How to deal with love in the third year of junior high school, and how to break up when you fall in

In some cases, it is necessary to love someone. He or she is able to give you confidence and courage to become confident. Positive love is not for fun, just because in adolescence there will be a process of knowing the difference, and more or less think that it is love.

If it is really love, then you should think about the future, better complete your studies in the cooperation of two people, love a person can also turn it into motivation, and with the encouragement of the other party, you will be better than usual to complete what you are not good at, and you have faith in your heart, you will improve your own many deficiencies ......

This is the change that happened after I fell in love with someone, because I had thoughts, I had motivation, and his spirit and perseverance touched me, making me study harder than before, and sit on someone who could match him. ）

If you graduated from junior high school and went to a school, you don't have to worry, if not, you'd better study the key points of the exam, and if you have a successful career, you don't have a woman.

The ignorance of junior high school students, such a feeling is so hazy. Many times, the feeling of smoke and fog is much more wonderful than the feeling of a puddle of water. First love is actually a feeling, a very beautiful feeling, a feeling that we will never forget for the rest of our lives.

In fact, I think the love in junior high school is really pure My first girlfriend also started talking in the third year of junior high school, it was already April and I was going to take the high school entrance examination in June At that time, I was the best in the class, she could be in the top ten at most, but because my junior high school was not very good, I could go to the focus, and she might not even be able to go to high school. At that time, I told her, you give me a serious study, seize the last time, if you can't get into the top 200 in the mock exam, I will ignore you. She didn't study very seriously, but she was very obedient, she immediately went to buy a lot of reference books and started to do it, if there was anything she didn't understand, I would help her answer everything, and finally I went to our best high school, and she barely got to the point.

In fact, the feelings at that time were really simple, study hard, don't think too much

It's very simple, urge each other to study together, and test the key points together!

In the process of getting along, with the continuous extension of the time spent together and the deepening of mutual understanding, two people feel more and more uncomfortable with each other, and it is more and more difficult to continue to get along.

At this time, it is faced with the problem of breaking up.

If you get together and disperse, you may continue to be friends;

Otherwise, they may break up and become enemies.

How to bring up a breakup?

1. Directly propose to break up.

It is to directly propose to break up with the other party.

Tu Lei in the TV blind date festival.

The teacher said: Love, please really love, if you don't love, please let go!

When two people are together, they must love each other well and love each other sincerely;

If you can't love anymore together, and you don't love anymore, you break up happily.

Break up happily, so that you can get together and scatter hemp, which is not only responsible for the other party, but also responsible for yourself.

Sometimes, breaking up is also a kind of love, but this kind of love is the love of regret and the love of blessings.

Second, euphemistically propose to break up.

It is to euphemistically propose to the other party to break up.

If the other party is introverted and not good at words, you can tactfully express to the other party that you want to break up.

For example, under the pretext that he is busy with work, he asks the other party to suspend the relationship;

Due to personality differences, it is recommended that both parties consider it carefully;

Because I may work in other places, I can't bear to live separately in the future.

When you euphemistically ask yourself to break up, you should be soft and steely.

Try not to leave the other party room for renegotiation or maneuver to avoid causing more trouble.

This depends on the personality of the other party, and when you were together, who was the one who took the initiative? If you took the initiative at the time, and now you mention breaking up, you should pay attention to one point, combine the other person's personality, and be as tactful as possible. In addition, you can also explain to him directly, because the third year of junior high school is more critical after all, so at this time, if you both of you are speaking, you should focus all your energy on learning, and I believe she can understand it.

Finally, I wish you all the best in the high school entrance examination.

Hello, the third year of junior high school is a turning point, try to break up after the end of the high school entrance examination, so that it is good for both parties, if you don't want to be together after the high school entrance examination, you can directly propose to break up, don't feel embarrassed to propose.

Just say, I don't want to continue! Prepare for the high school entrance examination! You said, for the sake of the future of the two of us, work hard, rush a hand, and be admitted to a school in the future. So don't look for me now, I need time to learn.

In the third year of junior high school, I fell in love and proposed to break up like this: I said that the two of you are young, and now you have to focus on your studies, and you will be together if you are destined in the future.

Just break up and express the reason for your breakup, preferably peacefully.

You just study hard and don't want to be disturbed. Mention the breakup.

Directly said that it affects learning, and the third year of junior high school will indeed affect learning, so it's better to study hard at this time.

When you fall in love in the third year of junior high school, the best reason to break up is to focus on your studies, and it is easy to be distracted when you fall in love, and then everyone understands.

Make an agreement and see you at a key high school, so that you can use the breakup as a motivation to be admitted to a good school.

Pig three fall in love. can focus on academics, Zhai Zhu broke up.

When I was studying, falling in love was all fake, just playing on the spot. Let's just say, after the college entrance examination, I want to concentrate on studying, and then fall in love after graduating from college.

When you get into high school or college, you won't be able to be together, and then it's best to break up and see what method works best for you.

Put down love and study hard, I'll wait for you at Peking University....

1. Children in junior high school have begun to enter puberty, and if male and female classmates are attracted to each other's failures, they may fall in love early and affect their learning. Parents are very worried about this situation, and some find out and don't know what to do. I would like to give you a suggestion on how to deal with it.

2. If you find that your child is in early love, don't be in a hurry, let alone rudely accuse, stop, or even find the other party's parents to intervene together to prevent it like a thief, which will not work well, and will even make the child make excessive behavior or danger due to rebellious psychology.

3. The correct way is to find an opportunity to talk to the child calmly, you can find out, hear or find that there are such signs, is it true? If you don't admit it, don't press it, if you do, ask your child what advantages, benefits, and aspects of the other person attract you.

4. After listening, point out the wrong and wrong judgments if they are unreasonable, reasonably express their agreement, and tell the children that because they are attracted to each other, pay attention to each other, and care, sometimes they can urge themselves to work harder and have a good side.

5. However, you are still young, you don't understand what is the love of a bad person, your love is actually a misunderstanding of friendship, love needs to take responsibility for each other, you are only junior high school, you can't take any responsibility, in the future, high school, college, the chance of everyone still being together is very small, they will go their separate ways, and your love will not have any results.

6. Life has just begun, the road behind is too long, you now feel very good, attached to each other, after a period of time you may find that he (she) still has a lot of shortcomings, you go to high school, go to college, will come into contact with more classmates, friends, you will find that the current so-and-so was very general, high school, college than him (her) better and more perfect Yes, when you participate in the work, go to society, you will find that now your view is too low.

7. There is no grass at the end of the world, but if you don't study hard, you can't get into the ideal high school or university, you can't find your ideal job, you can't do a good job in your own life, and you can't choose the brother (girl) you like no matter how much you like, and then you will only regret and regret it.

8. For a better job, a better love, and a better life in the future, now, you should concentrate on studying, instead of early love.