When you get married, will you choose to live with the other parent? Why?

Definitely not, nothing will be said, it's too unfree,

I really don't want to live with my mother-in-law anymore, although my mother-in-law is very good, but the elderly talk too much, or people can't stand it!

I won't live together, unless they don't have a house, so I've lived with the old man for more than ten years, and I've summed up that there is no benefit, and the disgusting things are all on me, sowing discord so much that we almost didn't get divorced, and my mother-in-law is still pretending to be innocent! Therefore, don't live together, renting a house is better than living together.

It is never possible to accept parents to live with them, and I feel that there are many problems in the family that lives with me, so it is better not to step into such a family again.

Especially if the parents are old and the mother-in-law is paralyzed in bed, people in such a family are a little mentally ill, which is not normal.

From the eldest sister's engagement failure, to the second aunt who just doesn't get married, the father-in-law is a stubborn old turtle egg, and the son is a believer, who marries in such a family, who feels disgusted to the family!!

Yes, as long as you don't interfere too much.

I'm living with my family now. Because of the love of the family.

I won't be killed, I'm used to being pure, I'm annoying when there are too many people, and I can't stand my old woman.

Yes, because my mother-in-law spent half of her savings to repay the debt when we got married, I have to pay off the debt for my mother-in-law and repay the favor of the old man. Because it is not easy to raise a son, raising a son and raising a grandson, especially my mother-in-law's generation has to serve her in-laws' family when she is young, and it is really not easy to serve her daughter-in-law's family when she is old.

No, because I feel like we need a two-person world, and their distractions make me feel uncomfortable.

I would not choose to live with my parents because I felt that living with them for a long time would cause unnecessary trouble.

I don't like it, I don't like the fact that there are many people in my family, and besides, I don't have a close relationship with my parents, let alone with each other's parents.

It's also good to live with your parents, you don't have to worry about things at home, and you can take care of your children.

I will choose to live with the other party's parents, I like to live with my parents at home, I can handle the other party's parents, the relationship can be maintained very well, relatives say that I am a person who is very popular with my parents' generation.

Yes. Because since they are married, the other party's parents are also their own parents. Filial piety to the elders is our traditional Chinese virtue.

After I get married, I usually don't choose to live with the other party's parents for a long time, because there are always things uncontrollable.

Personally, I am very reluctant to live with my parents, regardless of which parent they are.

No, getting married is to start a new family, to have your own space, there is no need for your parents to come together, let alone your own parents.

Generally speaking, parents who are really suitable for living with children do not want to live with their children. Whether it's in-laws or mothers-in-law.

My mom moved out after my kids went to kindergarten and my husband was very reluctant. Because when my mom is at my house, she can not only watch the children do housework, but also chat and guide him when he has problems at work. The key is that my mother has a good personality and high emotional intelligence, never dislikes and blames her son-in-law, and does not interfere in our lives.

Before marriage, when I had a bunch of men with a house and a car to choose from, I supported me to choose him who didn't have a house or a car, and my husband always felt that he and my mother were like thousands of miles to meet Bole.

The next thing is that we go to my parents' house every Friday night and stay until Sunday, and my mother is giving her opinion, and she thinks we are interfering with her normal life.

However, there are very few cases in my family, and most of them take the initiative to live with their children, whether they are mothers-in-law or mothers-in-law, and in the end there are a bunch of family conflicts.

Why? Because parents who don't want to get involved with their children's lives think that adults have their own lives.

I have to live with my children, or I feel that I can't survive if I raise a giant baby (this kind of old man and child are huge pits, and I can't even take care of the intercourse of the young couple); Or I feel that it is time for me to let my children be filial (when children get married, the average parents are only fifty or sixty, and some are even in their forties, and this kind of selfish parents are easy to raise foolish children, and the spouses who live together are not the Virgin Mary and can't stand the thankless days).

These two parents are not suitable for living with any outsiders, not only will they have conflicts with their children and spouses, but you will also make it difficult for them to go out and share a house with others or live in a group dormitory.

The best distance between parents and parents is to be neighbors, separated by a bowl of soup, which means that the living distance between parents and children's homes is not far away, and it is just not cold to cook a bowl of soup and send it over. It is convenient to visit the elderly and not to live together, the distance produces beauty, each has its own space, and gets along more happily, of course, the premise is that there are these economic conditions. Parents manage too much, there is a big gap between the two generations, and they are reluctant to live with their parents, but some people's parents are old and physically inconvenient and do need the next generation to take care of them, so the specific situation of each family is different, and the choices made are different.

Parents and children are two generations, and their living habits and concepts are quite different; Whether the juniors are with their father-in-law and mother-in-law, or with their parents-in-law, there will be some differences in their daily life. In terms of work and rest time. Young people may go to bed late, and in the morning they will wake up a little bit; In order not to be late, breakfast is often skipped.

The elderly, on the other hand, generally go to bed earlier at night, and tend to get up early in the morning to make breakfast and wait for their children to eat together; If you see that the breakfast you have prepared carefully is neglected, you will feel a diaphragm in your heart over time.

In the face of such high housing prices, the younger generation should not expect to buy a house, a month's salary is not enough for their own expenses, and they can only buy a house in the year of the monkey? Therefore, most of today's young people who want to buy a house in the city have to rely on the support of their parents. In the face of such a precious house, will the average young person live with his parents after getting married?

Is it good to live with your parents? In fact, whether it is good to live with parents or not depends entirely on whether the individual is broad-minded or narrow-minded.

