How to look at the problem of abandoned female babies, how to look at the problem of abandoned babie

I think that no matter how you discard a baby girl, it is a crime and immorality, whether the baby girl is healthy or physically defective, she should not abandon her child, no matter how difficult it is, this is a living life that should be respected, and I call for the protection of children and minors.

A few days ago, I saw the news that an old man who sold firewood spent 18 years raising abandoned babies, and I was very moved.

The picture above shows the adoptive father Liu Heshuai and his daughter Yuanyuan**. It is reported that eighteen years ago he found an abandoned baby at the entrance of the village, although the conditions at that time were not good, but Liu Heshuai did not hesitate to adopt her, for more than ten years has been relying on selling firewood to work to pull his daughter up, all his efforts are poured into the adopted daughter Yuanyuan, and has not married a wife. And the daughter did not disappoint her father's hope, and after continuous hard work, she was finally admitted to the university.

During the pre-school vacation, she worked on her own to earn tuition fees, and stayed until the day before school started, hoping to take care of her father for a few more days.

While I was moved by Liu Heshuai's kindness, my daughter's hard work and filial piety, I was even more angry at Yuanyuan's biological parents who abandoned their children. Even after the birth of a child, she remains an independent person, an equal member of the family and society, and the family and parents are the most crucial cornerstones to ensure that the child can become a self-determined and self-governing citizen. It can be said that the basis for parents to exercise family rights is to take care of and educate their children to adulthood, which is an inseparable obligation of parents.

From a legal point of view, the act of abandoning babies should not be. China's law has special provisions on the crime of abandoning infants: those who abandon infants shall be fined by the public security department; where a crime is constituted, criminal responsibility shall be pursued in accordance with law (Article 31 of the Adoption Law of the People's Republic of China).

Respect for life and care for children should be the most basic requirements for oneself, and if a close friend discovers an abandoned baby, he should immediately report the case to the local public security department, and at the same time assist the public security department to do a good job of reporting and registering. Let the public security department file a case to find the biological parents or other guardians of the abandoned infant, and escort the new life.

Who still has the idea of patriarchy now! Boys and girls are the same, since you give birth to her, you should be responsible for her, if you give birth to her, you are abandoning her, you are giving up on her, it is very irresponsible, you will be spurned by society, or you will not give birth to her, you will be responsible for giving birth to her.

On the one hand, those who have the ability to do gender identification in some areas are now abandoned from the source On the other hand, after the opening of the two-child and three-child policy, there are many children who have even given birth to a child in order to have a child But the imbalance in the sex ratio of newborns is even more serious than in the 80s Is there no abandonment of female babies Now the cost of raising a child is so high It is self-evident that the resources in families with many children are tilted Isn't this a kind of abandonment?

What age is it now? Still patriarchal? Moreover, abandoning a baby is a very serious offense, and it is not just a moral issue, the child is born a responsibility, it is better to abandon him because you are unhappy.

It is mainly caused by the patriarchal mentality.

I think my parents are really irresponsible.

This thing is illegal.

No one dares to do that now.

As the saying goes, "Parents and children are connected." A mother who is pregnant in October and suffers from pregnancy should not abandon her own flesh and blood? But it still happens from time to time. The reasons for this are none other than this:

Children are born with disabilities: it is difficult to cultivate.

Children are congenitally deficient: Parents find it difficult to afford the cost of child support.

The child has a serious illness: the parents are unable to treat it.

The child is an unwanted pregnancy: the father of the child is no longer traceable. The young mother chose to give up her child to save face.

A variety of other reasons.

Whatever the reason, parents should never abandon their babies. This is an irrational act that is unconscionable and intolerable to the law.

Love your child! You have no right to deprive your children of their right to live!

I believe that there are many reasons why biological parents abandon their children, some are helpless, and some are not ready to be parents.

Now there are many more and more irresponsible people in this society, who never know what a life means to them, and only care about their own comfort and enjoyment, but they do not think about what kind of painful consequences their momentary negligence will bring to a child.

It's normal for you to have this kind of thought, and since you are willing to volunteer in an orphanage, it means that your heart is full of love, softer than everyone else. I also thought about this issue before, and I thought that all parents in the world would be like my parents, who could give a lot for their children.

