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Anonymous users2024-02-07There is a sentence 1 classic saying"Love doesn't wait where it is"
If you really like each other! Why do you have to start this way?
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Anonymous users2024-02-06It's up to you to deal with it.
If you are in love with each other.
You guys are good at maintaining it.
I hope you are happy.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05What a fairytale love!! I hope you'll be together again! If after 5 years, you still feel like you are together, then your love can really stand the test! If, after 5 years, you have each found a new one, then you bless each other.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04It is very likely that because the relationship has a hot love period and a flat period, after all, you have been with your girlfriend for 4 years, and it is time for the flat period.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03No. Because although feelings will fade over time, they will not become non-existent. If you don't feel like you love her anymore, it's just because your emotions have changed.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Yes, now you are very familiar with her person, so you don't have much curiosity and novelty about her, but I hope you can take responsibility and be good to her as always.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Whoever started the trouble should end it. Actually, it's up to you. Your outsiders will not be able to see clearly. I can only briefly say some opinions for reference.
1. First of all, you really didn't do it right, you didn't get married, why did you get the child out first. And it's that your marriage road has a lot of bumps in the road.
2. Since it happened, then analyze whether to get married and have children or beat it out.
It is important to have the conditions to raise children or not, and if there are no conditions, forget it. Your income, his income, your primitive accumulation all have a relationship. But I guess he agreed to get rid of the kid, which means he doesn't think you have a strong financial foundation.
Then again, he didn't want to have children because he was not mentally ready to get married and raise children. It shows that his sense of responsibility is not good, at least as a man, he is still very immature.
And then there's how much resistance you have to get married. After all, you have to be married to have children to be legal. It is morally dishonorable to be pregnant out of wedlock, and it is not good for the growth of children. Also, if you have children but don't get married, it's too tiring for you.
3. What is your relationship with your boyfriend? It is said that after five years, your relationship should be relatively stable, and he may be a man who can be trusted in your eyes. What I don't understand is why he has been holding things up for so long without resolving them since they have been talking about it for so long, and his father has always disagreed.
What has he done over the years, why didn't he communicate with his father and solve the problem.
4. The reason you said about his father's rejection of you is completely insufficient. I think there's a lot more, maybe you didn't say it. Assuming that the reason you did receive was this one, then I can tell you unambiguously that there are many other things that his father does not approve of you.
It's just a pretext to reject you. If I want to reject you, I can't say anything.
5. Your boyfriend has a big quarrel with his father, which means that he still cares about you. You'd better be a little patient and analyze. In the end, whether you can get married, whether there are conditions to get married, and whether there are conditions to have children.
Having a baby is not just a matter of birth. Follow-up child raising, child care, and education are all very important.
Again, we are all outsiders, we can't see the situation, everything depends on your own...
One more word of advice to you, no matter how loving you are, before you got married, you were not a family. Having a child must be considered after marriage. Let's say you fail this time, don't make the same mistake again. As a woman, you must not be stupid.
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Anonymous users2024-01-311. You are basically telling about your suffering, and I don't have any specific information about you. 2. From the information you gave, you did hurt him a lot. 3. Are you sure that you really follow him, and not because you lost him, so you are unwilling and want to redeem him?
Since you hurt him a lot before, then, if you cherish this feeling, you should pay more to redeem it. His coldness to you may be that he has been snubbed by you three times or twice before, and he is afraid, afraid that if he reconciles with you, you will hurt her again. It could also be that I've been around with you for too long and I'm really tired.
In either case, if you want to save the relationship, you have to chase him more, pester him (don't push him too hard), give him more good words, give more assurances, and be sure to make your position clear and say that you really like him. If you can't get him back in the end, then, a generous blessing.
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Anonymous users2024-01-30In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but you are not dead, so how can others help you, some things may not be found if you miss them.
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Anonymous users2024-01-29When it comes to love, who doesn't want to grow old with that person for a long time. But how many people can really come together and share tomorrow together.
As long as you hold hands, don't let go easily, and go forever together, what a beautiful picture.
If, for various reasons, you fail to do so and have to separate, then bless each other, after all, you have loved each other, and those memories will remain in your heart forever.
Love is a mysterious thing, and it cannot be controlled by people.
As long as it is true love, no matter what the outcome is, it is worth thanking.
For the problem of feelings, you just need to be brave, strong, and the most important thing is to be optimistic and balance! Although I don't know who you are! But I hope you can be happy and stop it late, don't be too difficult for yourself for emotional things, and don't let yourself be too wronged!
The love that is worth paying, you must not miss it!
By the way, I'm going to tell you a little secret--- pat myself on the head and tell myself---I'm going to be strong!" I'll be brave! yes, good!
I'm sure you'll be happy and happy in 2008!
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Anonymous users2024-01-28Maybe it's time to cover the Ant Hall
Fate is over. The feelings are gone.
It's all just artificial
For a long time, there is nothing to be contained in
It takes two people to run it together.
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Anonymous users2024-01-27Maybe they know each other too well.
People are generally eager to understand each other and get to know each other too well and separate.
Of course there is, since she doesn't want to hurt you, then she still has a certain affection for you, some things should not be said too early, hehe, feelings are a matter of 2 people, you still have to grasp the relationship between you, if you prove that you really like her, then insist! Perseverance, as the saying goes: sincerity to the golden stone is open! >>>More
In fact, sometimes you don't have to tell her if you like someone, you can watch her silently, but this will test your ability to endure, but you can also take the initiative, the key depends on what you think, if you really like it, why not give it a try, not necessarily tell her what you think right away, but you can approach her through other methods, without her mobile phone and Q can ask her a good friend to play in private, there are many ways, you say that your friend also likes her, That's nothing, why bring your own, it's not necessary, he has his advantages, don't you also have your advantages? Why do you only see the good in others and forget your own? I haven't tried it, how can I fail again, it's hard to talk about emotional things, maybe the girl appreciates you like this, in fact, it doesn't matter how others are, the key is what you really think in your heart, like to try, others say that the road of feelings is difficult to walk, but you at least have walked it, if you want to do it and because you don't have the courage, it is a failure, even if the final result may not be very good, but at least you will not have regrets, try it will become a good memory in your lifeIsn't it?
I think the girl was right.
Who knows what's going to happen in the future, and there's no guarantee you're going to like her forever, can you? >>>More
It shouldn't be, really. This is a hidden danger, and it will be ** in the future. However, it is not excluded that the little girl is too naïve, since she is not sincere, you should also be her confidant, or a close friend. Marriage is difficult. But marriage is a symbol of love!
Whether you can be together The most important thing is to see if you want to be with him in your heart After all, you still need to make your own decisions You can recall that from the beginning of you to the breakup Has he ever changed for you Personally, I still don't like such a man After all, two people have to think about each other when they are together No matter how busy a man is, can't he spare a little time Even if he is really busy and has no free time from morning to night, it is always okay to send a text message or make a ** porridge This is an attitude Prove that I really care about you. Never take the initiative to contact you, hehe, don't like to be managed, just don't need to pay attention? What's wrong with poor family conditions It's innate, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to work hard to change, but what is the concept of effort? >>>More