Tell us about how you feel every time your parents have a fight.

I often think like you too.,Not only do we often fight in our family.,The family situation has also been up and down many times.,I lost sleep all night in my sophomore year of high school, thinking that it's really better to live than to die.,But now most things have survived.,At least I have the ability to give myself a better life.,It's just that the problem of my family is the nightmare of my life.。。。 I actually believe in fate now, I feel that I have created sins in my previous life, so I will do more good deeds in this life to make amends, it is said that doing good deeds can change my life, and I don't know if it is a common encouragement.

That's how my parents came over. Comparatively speaking, when there is a war in the family, it is even more unbearable for me. I don't know what other people think.

When you feel that the other party is not important, it doesn't matter if you are cold or not. You may feel uncomfortable, but the other party doesn't care. Because you're dispensable.

Don't mention it, it feels like you can't live together with different views, what is it to give me a complete home, sometimes I really want to ask you to separate, don't pull me to bear this kind of torture. Suddenly I don't have much confidence in marriage, and I don't want to live with anyone in the future. Forget it, I'm too angry.

More than ten years ago, but I still remember it deeply, because it was the night before the Mid-Autumn Festival, they escalated from quarreling to doing, originally I happily played outside with my friends, saw the door full of people, squeezed through the crowd to see them fight, that was the most serious one, my mother cried and fainted, my father slammed the door, and I was left secretly hiding in the corner crying.

My parents' relationship has always been bad, and the impact on me is that I have a very pessimistic attitude towards everything, eager to be loved, but I don't want to get involved in marriage, I will secretly cry in the middle of the night and don't want my family to know, and I really envy the family harmony and happiness. . . It's a pity I can't have it.

I can understand you, you don't dare to tell others about things at home, and you have to force a smile in front of others, and you have to bear this kind of pressure since you were a child. Landlord, you are stronger, you want to open a little, since the parents only quarrel and do not divorce, it means that they still love each other.

Our neighbors quarreled for three days. Sometimes when I eat, I hear the sound of them smashing things, and I think it's very bad. My parents fought in my first year of high school, my dad was drunk and my mom didn't care about him, people couldn't help but say that the vegetable pot on the table was buckled to my mother's head, and the blood flowed all of a sudden, and now my mom still has a scar on her nose, which scared me, and I really wanted to die when I ran outside in the winter, and when I heard me call me, I went home with a soft heart.

Later, when I wrote in my diary, I wrote that my parents had a quarrel and I wanted to die. At that time, our diary was homework, and we had to read it by the teacher. Results:

I became a problem girl in the teacher's heart, a fragile girl who wanted to die. At the parent-teacher meeting, I told the parents as a case study that I was at the same table the next day and asked me why I wanted to die ......In this matter, I felt that everything had to be pressed in my heart, and the teacher was unreliable, so he stabbed me in the heart.

When I was a child, they quarreled for two days and a big quarrel for three days, all that could be smashed and thrown were random, and even committed suicide and were hospitalized, and they started to quarrel again before they were discharged from the hospital. I'm still arguing, I'm really frustrated with that family, one by one when I need it, WeChat is coming, and I'm still an outsider after all.

I didn't have a fight with my parents.

The solution after the quarrel:

1.Be silent for a while when there is a conflict, and when you have a conflict with your parents, if you can't make it clear and resolve it in the first place, it's best to remain silent for a while. Whatever your parents say, don't, because you may not be able to control your temper with one mouth.

2.Don't argue with your parents, if your parents do something wrong or misunderstand you, and your parents don't listen to your explanations, don't argue with your parents for a while. As long as you argue, you will argue.

3.Communicate directly with your parents, and when your parents yell at you or scold you or scold you, if you don't listen, tell your parents directly in a better way and don't argue with them. In this way, parents can also pay attention to their own attitudes in time.

4.With a smile in return, most parents will think of their children, but some parents may be too strict and like to ask their children everything they have, but the starting point is always good. Therefore, you might as well smile when your parents have a conflict with you.

Of course, parents can't argue with you. When we quarrel, we are all angry. It is inevitable that we will say something insincere after a fight and even get angry, so we give the other person time to calm down after the fight.

After all, quarrels are inevitable. We've been together for too long. Gentle people will get angry one day.

When you quarrel with your parents, don't put too much psychological pressure on yourself, face it calmly, don't be emotional, don't be swayed by emotions, and don't let yourself regret it.

5.When arguing with parents, parents need to reflect on whether their words have hurt their children. Children also need to reflect on whether they have done something bad.

To sum up, if you quarrel with your parents, you should solve it in time.

If you have quarreled, if you have a quarrel, you will take the initiative to apologize to your parents, and solve the problem of the quarrel to avoid repeating it next time.

1. Temporary silence when there is a conflictWhen there is a conflict with your parents, if you can't make it clear and solve it at the first time, then it's best to stay silent for the time being, no matter what your parents say, don't reply, because you may not be able to control your temper when you open your mouth. 2. Don't argue with your parents If your parents do something wrong or misunderstand you, and your parents can't listen to your explanation, then don't argue with your parents for the time being, as long as you argue, you will definitely quarrel.

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Quarreled. I apologized to my parents, explained my thoughts, and my parents respected my opinion, so I reconciled.

I quarreled, I always disobeyed them when I was ignorant before, and ignored what they said, and every time they forgave me, I later learned that they were all right.

I'm not surprised that my parents quarrel every day, and I don't feel used to it when I don't quarrel, since I can remember, my parents have been arguing every day, and they will quarrel for the trivial little beginning, and I don't know why they quarreled.

