Are you alive to please others, or to make yourself happy? Both?

The world is very big, but there is only one life, if it is for selfish life, you will be unhappy, people themselves are for each other to survive, if there is less of this, there is no point in living, don't think about people too complicated, believe in positive affairs, don't dwell on small things, let the psychology become impure, when you have experienced death, you will understand how good it is to live, and everything else is no longer important, so smile happily, it's really not a big deal, you can appreciate each other, But remember not to forget the inherent dignity of people, sometimes think too much and live a very tired life, think about things simply, people are willing to associate with talented people, gold will always shine, don't deliberately please anything, remember that you are not worse than others, dead are buried in the soil.

I think that in essence, you should make yourself happy, but in today's society, you can't avoid the necessity of pleasing others!

A person is born and dies, but as long as you live, live in the best way possible.

Life is the most precious thing for human beings, because everyone only has one time. How should we spend our lives? Looking back, I don't regret wasting my time, and I don't feel ashamed of mediocrity.

When I was dying, I could say: I have devoted my whole life and all my energy to the most beautiful cause in the world - the struggle for the peace of all mankind. We must hurry up and live because even a violent illness or accident can end life.

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A person who dares to waste even an hour of time shows that he does not know how to cherish the full value of life.

Charles Darwin

To live is for the benefit of humanity. Not for individuals. What's the point of living for the sake of the individual? But but just for your own pleasure, you don't care if others live or die? That won't work.

Mutual, one person will not be happy, it is better to be happy alone than to be happy.

The purpose of pleasing others is to make them happy because they want them to be happy. This kind of happiness is what you want to see, you can get satisfaction or benefits from it, and the ultimate goal is to achieve your goal. So you please others because you want to see them happy, and you do what makes them happy for the sake of that idea.

I know that many people want to be recognized and approved by others in all aspects of life, but we ignore one point, everyone's thoughts are different, and the things they experience are also different, so when they see the same problem and the same thing, they will have different views, so it is difficult for us to get everyone's affirmation!

Many times, we live in the eyes of others, always deliberately catering to other people's tastes, and lose ourselves. Are you happy like this? I'll do it for you: unhappy!

I'm sure no one will ever feel happy on such a day! If we want to live, we must live in our own world and do what we like to do, this is the true meaning of life!

As long as we do things, we are worthy of our conscience and worthy of ethics and morality, and we can be a kind person, a confidant person, not too much to worry about others, and live a relaxed and happy life!

To summarize as follows: life, in fact, is so simple, the first half of your life is busy and busy living for others, and when you are in the second half of your life, I hope you can live for yourself, live an easy life, and live a wonderful life.

Know that it is better to please others than to please yourself! Life is to do what you like, simple and plain!

Giving up is the wisest choice.

Since he has someone he likes, he won't be concentrating on liking you anymore, at least in the near future. You like him now, and you're just going to get into trouble

There is no such absolute, relatively in a certain situation, there is no need to care too much, no matter how perfect you are, you still have shortcomings in the eyes of others.

Meaning: I live for myself. I will not change myself for the sake of anyone's words or things."

It means that you live in this world, not specifically to please or care about what others think, but to live for yourself.

There is no contradiction between pleasing yourself and pleasing others, and if you dress up beautifully, you look comfortable and others look comfortable.

Faith is like an unattainable and infinitely close existence, it gives people a positive, upward attitude, people's life is very short, there is a certain belief will make your life full of light.

It's undeniable that the female guard pleases herself, but sometimes if you dress up and look good, you'll feel better, and it's for yourself.

It means that people not only succeed themselves, but also help others succeed in order to be truly successful.

What he means is that people live in this world for themselves, to live a wonderful life, not to let themselves be wronged for the sake of others.

That's what she meant by that.

She doesn't exist to please others.

Nor is it for someone else's sake.

It's about living for yourself.

Wen is indifferent. Don't live to please others, many people just care too much about other people's opinions, maybe someone else's criticism will make her sad and sad for a long time, in fact, there is no need for this. Sometimes criticism should be listened to, advice should be heard, but you should not hold grudges.

In interpersonal relationships, you should treat the people around you as friends, instead of quietly treating others as enemies all day long.

People must live for themselves, live not to please others, live their own lives, set an example for the people around us, this is what we should do, don't think what others say, don't listen to some rumors because of other people's words. Don't always talk about what other people are doing, if you really want to learn, get in touch with yourself, don't always ask about others.

If you have a problem, you can explain it clearly face to face, don't talk about people behind your back, in fact, this is a very immoral behavior, people must have their own principles and bottom line, other people's lifestyles have nothing to do with you, you must remember to be nosy.

It's not that I don't care about some things, I just don't want to talk about them; Some people don't hurt, they just don't mind their bad pants; It's not that some feelings don't miss, they just don't show it. Behind the smile is a disguised happiness; Turned around and endured a stubborn attachment. Not sad or happy, does not mean ruthless and desireless; Just because you're silent doesn't mean you don't want to.

Because you care, you suffer; If you are sad, take a walk quietly; I was sad and slept silently.

When I was young, even sentimentality was earth-shattering. When I grow up, I learn that the more painful it is, the more silent it is. The more bitter, the more silent. Growing up is about muting your cry.

At this age, no one wants to please anymore, and you can be with whoever you are comfortable with, including friends, and stay away when you are tired. Pleasing others is far less pleasing than being happy yourself. It is better to be lonely than to go against your heart. It's better to have regrets than to compromise.

When I went to college, I tried to please everyone around me, tried to make everyone happy, and in the end, I was exhausted.

Those who love you don't need you to please; It's useless for you to please people who don't love you (unless you have value in using them); People who hate you are not worthy of your please. So slowly, I started to care about the people around me, instead of pleasing everything around me, and then I found Jane, and I became happier than before.

It has been said that how beautiful the world can be depends on how much we love ourselves.

In short, do what you like and ignore the people and things you hate. Slowly you will find that life is really good.