Because the family is against breaking up with her boyfriend, she has been reluctant to forget him,

Updated on psychology 2024-08-08
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    That's your home, and he has a reason to rely on it? This kind of man is not free and easy to break up, if he wants to redeem himself, he should change himself, improve himself to start again, and a woman can change her mind by staying on her face? It's not a pity that this kind of man broke up.

    Wait for him to go to work or go out to change the lock immediately, as long as there is evidence to prove that it is your home, you can call the police, why do you want your family to go to live in a hotel, do not flinch in the face of this situation, the more you retreat, the more he has to inch in.

    If someone does not leave the house of the person concerned, his behavior violates the provisions of Article 40 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law", and he is suspected of trespassing into a citizen's residence, and shall be given an administrative punishment for public security in accordance with the law.

    The parties may report the case to the public security organs and request that the case be filed for investigation.

    Legal link: Article 40 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law" Anyone who commits any of the following acts shall be detained for not less than 10 days but not more than 15 days, and shall also be fined between 500 and 1,000 yuan; where the circumstances are more minor, they are to be detained for between 5 and 10 days and fined between 200 and 500 RMB

    1) Organizing, coercing, or enticing persons under the age of 16 or persons with disabilities to perform terrorist or cruel performances;

    2) Forcing others to work by violence, threats, or other means;

    3) Unlawfully restricting the physical liberty of others, illegally trespassing into others' homes, or illegally searching others' bodies.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You can tell him that we have no fate to break up, I will send you home, maybe you can go home, my family does not agree to give you face, if you don't understand all kinds of means, I will call the police, if you don't understand all kinds of means, I will.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Just call the police to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You can call the police directly or ask your coordination team to come in.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now that they have broken up, it is his fault that he still relies on this and does not leave.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The boyfriend asks you to go back to his hometown with him, if you don't want to break up, this idea is very extreme, only considering him himself and not considering your future, such an extreme person you should choose to break up, even if you want to go to his hometown in the future, you have to choose to break up now.

    Selfish people will always bring harm to their partner in a relationship. Your boyfriend wants to take you back to his hometown, his purpose is nothing more than to hope that you can become a member of their family, dissociate yourself from your original family, and hope that you will compromise, and even threaten you with a breakup, such a person is very extreme, even a bit of a diode, if you don't go with his will, you disobey him, that is, you disrespect the relationship, you just don't love him, such a moral shackle has now overwhelmed you, so what about the future? After you get married, he will not threaten you with divorce, will he intimidate you with not having children, such a very naïve and selfish idea, for the sake of your future happiness you should also choose to break up.

    In addition, you must know that there is no one in the world who loves you more than your parents, and will he be able to be good to you for the rest of his life? Not really. You are far away from your parents and go to his hometown, maybe the conditions of his hometown are not good, not as good as the city you live in now, then his family has not raised any objections?

    Their family's thoughts are also obvious, that is, they want to trap you first, and he is also sure that you dare not resist, and he is soft-hearted and unwilling to give up this relationship before he dares to threaten you with a breakup, if you propose to break up now, the best result is to get out of the sea of suffering and start a new life of your own, no matter how bad he is, he also knows that he can't use a tough attitude towards you in the future, so you must resolutely refuse him now.

    Finally, girls must cherish themselves, have their own opinions and future plans, can not be manipulated by their boyfriends, his future is to return to his hometown, he does not hesitate to give up your future for himself, you have to be firm in your own ideas, in order to have the opportunity to realize your ideals, let yourself live the life you want, if you give up and compromise, then you will be farther and farther away from your ideals, so you have to choose to break up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really don't want to break up with him when you go back to your hometown, he has already made a decision, and has said that you will break up if you don't go back to your hometown, at this time you have to think about whether you can give up everything you are now and go back to your hometown with him, don't think that feelings are everything, you must think about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In the face of extremes, the two of them should communicate well, do not have emotions, solve problems in a communicative way, tell him his difficulties, and tell him the reason why he does not go home with him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's break up, and then my personality is more extreme, this kind of man will also have violent tendencies, so for the sake of your happiness in the future, you must break up immediately.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Legal analysis: Someone who does not leave the house of the person concerned violates the provisions of Article 40 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law", and is suspected of trespassing into a citizen's residence, and should be given an administrative punishment for public security in accordance with the law. The parties may report the case to the public security organs and request that the case be filed for investigation.