My brother and I have gotten used to it, and their behavior has not had any impact on my married life, I basically haven't quarreled with my husband, and my parents have a completely different way of getting along, maybe it has something to do with the different eras, I feel that my parents didn't pay much attention to communication in that era, and if there are any problems, they are generally solved by force, and rarely calm down to sit and talk, but their mode of getting along is much simpler than now, and there were very few divorced people in their era, even if they quarreled every day like Mom and Dad, every day when they talk about divorce, they are not separated, they are just talking, for the sake of their children, they will not really choose to divorce.

This is how they get along, they start pinch when they don't agree, but after a while, it's like they have nothing to do. When we were young, they quarreled fiercely, sometimes my mother would take us back to my parents' house, but usually the next day my father would come to pick us up, and my mother would go back, haha, this is the so-called husband and wife do not have an overnight sedan car to fight against each other.

In fact, I don't agree with my parents and they quarrel every day, my brother and I are no stranger, but since I have a baby, I am very disgusted with my parents quarreling, although my parents quarrel did not have an impact on my outlook on life, but I will be afraid of the impact on the baby, I don't want his world view to grow up is full of gunpowder, I hope his life is harmonious and beautiful, this should be the biggest wish of every parent, now although parents will also talk, But what I see more is that none of them can do without anyone, although they don't say it, but they can feel it in their hearts.

Parents often quarrel in front of their children, which can have serious consequences.

1. Introverted personality and insecure.

In a family where parents quarrel, there will be a tense atmosphere in the home, and the child will be very insecure in a home full of "gunpowder". Coupled with the lack of communication between parents and children, children will hold back their hearts when they encounter some problems in life, and they are unwilling to open their hearts to anyone, and their personalities will become more and more introverted.

2. Timid, emotionally sensitive, and scared when you hear others speak loudly.

Usually when parents quarrel with rotten wax, they will scold loudly, throw things, and beat and scold, and children usually hide in the corner, covering their ears and crying secretly. When a child's mind is affected by these things, the child will become very timid and emotionally sensitive, even if he hears someone talking loudly, it will remind the child of the scene of the parent's quarrel and will feel very scared.

3. Affect children's intimate relationships.

When there is friction between lovers, children often feel overwhelmed. Because the way parents deal with friction is to solve it with "quarrels", children will be at a loss when dealing with intimate relationships.

4. Affect children's concept of marriage.

Children who grow up immersed in such an environment will have a fear of marriage. Most children will feel that there is no need to get married, and that marriage is purely for the sake of sin, and it is better to stay alone.

First of all, children, I don't think you should judge who is right and who is wrong. Because there are many things that you have a hard time understanding between parents, don't ask which is more important between friends and relatives, these things are not to be compared. So, don't decide who's right and who's wrong.

Second, I think you can tell your mom and dad about your mood separately. Let them know that their behavior will have a big impact on your life and learning. They're adults too, and after you say that, they'll be a little more restrained.

Third, you can also help understand why they often quarrel, and do their own psychological counseling work to create a more harmonious family life.

In fact, all members of a family should perform their own duties, if they are children, they should study hard, and parents should work hard to live, and they should also be role models for their children.

So, I hope you won't be so bothered again! When I was a child, my parents used to quarrel, and my dad beat my mom once or twice, but now that we're older, they're a lot more peaceful. Life changes over time.

Anyway, I hope you still study hard!

When there is no quarrel, wait for your parents to be separated, say good things first, then point out the problem, explain the reason, and say the key. It is not easy to put out family harmony and husband and wife who have been getting along for decades, and it is reasonable. Sometimes it is very difficult for children to be caught in the middle, but if you want your parents to be quiet and the family is harmonious, sometimes you have to do it, and gradually reconcile according to the character of your parents.

Communicate with your parents and tell them that you have grown up and have your own mature views on people and things. The most important thing for a family is peace and happiness, and money is not the most important thing. If the family is harmonious, there will be a sense of happiness if you have less money; Family discord, no amount of money will be happy.

I think your mom and dad care about how you feel. Communicate with them more, parents are for their children and daughters, and for your face, they will also be restrained, learn to exercise restraint and tolerate each other. Come on!

Parental conflicts, children do not have to be responsible. However, it is often the child who is implicated and becomes the biggest victim. Sometimes, in order to alleviate the relationship between parents, children even at the cost of hurting themselves, but parents blame their children's words and deeds, and in the end, children hurt themselves at the same time, and are hurt by their parents.

This yours and your parents do it together and discuss it Your beginnings My parents always quarreled when I was a child, but I didn't understand it at the time, but now the family is very good, talk to your parents, can you consider my feelings when you quarrel I have spent so many years with quarrels When I am a brother, a complete home is the best Adjustment Regulation.

Hehe, my parents also quarrel a lot, but my mother doesn't listen to my dad, teach you a little secret, tell them that the other party has forgiven him, so maybe it will get better.

My parents also quarreled a lot, but usually it was just a small one. I was in the sixth grade, and I was scared when I was a child, but I got used to it. My cousin was in her first year of junior high school, and every time her parents quarreled, she didn't care, and she watched TV leisurely.

I think you should be happy, it's really nothing if your parents are divorced. Your dad beating your mom is really too much, I suggest you talk to them about your troubles, in fact, it's really nothing.

1.Parents quarrel is their own problem, this responsibility should not be borne by you, you have to try to be independent, strong yourself, so as not to increase their burden.

2.Which is more important, relatives or friends? The answer is not necessarily relatives, because kinship cannot be chosen, but friends can be chosen, this person is my relative, no matter how much he hates it, this kinship cannot be changed; Friends often give more help to others than relatives, and I believe that there must be people among your relatives who you hate.