What are some of the overtones you blurt out to your lover during a fight? Do you have any regrets?

I talked a lot about my lover during a fight, and after the incident, I regretted my words and actions.

In the process of getting along with two people, two people will inevitably have friction and misunderstanding because of various trivial things, and some people will even say very excessive things because of this. After that, there is a gap in the relationship between the two people, and some people will even break up because of this. I think two people need to understand and support each other as much as possible, and at the same time, they need to control their words and actions in the process of getting along with each other.

1. I have said something that makes the other party very sad.

When my partner and I first got along, since the two of us had different personalities, we had a lot of analysis in life. In the process of arguing, I once said things that made the other person very sad, and at the same time compared my other half to others. After that, I felt that what I said was very excessive, and at the same time apologized to the other party in a timely manner.

Second, some people have also said things about breakups.

In a relationship, I personally believe that the word breakup should not be blurted out, and we should not use the breakup to blackmail each other because of emotional problems. Some young couples may often ask each other to break up as a way to prove their attitude towards the relationship. Of course in fact:

If the relationship between two people is not broken, it is best not to propose a breakup easily, because these words may lead to hidden dangers in the relationship between two people. <>

3. Many people will regret what they said excessively.

When arguing, many people do say impulsive or excessive things because they are emotional, and some people even act excessively. After the emotions of the two people have calmed down, the two people will also regret it. As long as there is no problem with the relationship between two people, two people actually need to solve the problem with a more mature attitude, rather than breaking each other's hearts with excessive words.

I think two people need to support and tolerate each other as much as possible, rather than finding fault with each other. <>

When a husband and wife or couple quarrel, it is inevitable to say excessive words, and many people will regret it when they think back to the process of arguing with their lover, because they blurted out a lot of excessive words to their lover during the quarrel. So what are the specific excesses, which can be roughly classified into three types, "we broke up or divorced", "you get out of the house for me", "I never loved you". These words are the most excessive and hurtful, and in fact, those who say them will regret it.

I hope everyone can think twice when they quarrel in the future, and don't say too much. Let's discuss this topic in detail.

I think one of the most over-the-top words is to say the phrase in a fight: Let's break up. Or that sentence:

Let's get a divorce. This kind of talk is the most excessive. Because quarrels are quarrels, and if you rise to the point where two people break up or divorce, it will hurt each other's hearts a lot.

If your lover is as impulsive as you, maybe you really break up, causing irreparable regrets. In fact, many couples or couples, breakups or divorces, are often done impulsively.

Many people, when they are extremely angry or angry, may have said to their lovers: You get out of the house for me. If this sentence is said by a man to a woman, it is even more excessive.

Because many women themselves feel that the house before marriage has nothing to do with them, hearing such a sentence from a man, it is almost heartbreaking, and the pain is even more intense.

In fact, compared with the above two, the most hurtful sentence is "I have never loved you". In this way, it can simply wipe out all the previous feelings of two people, and it is easy for the other party to have the illusion that everything is just their own wishful thinking. Even if you explain afterwards that you are too angry, it is not easy for the other party to trust you again.

You roll. You're not human. You're heartless. You're a scumbag. Don't pretend. If you don't love me, fuck off.

I don't regret it, because my ex-boyfriend is a scumbag, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot.

I said that I broke up, and I just yelled out, whoever is your girlfriend is unlucky. Regret must be a little, after all, we have also had good memories between us, and there is no need to tear our faces.

What I said would be very ruthless, I would let him go, let him die, but in fact, what I said at that time was all angry words, not my true thoughts at all, and I would regret it when I calmed down afterwards.