A couple sent their daughter away because of an overbirth, why did they start looking for relatives

Because I was sick, I wanted to see my child again. Now that the country has gradually liberalized family planning, this is a good thing for many people, because it means that people can have more children. However, many young people said that no matter how many children the country receives, they will not have more children because they simply cannot afford to raise them.

I have to say, it's really a trick. In the past, people wanted to have children and longed to have more children, but because of family planning, they didn't dare to have children. And now that the state allows everyone to have children, everyone doesn't want to have children.

Twenty-eight years ago, a couple surnamed Deng gave birth to their third daughter in Zhoukou, Henan Province. At that time, family planning was very strict, each couple was only allowed to have one child, and some special families were only allowed to have two children, and three children were absolutely overborn. If they don't take action, they will not only be fined, but even their families will be affected.

In desperation, the couple had no choice but to give the child away. The poor child was only 26 days old, and he left his parents forever, and his whereabouts have not been known since.

In the past 28 years, her mother Gao Jirong has also secretly looked at her because she misses her daughter too much, but none of them has a daughter to know, because they don't want to disturb her life. They never looked for their daughter again. However, since last year, because Gao Jirong is old and sick, he misses this daughter even more, and hopes to see his daughter again in his lifetime.

So they still inquired everywhere about their daughter's whereabouts, but they couldn't find anything, so in desperation, they had to turn to reporters for help.

For this matter, many netizens couldn't accept it, thinking that they were too ruthless, and they didn't think of seeing their daughter when they were sick at all, but they didn't look for it before. Maybe the couple didn't go to her for the good of their daughter, but since that's the case, they should not look for her for the rest of their lives and don't disturb her life. To be honest, I can understand this couple, it was indeed very troublesome to have a superborn in that era, but this couple also did something wrong, after all, they did abandon their daughter.

It is said that it was because their youngest son was seriously ill and needed to rely on their eldest daughter for treatment, so they came out to look for relatives after such a long time. I think their daughter should be very cold, not asking for so long, suddenly looking for relatives for their son.

First, the wife is seriously ill. In order not to drag the child down, he had to be sent away. Second, the burden on the family is too heavy. The cost of treating a wife is very expensive. Third, blood is thicker than water. Daughters are the hearts and minds of husband and wife.

Because one of them is sick, they think of looking for their daughter, this reason makes people feel very angry, when the child is young, they have a lot of opportunities, why do they wait until they are sick and the child grows up?

It took 28 years to start looking for her relatives because the mother was now sick and wanted to see her daughter before her health became more serious, in order to make up for the regret in her heart.

The couple who sent away their superborn daughter are now looking for relatives after 28 years because they want to see their own daughter and see how she is doing.

A couple sent their daughter away because of the superbirth, and it was also because the woman did not want to leave regrets in the last stage of her life, so they began to search for relatives.

A couple sent their daughter away due to an overbirth, and only began to search for relatives 28 years later, because he was suffering from illness and hoped to see each other in his lifetime.

Because the mother was sick and her health was getting worse and worse, she wanted to see the child while she was alive, and it was not allowed to give birth in that era, and it was understandable to be sent away.

The woman was sick and wanted to find relatives, and she already had two daughters who wanted to have another son, but she failed to do so, so she gave it away.

The woman was sick and wanted to find relatives, and she already had two daughters who were still overborn, because she had already given away her two daughters at that time, and she had to raise another child.

I think she gave birth to two daughters because she was patriarchal, and she gave her daughters away in order to get her son.

I want to have a son. Because the traditional idea of having a son is deeply ingrained, you have to have a son to be satisfied.

That must be wanting a son, for no other reason, if she likes the child, she won't give her daughter away, don't you feel ashamed to think of this child when she is sick?

The woman was sick and wanted to find relatives, and she already had two daughters who were still overborn, which was because these two daughters had been given to other people, and she was lonely.