After 5 years with my partner, he doesn t seem to like me as much as he used to, what should I do?

You can try to get away from him for a while, you won't feel sad, and your life won't be very distracted, then I think you may really dislike him, because since you can't afford him, then you can start a new life of your own, so his existence is not that important.

You can communicate more with your partner, understand your partner's inner thoughts, you can travel with your partner, you can cook a delicious meal for your partner, you can go to the movies, and you can warm up your relationship.

You can take the initiative to say some nice things to each other, and also take each other to say some places where the two people have been before, rethink the memories of the two people, go to some romantic places, and travel.

You can or many of the same as your partner, you can solve your partner's inner thoughts, you can maybe go on a trip with your partner, you can or maybe cook a delicious meal for your partner, you can or maybe arrange to go to the movies, all of them can warm up your emotions.

If you've been with your partner for a long time but don't feel that he loves you anymore, here are some things you can do to adjust your relationship:

1.Confirm each other's feelings. First of all, you need to find a suitable time and place to communicate positively with your partner and ask him what he thinks about your emotions and relationship. By talking, both parties can understand each other's feelings and make targeted adjustments.

2.Targeted problem solving. If you find a problem, such as lifestyle habits, financial problems, etc., both parties should work together to solve the problem.

Finding a solution to a problem requires both parties to work together, establish clear goals and plans, and develop a pragmatic action plan.

3.Show your love for each other. Even if you have any dissatisfaction and concerns, don't forget to express your love and support for your partner. You can care more about your partner's feelings and needs, take the initiative to help him solve problems, and give him some sweet surprises and encouragement.

4.Ask for help. If you are unable to solve the problem on your own, consider seeking professional help. For example, counseling or marriage counselling allows both parties to re-examine their relationship with professional help.

Finally, Duan did not refer to the fact that it takes time and effort to remember that adjusting the state. You and your partner need to communicate, build a collaborative relationship, and work together to solve various problems so that our relationship remains healthy and long-lasting.

Hello. First of all, I can be very qualified for this issue with you, because I went through the same situation as you, but we came through. At that time, we also worried about these practical problems more than once, and quarreled many times.

But in the end, we can come together by indomitable love, and no one will let go. Because of the relationship, I really can't bear to think about it, and it's not worth breaking up because of the actual conditions rather than the relationship, it's ridiculous. So I advise you to stick to it and don't let it go, or you'll regret it.

Secondly, I don't think your family's marriage conditions are too harsh, after all, everyone who gets married is like this now, and your family doesn't want a car after all, which is actually acceptable. His family is in difficulty, but the conditions for marriage still have to be met. I think you can do this, 120,000 bride price can't be given to your parents, you can give 20,000 bride price, 100,000 must be given to you, so that although the man took 120,000, in fact, it was only 20,000, because after you marry him, the 100,000 is still yours, which is also to reassure your parents.

In addition, the down payment of the house, you see if you two have the ability to repay the mortgage, if so, decisively pay the down payment to buy a house, you don't need to buy a big one, the general two-bedroom is enough for the two of you to live in. In this process, let him work hard to make money, so that his family can borrow a total amount of money, it is really impossible to borrow it and pay it back after marriage.

Finally, there is an old saying that "when you get married and build a house, you don't wait for surplus food". It will be difficult for anyone to get married, but don't delay, do everything you can to get married first. If you really don't want to give up, you have to insist on it in this process, refuse every blind date, drag it out like this, let the man work hard, and your family will agree after a long time.

Over, hope, thank you.

If you like it, you won't give up, and if you give up, you won't regret it! Respect the other person, but also respect yourself, if you feel that you can't hold on, then let go early, if you don't want to let go you must persevere.

In fact, as long as you do a few things, you won't be embarrassed.

Tell him what your family wants from the side and see if he will give up. This can be said to be a test.

If she still doesn't give up, you can tell him more about your family.

In fact, I think the final starting point is on your family's side, as long as your family agrees, it's OK, I believe that if you tell him, as a man, if he also likes you, he will definitely find a way to get the future mother-in-law I hope it can help you.

Sooner or later, I have to tell my parents, if you still want to continue with him. I can't explain this kind of thing clearly, so let's talk about your boyfriend first. You said your boyfriend was nice.

Omit a lot in the middle, and then say that he doesn't have much money. Let me talk about the types of people in this family situation in general.

Clause. First, he is really good to you and a person worthy of trust.

Clause. Second, pay great attention to the family, especially filial piety. This one looks pretty good, and I can analyze it slowly.

After you get married, he will put a lot of energy into running the family, not only your family but also his parents. Many times the first thing that comes to his mind may not be you, but his parents. At this time, he will show that he cares too much about his parents, and then ignores your thoughts, and you will have an argument with him, and the more he speaks for his family, the more angry you are, and finally the distance will be.

Clause. 3. The legendary phoenix man. My family is relatively poor, and after working hard, I married a girl with a good family, and the Phoenix man is standard. In life, many values are different from those of girls, and they are prone to quarrels.

The standards set by your parents are also for your later life, and sometimes you still have to think about it. In fact, you like your boyfriend very much now, you may not be able to see some of your boyfriend's shortcomings, let go of your feelings, calm down to see if it is suitable for you, think about your future life, when it comes to the seven-year itch, will he really take care of you. Anyone can say it's nice, but not all of them are beautiful.