But this is not the case, there are many people in this world, their hearts are harder than we think. Some people give birth to children at the age of seventeen or eighteen, and they themselves are not ready to be parents, and even he does not know how to deal with this child, so he has to choose to abandon them in a panic.

Some parents don't want to abandon their children, because their lives are already extremely poor, and they can't give their children any good help, and even this kind of life is better to put them in orphanages, at least they can be fed and clothed.

Not all people in this world are like us who don't worry about food and clothing, live a very happy life, and want a lot. Some people have their own difficulties, and I believe that there are still many parents in this world who are good to their children. No one will want to abandon their children until the last resort, after all, blood is thicker than water, and there is no one in this world who is more important than their own children.

Life in the world, everyone's life is different, they experience it differently, some people will not experience any ups and downs in this life, and some people are destined to suffer from birth.

Some people abandon their children because they are selfish, while some people give up their children because they can give them the last love.

But fortunately, it is your selfless dedication that makes these children feel the warmth of the world. This world is still much warmer than cold, but they happened to be unfortunate enough to be born in a cold family and meet their own selfish parents.

I remember there was an orphanage with a banner that said that all children should be pampered, and for some reason, when I saw that sentence, my nose was sour, and I felt like tears welled up.

The arrival of every child in this world is the choice of their parents, and they can neither obtain the consent of the child nor give the child a happy life.

Orphans in this world are the most worthy of love, because they came to the world without choice, and then were abandoned again. I only wish there were more warm people and less selfish people in this world.

Infant abandonment refers to the abandonment of a child under the age of one by a legal entity who has the obligation to support him. According to relevant reports, we have found that the abandonment of babies often occurs in our country, and female babies and disabled babies account for the majority.

What is the reason for this behavior?

There are many reasons for the behavior of abandoning infants, but it has been observed that the main ones are the following:

1) Problems with the baby itself.

Some babies are born with some diseases with the current level of medical care, or the economic conditions of the baby's family are difficult to **, although the baby's family subjectively does not want to abandon the baby, but the actual conditions make them unable to implement.

2) Causes of traditional Chinese thought.

In many parts of the country, especially in remote areas such as rural and mountainous areas, there is a traditional idea of preference for sons over women. Although China has carried out large-scale ideological education and propaganda on the equality of men and women, it is not possible to completely implement this idea in a short period of time. When a baby is born as a girl, it gives them thoughts of abandonment.

3) Reasons for economic conditions.

Although China's economy has made great progress after reform and opening up and long-term development, we must also see that China's development has the characteristics of unevenness, and there is a certain phenomenon of price and lack of medical conditions in China's society, especially in the western and some central regions. Without sufficient material resources to raise a child, there is a risk of abandonment of the baby.

4) Loopholes in legal norms.

China's criminal law and related laws do not define the crime of infant abandonment as an independent crime, and there are no specific punishment measures for the subject of the act, which is difficult to meet the requirements of having a law to follow. And in some areas, the concept of law is not very strong.

Most of the abandoned babies are disabled or have congenital diseases, or because the babies are born girls. In China's practice, most of the infants' families are responsible for abandonment, and the frequency of one act is increasing year by year, which invisibly increases the burden of welfare institutions, that is, the burden of society as a whole.

1. After discovering an abandoned baby, citizens shall report it to the neighborhood committee or village committee of the community under their jurisdiction as soon as possible, and promptly report the case to the local public security organ in accordance with the law, and shall not take it in or dispose of it without authorization. Public security organs should do a good job of finding the parents and other guardians of abandoned infants, and where the biological parents or other guardians cannot be found, issue a certificate of picking up the abandoned infants, send them to the Weinan City Children's Welfare Institute for custody and sign an agreement, and the children's welfare homes are to handle formal check-in formalities in accordance with the prescribed procedures.

2. For abandoned infants transferred by the public security organs, the child welfare institutions should promptly send them to the health department for physical examination, and issue a physical examination form, and for sick abandoned infants, medical institutions should follow the principle of "first treatment, then settlement", and issue a certificate when discharged.

