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One: whether both sides can satisfy each other.
We should all understand that the core essence of marriage is to provide a stable labor force for social development, and it is not all because of love. The Marriage Law has never required people to marry for love, but people themselves believe that marriage is the necessary result of love, and the value of marriage itself is to integrate resources. When you are in love, you can be satisfied with each other, and if you can satisfy each other, you will always be loyal.
Two: whether we can grow together.
In marriage, if a man has been growing, as long as the woman can't keep up with the growth and elimination is only a matter of time, a woman has been growing, and her man is not growing, then the man is eliminated, the man and the woman themselves are the root vine relationship, the man is the tree and the woman is the vine, the tree does not grow, the tree will be surrounded by other vines. If the vine does not grow, then the vine will become entangled in other trees, and that's it, this is the law of nature.
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01 Enjoy life and refuse to argue.
Although a small quarrel will make a family become lively, but a long quarrel is also very emotional, people are relatively quick to get used to creatures, once they adapt to a certain way of speaking or tone of speech, or even behavior, they will unconsciously comply.
It's like arguing, after all, it's noisy, so the way you speak will become louder, once the other party gets used to your way of speaking, over time, the person will be unconsciously frozen in the eyes of the other party. Trying to readjust one's state to another model means that it will take some time to adapt, and this cycle will lead to boring and boring married life. Many people will feel that they have entered marriage, they should have returned to the ordinary, they used up all your energy when they were in love, and now they should go with the flow, you know, in fact, marriage is the beginning of life, this is the time to create a life bravely.
Therefore, occasionally giving each other a small surprise in marriage is also some embellishment of life, all lifestyles are ordinary, relying on us, the operators of life, to create extraordinary.
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Many of the settings in intimate relationships are ultimately in the service of loyalty, such as commitment and marriage, where the promise of "I love you" is actually saying "I only love you and you can only love me"; Monogamy in marriage means that we have to be faithful to each other, and you can only marry me, and you can't tolerate anyone else.
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Rely on, trust between two people, rely on, communication between two people, this person is actually reliable This kind of loyalty is close to the two people.
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Fidelity in marriage is still maintained by trust. Marriage is not particularly necessary and it is better not to have secrets, it seems that together there is the most prone to a crisis of trust. It is best for the two to be honest with each other.
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The middle pets in marriage first rely on self-consciousness, and secondly, rely on oneself and maintain each other's feelings.
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The upbringing and trust engraved in each other's bones.
If there is no love, the marriage can still rely on the family, both parents and children to maintain, because if you have children, you must consider the future of the children, the growth of the children, for the children will give up love, the family will think that the parents are old, hope to see you live happily, so you will also be together for the sake of both parents.
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