    Legal basis: Public Security Administration Punishment Law of the People's Republic of China Article 40: Those who commit any of the following acts are to be detained for between 10 and 15 days and fined between 500 and 1,000 RMB; where the circumstances are more minor, they are to be detained for between 5 and 10 days and fined between 200 and 500 RMB

    1) Organizing, coercing, or enticing persons under the age of 16 or persons with disabilities to perform terrorist or cruel performances;

    2) Forcing others to work by violence, threats or other means;

    3) Unlawfully restricting the physical liberty of others, illegally trespassing into another person's home, digging up a house, or illegally searching another person's body.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Guardianship refers to a civil legal system that supervises and protects the person, property, and other rights and interests of minors and mentally ill persons. The person who performs the duty of supervision and protection is called the guardian, and the person who is supervised and protected is called the ward.

    The purpose of establishing the guardianship system by law is mainly to protect the legitimate rights and interests of minors and mentally ill persons who are unable to handle their own affairs, and also to maintain the social and economic order and the order of life.

    Guardian liability refers to the civil liability borne by guardians of persons who lack or have limited capacity for civil conduct when they cause harm to others.

    Legal basis]:

    Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

    Article 1188:Where persons lacking or limited capacity for civil conduct cause harm to others, the guardian bears tort liability. Where guardians perform their guardianship duties, their tort liability may be reduced.

    Where a person with property who lacks or has limited capacity for civil conduct causes harm to others, compensation is to be paid from his or her own property; The guardian shall compensate for the shortfall.

    Article 1189:Where a person who lacks or has limited capacity for civil conduct causes harm to others, and the guardian entrusts guardianship duties to others, the guardian shall bear tort liability; If the trustee is at fault, he shall bear the corresponding responsibility. Praise is sleepy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because he once loved you, a silence can only show that this relationship is still in his heart. Due to the pressure from his family, he had no choice but to leave. If he doesn't make it clear why the family doesn't agree, you can ask him for clarification.

    It's impossible to leave you just because your family doesn't agree with it. If it were me, I would be very unwilling.

    In this way, he is not responsible for you and the relationship at all. If he really loves you, he won't leave without looking back, he will at least worry that you are also very sad, even if the family disagrees, he will think about solving this problem, not that there is no way to think of if he disagrees, there is always a way to solve it. However, he didn't think about a solution at all and just walked away, which shows that he has slowly compromised and slowly accepted his parents' opinions from the heart.

    But then again, he is still an obedient child and has filial piety.

    Now let's analyze your current heart, because you are unwilling, so you want to know the reason. You can find him in person and ask for it, and if it can be solved and you really love each other, and you can't live without each other, then you can try to solve it. Human life is very short, and it is a beautiful thing to be with the person you love.

    If it can't be solved or he doesn't want to face it, he doesn't want to solve it. So that's it. You have also done your best, you are already very responsible for this relationship, you will not be unwilling, and you will leave in style, so that your heart is better.

    Good luck!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People always encounter all kinds of difficulties, if a person does not have a strong will, it is impossible to come out, the most important thing is that both of you are happy, there is no career to work hard slowly, the two of you have to think clearly, I wish you each happiness

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hearing that you are excited is a sign that he cares about you. LOVE YOU ... Silence is only because of family reasons that seem powerless, and men are usually silent when they are in trouble...

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because he has to consider the situation of his family, you broke up for the sake of his family, so the most important thing for him now is to consider his family, so he can't promise you, so he can only be silent.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe he can't forget you, but he can't help himself, so he can't help it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It seems that his parents are much taller than you in his mind. You'd better give up. This kind of man. Foolishness belongs. Even if you reluctantly marry into his family, he will never favor you if your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a little conflicted in the future. It's too late for you to get discouraged.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really want to figure it out in your heart, find a way to contact him, not necessarily to meet, but to figure out his attitude, to find out whether he still loves you, whether your love is so fragile in his eyes, if he still loves you deeply, then you should not give up easily, love is to rely on your own efforts, and love that has gone through hardships will be stronger. If he doesn't know what he thinks, and he is not sure if he can persevere, then don't force him, maybe he can't give you a lifetime to rely on, you all need time to think about the future and reality, time will give you a result, whether this result is what you hope or not, you have to let yourself go on happily, girls need to be strong and independent, and learn to protect themselves.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is very contradictory, maybe he doesn't have you in his heart anymore, maybe he still loves you, there are a lot of scoundrels, love him to chase, if there is no chance, bless him.

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