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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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Woman, you have to see clearly and love again! See if he really loves you! If you have a real relationship, he will divorce you, and I hope my answer will help you
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It is best to end your dealings, otherwise it will be unfair to all parties.
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Calm down and make a decision after careful consideration Be like a man.
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If you know the answer, why ask. People are self-aware and self-controlled.
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Don't think about it anymore. Look at your wife's good!
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Have a degree in your heart, don't be too depressed.
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Hello, it's simple, either you leave him, or he leaves the existing family and unites with you.
Some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, loving someone does not have to have, but owning a person must be cherished. In fact, this kind of behavior is to play the role of a third party, this happiness is based on the pain of others, should be given up, because, the lowest bottom line of our life is conscience, being a third party is also a very worrying thing, although I feel ashamed, but after all, I am a victim, the third person who appears between the two is called a third person, because the status of the third party is not favored by the world, it is a person who specializes in destroying other people's families, this kind of person is very immoral, and will be condemned by societyThe appearance of a third party will make the cracks of family tragedy staged, will be abused by the world, there will be no happiness and joy in such a life, always avoid people's sight, dare not be an upright person, will always let the trivial matters of the family be troubled, so that only you will be hurt in the end, you will live in pain, why bother? Remember, the people who love you will not make you cry.
If you go the wrong way, you should turn back, and if you bite the bullet and go on again, you will be even more wrong. In fact, as a third party, why bother yourself? If you go on like this, you will live a very painful life, you will have low self-esteem, you will be uninteresting, you should wake up, and stop being stupid?
Otherwise, you can only be hovered on the edge of pain, he will not bring you much happiness and joyful feelings, do you think, will he give up his family for you, live up to his responsibilities and burdens for his family, he is a negative person, will you not doubt that the same tragedy will be staged in the future? The fate of the third party will not end well in the end, and he will pay a heavy price, and he will regret it for life, so why pay everything for him? Is it worth it?
Why embarrass yourself? Do you know how many people have paid the price of suffering to lift up the sky of those who have no suffering? If you are a third person, you should get out of the shadow of the third party, get out of the predicament, give up what you should give up, pursue what you should pursue, take the path you want to take, and don't get caught in the happiness of others.
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In this kind of relationship, you can only maintain it to the extent of friends, and you must not cross the line, it is difficult for you to control yourself in your relationship, unless you want to destroy your family, you can treat him as an idol.
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What if a woman with a family falls in love with a man with a family? What to do? I think cut through the mess quickly, wash your hands quickly, otherwise you have destroyed other people's families, and also ruined your own family, it is said that your man is also very good to you, then you can't be like this, if you really don't love your man or woman, your marriage has come to an end, then you can sit down and talk well, break up well, and then go to love each other before the blessing, if you haven't broken up, you will each fall in love with someone, a person with a family, fall in love with a husband or a married woman, I think it's all immoral.
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In this way, the two of you must keep a good distance in order to make yourself and his family happy.
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Just follow this development and don't disturb people.
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This kind of love is fruitless.
If both men and women have families, don't talk about love, and don't destroy other people's families for the sake of their own happiness and that of each other's families.
Don't envy the happiness of others, don't think that other men are better than your own men, know how to cherish, what you have is the best.
While you envy others, there are also people looking up to you, everyone's life is not easy, everyone also has advantages and disadvantages, look at each other's advantages, praise their own family, life is still full of sunshine.
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Be sure to restrain your emotions because you are a married person. Doing so doesn't do your marriage any good. So be sensible and deal with this matter.
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I advise you to stop loving, you already have a family, and if you succeed, you will hurt both families. If you don't succeed, you hurt your own family, the other party has nothing to do, and you end up with nothing. It's you who hurt.
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If this happens, she has only two options: the first is to leave her existing family and marry the man she likes; The second is to be with him secretly, and the two are tired of playing, and if they are lucky, they can return to the family and start a normal life.
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If there is a man who has a family and falls in love with a man with a family, he should clearly realize that this is immoral, irresponsible for the family, and will be detrimental to the two families, and he should give up immediately, return to his family, and forget about this man, otherwise the consequences will be serious, and even the family will be ruined. Put an immediate end to this practice.
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Don't criticize the relationship between the two of them, because this kind of relationship is pure and noble, and it is worthy of respect, but if you love the wrong person, and both of you are in love with a married person, it will bring disharmony and contradictions to the other party's family, so there must be someone to stop them in time and let them each return to their respective marriages, otherwise their respective marriages and families will be ruined.
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It is recommended to keep it in your heart, maybe you and the man you fall in love with may not be happy together, after all, each other will lose two families at the expense of each other, not to mention that no one can say what will become of the road in the future. Hope you can see through it. Hope it helps.
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This is a bad fate, and this kind of love should be terminated immediately. If it is not terminated, it will destroy the families of both parties, and eventually turn against each other. At the same time, this kind of love is against morality, spurned by others, and detrimental to the growth of one's own children.
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If both parties are married, then as a responsible person for the family, you should have self-control. The two sides are just good feelings, don't cross the red line.
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Both parties have families, and both have legal responsibilities and obligations to bear and abide by, so the kind of love you say is invalid. I had no choice but to give up.
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Everyone has a family, so don't destroy this beauty and make it impossible for several families to live a good life. Let's extinguish this love as soon as possible.
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Separated, you like it now, if you really leave, it will become what the family is now, and the dragon slayer will still become a dragon.
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What should a woman do when she falls in love with a family man? Know early, get free.
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Almost everyone has a family, and the proportion of single women and single men is very small, and if they are of similar age, they chase after them and establish relationships with the help of the power of the family.
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Hello! Think clearly! It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, it's not necessarily good to be really together, it's better to love your family! Nan no Great Compassion and Great Compassion Guanyin Bodhisattva!
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In this case, if you don't want your family to be torn apart, it's best to cut off contact immediately.
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It's okay to stop thinking, or you can divorce yourself first, and the other party will divorce too.
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Such a woman is the one who destroys other people's families, don't touch this kind of woman, otherwise it will hurt the department and your family.
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