What exactly is happiness in real life 20

1. Happiness is a psychological feeling. Happiness requires certain objective conditions, but more importantly, psychological feelings. There can certainly be no happiness with absolute nothingness (both materially and spiritually).

And what you should have, how much you have, depends on what your desires (technically called psychological expectations) are, and how big they are. If the expectations are moderate, consistent with your actual identity, abilities, etc., and consistent with the general situation of other people around you, then you are more likely to be satisfied, and thus have a sense of happiness. Don't expect what you can't actually achieve, don't expect to reach the pinnacle of a very small number of successful people, and don't try to have everything.

In that case, in general, you will never be happy. The so-called contentment and happiness are also. Second, happiness is in the drips.

Happiness can be regarded as a scattered rather than a general thing, even a little bit of satisfaction, progress and success in daily life is actually happiness, this little bit of happiness is more, and the aggregate is the overall happiness of a lifetime. There is no such thing as a happy life, ordinary people, successful people, great people, and even legendary gods. Therefore, you should be proud of even the little happiness you have received and affirm yourself.

This is the psychological prerequisite for a healthy way to get more and greater happiness. 3. Hey, why do you want to ask the question "what is happiness?" If you think too much and ask too many questions, you will be tired, so how can you talk about happiness?

When a person comes into the world, studying, working, and living, he is happy in himself.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: Happiness is repetition! Every day with the person he likes, every day with his lover**, often travel with him, even sleep together every night, repeat a promise and dream, listen to him talk about his childhood for the twenty-eighth time, celebrate his birthday with him on the same day every year, and spend Valentine's Day, Christmas, and Chinese New Year's Eve every year.

For many years, I just slept with him alone, just smelled his breath alone, and even quarreled repeatedly, quarreling over some trivial matters, and then cold wars, thinking about each other madly, and finally reconciled.

We're not doing these things over and over again. And then believe that this is happiness? Happiness is repetition.

Some people say that all happy families in the world are the same, and there are many kinds of misfortunes. The so-called appearance may be repetition.

Every morning I open my eyes and I can't see you anymore, I can't smell you anymore, you don't sleep next to me anymore, you don't kiss me anymore as you always do, you don't treat me as gently as you used to, you don't want to repeat it, that's when love dies and I don't be happy anymore.

I was suddenly no longer afraid of repetition.

Happiness is different in the eyes of different people, and I have heard of people in love before"Happiness", lovelorn people are painful, but I don't agree with this point of view, some people feel that their life is better, more money, it is a kind of happiness, some people think that their life is happy, and some people feel that they are loved by someone is a kind of happiness, in fact, the concept of happiness is really abstract, depending on different types of people!!

Happiness is not felt, as long as it is happiness when there is no pain.

Happiness is about facing life with a positive attitude.

Happiness is: the mood is like a flower every day.

Family is in my heart, friends are by my side. Buy what you want.

1. Good health, no disease and no disaster.

I believe that everyone has no objection to this, no matter how wonderful your life is, without a healthy body as a guarantee, it is all in the air.

It's like a number, no matter how many zeros there are in the back, and there are no 1s in front of it, then everything is in vain.

What's more, when people reach old age, their bodies are already prone to problems, and having a good body and no pain is really a great blessing, and it is also the physiological basis for happiness in old age!

Second, there is abundant money and food, and food and clothing are not worried.

Money is the foundation of life, and in order to survive and develop when you are young, it is nothing to endure some hardships.

If you don't have enough pension in your old age, you still have to worry about money and survival, and the situation will be more miserable.

We sometimes see some elderly people on the street, who are already in their old age, still dragging their weak bodies and pushing tricycles around

There are vegetable sellers, there are garbage pickers, seeing such a scene, people can't help but feel sour noses.

As long as these old people have enough money and food, they will not bask in the wind and rain and work hard. This age should have been a comfortable state of retirement at home.

Therefore, having enough money and food, and not worrying about food and clothing is the material basis for happiness in old age.

3. Children and grandchildren are filial and spiritually happy.

In the final analysis, people are actually living for love, and there are concerns in the world: there are people you love and people who love you, and only when you live can you have a head.

Think about it: if there is no one who loves you in this world, and you do not have a loved one alive, will this person still have the taste to do it?

When someone interviewed the well-known contemporary Taoist "Zhang Zhishun", he once said: The old people he knows in the world have passed away, and many of their children and grandchildren are gone, although he has a long life, he also feels very boring.

Therefore, in old age, the biggest concern is the children and grandchildren, if the children and grandchildren are also very filial, the father is kind and filial piety, brothers and sisters, and children and grandchildren are around the knee, what kind of family happiness is that?

Isn't the spiritual pleasure that comes from the bottom of one's heart the greatest happiness? It is not an exaggeration to say that it is the spiritual foundation of happiness in old age!

Fourth, the heart is good, and you are happy!

When people reach old age, they are most afraid of having nothing to do and being bored, if they can have a few hobbies, in addition to being able to pass the time, they can get a lot of fun.

People will also look more vibrant, as the so-called money is hard to buy!

Do you think that living like that is what happiness should be?

The above can be summed up in one sentence: "The body is safe, the food and clothing are abundant, the children and grandchildren are around the knees, and the spirit is rich"! These are the greatest happiness of people in their old age!

As the folk often say: "Abundant food and clothing, more stability, it is the blessed people in the world".

A happy life is to be happy every day, to have two or three friends to travel together, healthy parents, well-behaved children, a safe family, a stable job, to have their own hobbies, carefree, for me this is the real happy life.

I think the standard is the level of income and expenditure, that is, wages and consumption, which is directly related to the happiness of a person and even a family.

I don't have any wish to spend in 2023, and this year's financial pressure is relatively high, and I just want to make more money to give my family a better life.

I don't mind my partner's past and just want him to have a better present and future.

My experience has made me cherish my current love even more.

This makes me feel that the company of my family is also very important.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal.

The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, and the envy of the envy does something they like in their spare time, plays games and sees**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, to have a brother who does not reach out for money, a husband who is considerate to the family, filial children, a harmonious family, young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human beings to empathize with these four words emotionally, because the sentence itself is understood in the current society, and it will be explained as follows:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.