Some people say that living with their parents after getting married, not only is there no inconvenience, but it can even be said to be a very happy thing, usually they only need to commute to work, and they don't have to worry about everything at home, because the housework is basically done by the mother, and there is food to eat when they get home from work, and the floor is dirty and someone drags. And children and parents living together will also be very gratifying for parents, with children with them, parents are naturally much happier, and accompanying parents to grow old together is also a way to fulfill filial piety.

Some people say that it is not advisable to live with parents after marriage, not only because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with since ancient times, but also because the living habits of the elderly are very different from those of young people.

In fact, this view is not wrong, it is true that the elderly and their children are people of different generations, and it is normal to have a generation gap in thought, and it is understandable to live separately, and it is not unfilial piety not to live with the elderly. But we hope that people in this situation must remember to go home often!

I think whether or not they want to live with their parents after marriage depends entirely on the young people's hearts, and people with big hearts will not let their parents live alone, they will choose to take the initiative to take care of their parents and accompany them until they are old. And narrow-minded people can't tolerate a little bad habit of their parents when they get old, and even their parents' care will be seen as nagging.

If it were me, I would choose to live separately from my parents after I got married, because this would not only reduce the friction between the two families, but also promote the relationship between the two families. After all, different ages and different living habits, first of all, the time to go to bed every day and the time to get up are not synchronized, which may cause some effects on parents' daily life, such as young people go to bed late and wake up late, while the elderly go to bed early and get up early. The inability to reach a reunification at this time will also affect the work and rest time of both parties, second.

Living with my parents, my living habits are different, and I may eat and use different things every day, and my parents will definitely have some thoughts after a long time. This increases the opportunity for friction between the two sides. Parents are definitely more frugal in spending money, but young people may spend more, which will also make parents feel that the life of two people is more wasteful, which will cause the fuse of quarrels.

So I suggest that after getting married, try to live separately from my parents, so that the distance can be beautiful, go to my parents for a meal every week or every two days or three days, and choose a house when you choose the same community, which is relatively close, so that it is more convenient to take care of life in the future. Living separately from my parents after getting married is not a disconnection from my parents, it's just that every family has a lot of things, in fact, after getting married, it's not for me to be completely separated from my parents' life, so to speak, I can go to my parents for dinner every week, I can go to my parents for dinner every week, I can go to my parents for dinner every week, I can have two family gatherings a month, and I don't live together, it doesn't mean that we are emotionally estranged.

I would live alone on a planet.

I could well accept living with my parents after I got married. But I want to keep my parents at arm's length in my life. The reason why this is so is that living with parents after marriage can better take care of parents, differences in living habits and concepts make it difficult to live with parents after marriage, and maintaining a moderate distance from parents after marriage is the most beneficial to maintain a harmonious relationship.

1. Living with their parents after marriage can take better care of their parents, which is the obligation of children. It is the duty of children to support their parents. After marriage, children must take care of their parents in their lives so that they can live happily and happily.

And the way of living and living together with your parents is obviously the most conducive to taking care of your parents. Therefore, I can fully accept the lifestyle of living with my parents, Hu Qianyu, after marriage. 2. Living with parents after marriage may cause conflicts due to differences in living habits and concepts.

Living with your parents when you get married, having a good time as a family, and having children who can take better care of your parents seems perfect, but there are problems. Specifically, there are very large differences between parents and children in terms of living habits and attitudes, and these differences can lead to conflicts between the two parties when they live together because of some specific problems. Such a state of affairs is obviously not conducive to the emotional harmony between family members, so more appropriate measures need to be taken.

3. When you get married, keeping a certain distance from your parents is the most beneficial to the harmony of your relationship. Although I am completely comfortable with living with my parents, I think the best way is to keep a certain distance from my parents, specifically, I can live with my parents on different floors or in different units of the same building, so that both parties can live in a relatively independent space, and at the same time, I can rush to the scene in the shortest possible time, so I think this lifestyle should be the best choice between myself and my parents after marriage.

Not accepted. Marriage is when two people form a new family, not when one person merges into another person's family. There are always people in the name of filial piety, burning hail and asking to live with their parents after marriage, so that it is convenient to take care of each other, and even parents can help with the children and do housework.

Of course, many parents are also happy to do it for the sake of their children.

After all, our parents are not the same generation as us, and the two generations have different living habits and lifestyles. Two people who have never crossed paths in their previous lives live together, they are cautious of each other and may dislike each other, they seem to be harmonious but they are full of contradictions, and they are full of grievances, and they are even unspeakably uncomfortable, maybe they will eventually explode one day!

If there are conditions, it is better to live separately if you can live separately, there are not so many things, you can worry about each other, and you will not be stiff because of a little trivial thing. Not all mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who live with their parents after marriage are at odds with each other, but most of them will have more or less, big and small conflicts.

There are still times when there is a quarrel between mother and daughter, not to mention two women who are not related by blood! Because of blood relationship, many mothers and daughters quarrel without holding grudges, and they should kiss the same. But the quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is different, and it is easy to create estrangement and become enemies after a quarrel.

If there are more grievances accumulated over time, a war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will break out, which will also affect the relationship between husband and wife.

In the process of running in the marriage relationship, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels. If only two people live, the general conflict will be resolved in three or five days. However, if you live with your parents, your parents will inevitably favor your children, and it will be more difficult for one of the spouses to recognize their mistakes under the protection of their parents, which will make it more difficult for the conflict to be resolved smoothly and arbitrarily.

Filial piety to parents and worry about not being able to take care of their parents can take their parents to the same community, of course, under the condition that the strength and ability of both parties allow.

However, if both parties accept to live with their parents and get along well, it is of course a good choice.