3. Child welfare establishments should promptly go to the public security organs to handle household registration for abandoned infants with relevant materials such as the abandoned infant admission registration form and the public security organ's certificate of picking up the abandoned infant. 4. Abandoned babies who are formally admitted to the hospital shall be raised by the children's welfare institute in accordance with the "Opinions on Strengthening the Protection of Orphans" (No. 54 of the State Council).

Abandoned babies are the most vulnerable special group in the whole society, and it is the unshirkable responsibility of the civil affairs department to do a good job in the rescue of abandoned babies, and it is also the obligation of every citizen, we must resolutely prohibit illegal acts such as abandonment or trafficking of infants, and every citizen should be in line with the principle of "people-oriented, children first", safeguard the legitimate rights and interests of abandoned babies, promote the healthy growth of abandoned babies, and make their own efforts to build a harmonious society.

1. The conditions for the adoption of an abandoned infant are as follows:

1. The adopter shall not violate family planning.

2. For the adoption of orphans, disabled children, or abandoned infants raised by social welfare institutions whose biological parents cannot be found, the adopter is not subject to the condition of having no children and only one child can be adopted.

3. To adopt other abandoned infants, they must have no children, and they can only adopt one child, and they must issue the "Certificate of Picking Up Abandoned Babies and Children Reporting" issued by the public security organs and sign a contract for no longer having children with the relevant departments such as the street family planning department in quadruplicate.

4. For the adoption of non-orphans, abandoned infants, and disabled children, it is also necessary to provide the household registration booklet of the adoptee's biological parents, ID card, marriage certificate, marriage and birth control certificate issued by the local town (street) first-level family planning office, the child's birth certificate, and the birth permit (if it is an unplanned birth, it is also necessary to provide the unplanned birth fee collection or fine documents), and sign a contract with the relevant departments for no further birth in quadruplicate.

5. If you suffer from infertility and adopt abandoned babies and children who cannot be raised by non-social welfare institutions and cannot find their biological parents, you need to go to the District Family Planning Bureau to obtain the application form after being examined by two of the Municipal People's Hospital, the Municipal Women's and Children's Hospital, and the Municipal Family Planning Service Center.

6. Adoption of orphans, disabled children, or abandoned infants and children raised by social welfare institutions whose biological parents cannot be found, and who request to give birth, shall be examined and approved according to the one-child procedure, and shall still be examined and approved according to the two-child procedure.

On May 25, the "Measures for the Registration of Adoption of Children by Chinese Citizens" came into effect, and abandoned infants and children who were illegally adopted were not allowed to register for adoption. Abandoned infants and children illegally adopted by them are sent to local social welfare institutions for adoption.

Because some girls have sex with their boyfriends or other members of the opposite sex without safety protection measures to get pregnant, and they may not be allowed to get pregnant for identity reasons or face reasons, they are afraid that if they are ridiculed, they will quietly abandon their children. Many parents are not ready to be parents, especially some young people are even studying, of course, they are not able to raise a child, sometimes they don't even know that they are pregnant, and the child is born at a loss and can only choose to abandon it. This has to do with the lack of sex education, but also with the lack of responsibility on the part of these young people, and this is becoming more and more common.

Many abandoned children are born with some kind of disease, such as Down syndrome, cerebral palsy and other diseases, these diseases are either huge costs and the family cannot afford them, or there is no cure, and it will be a burden at home in the future, and the parents will be bound by this child for the rest of their lives. In this case, many unconscionable parents will abandon the child. Although raising children can be poor, it also costs a lot of money, many people have no money to raise children, and some people are so mad that they have children to sell them to make money for their own expenses, although this is a few extremes, but there are also such behaviors.

Parents are immoral, irresponsible, afraid that children will drag themselves down, or patriarchal, abandon girls, no matter what the reason is, that is, if they don't want children, they should not give birth to children, and they can't bear to abandon them, they are not worthy of being parents, let alone being people, and they don't even have the minimum love of being a human beingSome families still continue the old thinking of the past, thinking that boys can prosper incense. Therefore, when a child is born as a girl, it is very likely that the child will be abandoned.