He is indeed a good man, what he hopes most should be your happiness, now is not the time to get married, don't think about this first, spend your sweetest time with him, you say that he can't give you promises, that's because he is very realistic, don't want to talk empty words, if he gives you some unrealistic promises, all you see is that he doesn't fulfill them, so that his image in your heart will collapse.

If you are also more optimistic about these or can't resist the opposition of your family, you will compromise in the future. It is advisable to separate it. After all, living a life is not the same as talking about feelings.

If she is more capable, I can also consider it if she is self-motivated. It's not that his words are going to be moved. You can also talk to your parents first.

Ask them what they think. Don't be afraid to face it. But at the same time, we must also look at his attitude.

He didn't dare to face it. For.

First of all, I am very envious of your relationship, and secondly, I want to say that if this relationship is really worth it, your boyfriend has hands and feet, why not fight to get the demand? The superstructure determines the economic base, it is self-evident, we can't choose who we were born in, but we can choose the future life, everyone is not born rich, they are all acquired by hard work, moreover, two people in love do they have to get married? Of course, it is best for us to develop in which direction, but people's lives are to manage some things, and those who get married are divorced, let alone in love?

Cherishing the present and living each day well is undoubtedly the best answer, so why think so much? Unless you're old enough to have to get married, but I don't think so, so my advice to you is to let go of love or you'll regret it. Look....

I still have to have feelings! If you think you're happy with him! You can go back and discuss the marriage requirements with your parents!

Lower it! If he likes you very much! Willing to borrow money for you to take out a loan and pay a down payment for the bride price!

But after getting married, it is also pressure for you to repay the loan together! Instead of that, lower the requirements! He's less stressed!

You'll have a lot easier in the future, too! ps。I really think that the bride price should depend on the ability of the other party!

But you can't let the bride price hinder the relationship!

As long as you love each other, you will never let go! As long as the two of them are of the same mind, they believe that all difficulties are temporary. You don't have to hide your family's requests, but you have to tell him how much you love him.

Happiness is the most important thing. When I married my husband, he didn't have anything. Simple weddings are still held with borrowed money. I didn't give any bride price money. But he loves me a lot, and I'm happy to be with him. That's enough.

Do your parents' work well, there are not many good men now, and it is not easy to meet them, cherish it!

I advise you to think carefully, because I also have such an experience, what premarital love is dead and alive, that is all about it, in today's society, there is only love without economic strength, that is not good, many people love very deeply before marriage, but after marriage, I feel that everything has changed. Of course, if he is very self-motivated, he can also consider it, can you guarantee that if he changes financially in the future, he will still be able to do the same to you.

Go with the flow, don't force it, be more attentive and emotional. I can help you handle the payment, I wish you happiness.

This question is very difficult, it stands to reason that love should not be influenced by money, but in reality, marrying a poor married life will not be too good, marrying a rich person is good, after all, love is very naïve, the reality is very cruel, if the guy is self-motivated, he can also observe for a period of time.

Love is together, even if you take out a loan or borrow money, you have to be together, your parents' work can also sit and sit, you don't need to ask so much, you have to live after marriage, no money is also a problem, or you can start a business first and start a family, you need to be cautious when you get married.!

First of all, the marriage is your own, not your parents'. Secondly, it can be seen from the point of view, that is, the question of which one you choose between love and economy. Don't be entangled, choose with your first sense.

Fight with him, support his work, and be his back.

Raw rice cooks, as long as you can be together, don't care about others, life is the two of you can live irreplaceable.

It's the same situation. Don't let go if you want to.

Do your work, your happiness is more important or 120,000 is important.

There must have been love before, but after a long time, it has faded, and it may have become family affection.

Women have to love themselves.

Now that you're gone, don't think too much, think about how to find someone who really loves you and is suitable for you to live with in the future, hehe.

Come to the lovelorn group,,I hope to help you 107635191。。。

Your boyfriend seems to have posted this question too— -

Past lovers failed to marry him.

Whatever the causes, it's all history.

Now the marriage has been established.

Whether you love him or not, it has become a de facto marriage, you must have a sense of responsibility, morality, and public morality If the current marriage is completely contrary to social morality because the other party's fault is too big, then you can sue for divorce If the other party in the current marriage is not at fault, and you want to divorce him, then you have violated social morality, you have become a major fault party, and you will be spurned by the world.

And even if you and your old lover are fulfilled, when you are really together, you will not be as happy as you imagined. When the time comes, you will be burdened with new pain, more social condemnation, psychological shadows, and affect the growth of your child.

If people live in society, they must abide by social morality, otherwise they will be spurned or even eliminated (death row prisoners are eliminated only if they seriously violate social morality).

Do you have a family now? Do you have a baby? How do you feel about your current husband?

Do you want to think about what you are giving for? What do you get? What if he treats you badly?

What about your husband? People may be a little selfish, and when they meet someone who suits them, they will leave behind the current person. Lovers from many years ago, if you think about it again, who has been with you every day all these years?

You and your current husband don't have love, but love doesn't mean that there is. He must also have some likes for you, otherwise he has no feelings all these years, who doesn't share with you? Everything is two-sided, with both good and bad.

If you divorce your husband and live with a lover from years ago, your lover may be happy with you. And your current husband has no one other than you. This matter still needs to be carefully considered by yourself, and our role is to help you analyze your troubles.

Be with your lover after divorcing your current husband.