and agreed to this family business.

2. Both parties have decided to get married and have planned a time.

3. It's okay to live together for three months, don't take too long.

4. Don't let both parents know about cohabitation.

I know that some people will doubt the above points, and I will also say that I am still so conservative and feudal in the 21st century, so let's take a look at the root of this problem, why live together, cohabitation is to understand each other's living habits at a deeper level, three months is enough time to understand whether the various habits of TA are acceptable to you, I have seen a divorce case before, because the way the two parties squeeze toothpaste is different, one squeezes from above, one from below, and then neither party will let it, and it will be divorced.

This is just one of the things, other things like sleepwalking, not brushing your teeth and washing your feet before going to bed, smoking in the room, often being called out by friends to drink and coming back unconscious and incapable of doing anything other than vomiting, are you okay with all of this?

Marriage is made up of trivial things, compared to a person's life, married life is more down-to-earth, and cohabitation is to pave the way for future married life, not to let people only enjoy the pleasure of possessing each other without responsibility, are not protected by the law, or do less.

Finally, don't let the parents of both sides know that the matter of cohabitation, no matter what, is still more unfriendly to girls, not to mention that it perishes early in the morning, girls are always the disadvantaged group, China's thousands of years of traditions and habits, not overnight, nor can it be changed in time to the 21st century, and the preference for sons over daughters cannot be changed, let alone others.

First, it is of course best to tell this way, after both parties decide to be together with you, tell your parents frankly, this will not only show your determination, but also make them less worried, and you can invite your parents to come over to "play", so that both men and women can not only show themselves in front of their future parents, but they will also understand better. Of course, there will still be a lot of moral pressure and future worries for girls, and they may go home to help their boyfriends wash clothes, cook, etc. At this time, we ask boys to help girls share the financial pressure, and more importantly, they are considerate of her, help her share the housework, and ask boys to prepare more small surprises.

Fit. Not good at all. It also leaves both parents feeling embarrassed and helpless.

Young people are too realistic. This open-mindedness more or less distresses male parents. Maybe you think that men are taking advantage of it.

In fact, young people are in love for two or three months. In exchange, I don't know what year their son got married? Your parents are exhausted.

When you're pregnant, close your eyes and say it again, or you'll be engaged for a few months.

<> soon after they met, they took advantage of living without knowing their parents. In fact, young people are in love for two or three months. In exchange, I don't know what year their son got married?

Your parents are exhausted. When you're pregnant, close your eyes and say it again, or you'll be engaged for a few months. Together.

It's really dry firewood and dry fire, but they probably don't think too much about what happens after dry wood and dry fire. Alas, it can only be said that they are too young. I'm afraid they haven't even thought clearly about what to do with human life, so they can't wait to taste the forbidden fruit.

Since ancient times, men have been "worried about marriage" and not women "worried about marriage". Is it "impatient" to see that you want to stay in this man's home? In the countryside, there is an old saying that "hot tofu can't be eaten in a hurry".

Aren't you afraid of being "hot" instead of "hot tofu"? Just kidding, maybe you're in a "don't run, don't run" situation.

There is no provision in the laws of this country, and it usually depends on the customs of your location. Now there are many places that do not taboo and pay attention to these things. Either way, whether it's your daughter or your family, the feeling that blood is thicker than water is the most precious.

Finally, it must be agreed by your own family. The principle is to do things well, and don't use the relationship of the whole family as a standard!

They go out to work, meet people they love outside, talk freely about love, and live together. Then the boy returned to their house with the girl. Some parents are old, the conditions, environment and various reasons are very poor, and the girl goes to the man's house and even gives birth to several children.

Her children are huge. Before the death of the old man, the parties (in-laws) had never met and had never met. Some girls haven't even returned to their mother's house, let alone met (in-laws).

In the past, some girls were trafficked to remote mountainous areas.