Why do feelings fade so easily?

Since you are already old, why give up the standard? I should be like you, but I don't want to get married for the sake of a family. Human life is short, and if it was just for such a simple reason, you could have done it a few years ago, right?

If you walk into the siege of your home with someone you are not very satisfied with, it will not only hurt you, but also hurt him, and you think how irresponsible is it that you didn't put your love on this man and on this home? Of course you can do everything that any wife can do, but what about your spirit? What about your heart?

If you don't do it with your heart, can you still call it a home? In addition, even if you get married, you have to face having children, because your age is here, find someone who should be about the same as you, if the run-in period has not passed, or you have a child before you have a successful relationship after marriage, can you get rid of it? If you give birth to a child, then you have more responsibilities on your shoulders than half a star.

On the bright side, you have indeed put your heart into it, and your relationship has been successful after marriage, so of course this is the best. But it's a little bit less likely. So many people who love each other before marriage may not be able to go to the end.

Your already unstable home, and if you have another child, you will be anxious for you when you think about it. The little life that has just arrived in this home will add infinite hope to you and deepen the natural connection between you and him before, but the child is not a cat or a dog, you have to take care of it very carefully, and men are basically not more patient with this, so can you hold on to it after a long time? If you don't leave like this, you won't have a choice, and you will only be miserable in this kind of marriage for the rest of your life; Left, what should the child do?

Whether it's with you or with him, it's a big blow to a child, and there is no child in the world who doesn't want to live with his parents!

Therefore, don't take that path lightly and harm others and yourself.

The one who ends up together is not necessarily the most loved, but it will definitely be the most suitable.

Although feelings cannot be ignored and despised by others, they are not as important as we think.

In fact, no one can give an accurate definition of why people live. But I only know that if I live, I will change the reality sooner or later.

Hey, after talking so much, I just want to tell you that the partner is to find the one that suits you. If you can be rational, try to be rational.

What is affection?The director will have feelings. Find someone who loves yourself. Live your life lightly.

Finally, I wish you happiness.

Of course, marriage is based on feelings, some people may say that they get married first and then slowly cultivate feelings, but those are all later, who can guarantee that after marriage, they will definitely be able to cultivate feelings with each other.

But not all people who love each other can get married, there are too many factors to consider when getting married, I am also planning to marry my boyfriend, but the family does not agree with me and I have to divide it, the family asked me to go on a blind date, I think even if I take a step back and accept the family arrangement, but the premise is that I have to have feelings for the man, otherwise how can I let myself live with a person who does not feel strangers at all for a lifetime, I want to give his happiness to him and make him happy, where is the happiness without an emotional foundation.

In fact, I have always believed that fate is destined, no matter how much you love each other, how deep the feelings are, there is no way to end the fate, the destined person will appear sooner or later, and the sadness is inevitable now, but one day you will get your own happiness, bless you

Feelings are both real and illusory, if not managed and maintained well, it is easy to break, especially in this impetuous society, but if two people have a common purpose, then say another thing, look down, cherish what you have, and don't force it.

Feelings, no one can say, your worries are very normal, women can't withstand the ravages of time, but maybe we should learn from Maggie Cheung, let time take away not age, but immaturity.

In many things, women's eyes are too small and they can only see feelings, in fact, in addition to feelings, it is entirely possible for you to build yourself a little more perfect.

Time arranges you at this point, and it is normal for you to have some pessimistic thoughts, but as long as you believe that time will ** everything, everything will be fine, and focus on work.

What should come will always come, and you can't run away from it, I wish you happiness

If you don't have feelings when you get married, life is boring. But most marriages are boring.

You were colleagues before, which means that you have an emotional foundation, and according to common sense, such a relationship will be relatively long-lasting. Maybe it's because you are colleagues, you see each other every day, and you're in love, the novelty is gone, and his love for you will become dull. Men like freshness, you have to keep your freshness at all times, he will always be interested in you, usually love will become family after a long time.

In the end, how to maintain it is a habit and a responsibility.

I think the first thing to think about is to think about yourself, don't say how a man is, how a middle-aged man is like this, if you usually think like this, I am not sure that I will always be so close to you.

There is only one husband, and he is unique. Either cherish and love recklessly, or let go.

Happiness is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will drain!

When two people are together, they say fate, since they are separated, let go of him and go to find your new life.

If you are too persistent, you will lose too much.

There will be bread, and there will be love.

Summary. Fading feelings mean that those emotions such as love, friendship, and family affection have gradually disappeared, worn out, or lost the heat and meaning of existence in the past. These feelings may slowly fade away due to the passage of time, changes in life experience, changes in interpersonal relationships, etc., just like flowing water, and eventually become memories.

Sometimes, feelings that have passed away can also make people feel helpless and sad, because the good memories and emotional bonds of the past have been lost, and people have to face new life situations and emotional experiences. Fading feelings may be a kind of growth in life and a kind of shaping of personality, and they have left a deep imprint and experience in our spiritual world.

Fading feelings mean that those emotions such as love, friendship, and family affection have gradually disappeared, worn out, or lost the heat of the past and the meaning of existence. These feelings may slowly fade away due to the passage of time, changes in life experience, changes in interpersonal relationships, etc., just like flowing water, and eventually become memories. Sometimes, feelings that have passed away can also make people feel helpless and sad, because the good memories and emotional bonds of the past have been lost, and people have to face new life situations and emotional blind experiences.

Fading feelings may be a kind of growth in life and a kind of shaping of personality, and they have left a deep imprint and experience in our spiritual world.

Excuse me, but please go into more detail?

Fading feelings mean that those emotions such as love, friendship, and family affection have gradually disappeared, worn out, or lost the heat of the past and the meaning of existence. These feelings may slowly fade away due to the passage of time, changes in life experience, changes in interpersonal relationships, etc., just like flowing water, and eventually become memories. Sometimes, feelings that have passed away can also make people feel helpless and sad, because the good memories and emotional bonds of the past have been lost, and people have to face new life situations and emotional blind experiences.

Fading feelings may be a kind of growth in life and a kind of shaping of personality, and they have left a deep imprint and experience in our spiritual world.

This is because society is developing too fast now. The old and the new alternate. The concept is different. The standard of living is different. Recognize the difference. Numerous issues are intertwined. Can't figure it out. So in life. Contradictions emerge one after another.

Feelings of both parties. are prone to change. Sometimes it's a lot of trouble. Socks touch the firewood and rice in life to crack the oil and salt. No one can take care of it. This makes it easy to quarrel. and arguing again.

Don't give in. Therefore, the relationship is easy to die.

There are two problems that can arise from determining a partnership too quickly, the first is that determining a relationship too quickly will reduce the value of the woman or a partner in the relationship.

The second point is that two people do not know each other deeply enough, which will lead the balance to cross the adaptation period and directly enter the love period, and the conflict outbreak of the later breakup contradiction will also come extremely fast, I bury a deep hidden danger for the breakup or the breakdown of the relationship, so it is generally not recommended to establish this emotional relationship with each other too quickly.

In the final analysis, whether the relationship can last for a long time depends on whether the three views of the two people are compatible, whether the two people are both attentive to manage the relationship, and whether one party has a strong ability to solve the problem. Kirino barrage.

It can only be said that there is a certain causal connection between the relationship between too fast and dying too quickly, but it is not inevitable.

I've seen acquaintances who have known each other for a few years and broke up a month after they were confirmed to be lovers;

I have also seen two people who fell in love at first sight, and they have been like glue after falling in love quickly.

The previous relationship was very simple, and the current relationship needs material things, etc. as a basis.