Isn t it true that people should not get precious things too early

The vicissitudes of the world have changed, and the pain we perceive now will become ridiculous and meaningless in a few decades. Maybe it's just a temporary emotional setback, maybe it's just an annoying boredom at work, maybe it's just a dilemma, but it's not really a big pain. There are many, many people in the world, small people, and even big people, who have experienced far more suffering than this, and we should naturally be more calm than them.

However, our hearts are also made of flesh and blood, so how can our joys, sorrows, and sorrows be untrue? The end of a bitter relationship, the failure of a beautiful dream, and the miss of a life opportunity, why not break our hearts? It is so cruel to appear in front of your eyes, telling you that this is a real reality, at this time, who can not help but cry in their hearts?

But I believe that those who live strong and wise people, after suffering, will regain their smiles and add a more mature feeling to their hearts.

When the love we expected is disappointed, at first, maybe we feel that we have lost that person, and what you regret is that you can no longer be with that person day and night, and everything you know is a thing of the past. But when you think that happiness is taken away by others, this feeling of exclusion burns your heart so much, you have given so much, sacrificed so much, and the result is the ...... you are least willing to accept

But later, you gradually find that in this love, what you really lose is not that person, or not just that person, that vague shadow is no longer as infinitely reminiscent as it was at the beginning, but it is you who is really lost! When you love someone, it's good to expect her love, but in fact, if you think about it carefully, isn't this expectation to prove that you have made the right choice? For the sake of love, you can betray your relatives, you can make a desperate bet, and you can even go to the soup and ......All that you do must be justified by the love you finally get.

Maybe you will never admit self-denial, but as long as you have ever been emotionally moved and hearted, then, in the quiet of the night, you can ask yourself again whether it is really necessary to still struggle to the death in the face of the failure of your love.

No matter what you encounter in life, it will be solved, live well, love yourself well!

If you don't want to hurt, maybe everyone will forget about it, send a message, talk about irrelevant issues, the weather, the scenery, and return to the happy life before.

Young and ignorant have already said that they have no intention

You can try to contact them and maybe they will be happy to receive your blessings

Why do people always know how to cherish it after they have lost it?

You may not think it's going to be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

So when you lose him, you will think that he is valuable, if you cherish him at the beginning, he will not leave you now. Cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame.

What you can't get is the best?

I never think that what I can't get is the best, because everyone else has the same idea, and I will have different ideas, which may be why I am different from others. Personally, I think that what I can't get may not belong to me, so what else do I pursue if I don't belong to me, even if I go, in the end it was a circle, tired, only to understand that to pursue those who do not belong to me at the same time, there are a lot of things I should cherish but not cherished. But why did you understand it later, and why didn't you understand it in the first place?

If you don't just look at the surface, don't just look at the present, think more about what the result will be, and you won't do unnecessary things. So think clearly in advance about whether what you do is worth it. Do what you think is worthwhile, so that you don't regret it in the end.

When people have it, Bai always takes those happiness for granted, dao

I thought that it would never be far away from myself, and over time, I was used to enjoying and accepting, but I forgot to give, forgot to dedicate, forgot that she also needs your care, needs your love, and every feeling needs to be responded to. didn't realize that the happiness that had always surrounded him would one day be far away from him. People always think that those who can't get the best are the best, but in fact, they don't realize the simple happiness around them, so too many people don't know how to cherish it until they lose it.

Because I can't get it, I will have regrets in my heart, and I will do everything I can to get it. That's why I cherish the opportunity to get it.

Because people always cherish what they don't get and forget what they have!