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You can test whether your husband has changed his mind by observing the details.
There are signs of a man's change of heart, every lady wants her husband to love her, the real husband and wife life is as plain as water, but there is never a shortage of people in life who are good at acting and disguise, we can tell from a detail, that is, when sleeping, he always lies down, and then turns his back to you, often like this, eighty percent of them change their minds.
Sometimes you want to be a spoiler for him, but he either feels that you are annoying and pushes you away directly, or he feels that he doesn't care and doesn't cater to you, then in his eyes, you are no longer important. If your husband, after returning home, hides in another room by himself, does not take the initiative to talk to you, does not work overtime, and seems to be deliberately avoiding you, then it means that he has changed his mind.
How to deal with a husband who has changed his mind
First of all, analyze the reasons why men change their minds about you. If he changes his mind about you, it's just a simple problem between you, of course you can take some measures to try to remedy it. If he has a change of heart with you because he is in love with someone else, then you can also try it and see if there is still a possibility between you.
If you have done everything you should have done, and there is still no way to save his heart, and he still insists on breaking up, then at this time, even if you are reluctant and want to go to the end with him, you must also learn to let go and be free with each other.
Because guarding a relationship that no longer exists, guarding a person who no longer has himself in his heart, it is meaningless except to find guilt for himself. Life is so short, you really don't have to waste time with someone who doesn't love you.
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I can see that my husband's change of heart has become more and more busy, and I have no time to accompany you and pay attention to my image.
1. I am getting busier and busier, and I don't have time to accompany you at all. Companionship is the most affectionate confession, if he doesn't even have the time and interest to accompany you, it is actually forcing you to leave. It is true that some men will be busy with work or study, but even if they are busy, only if they have you in their hearts, they will naturally be able to squeeze out time to accompany you.
So, being a man will become busier and busier, and there will be no time to spend with you. In other words, he is obviously free, but he ignores you, he doesn't reply to WeChat, but he has time to send a circle of friends, if there is such a performance, then there is no doubt that he must have changed his mind, obviously.
2. I always quarrel with you over a little thing. In a relationship, it's normal to be occasionally noisy. But this does not mean that you have to quarrel every day, and you have to quarrel about everything.
Especially as a man, it is even more impossible to quarrel with you for no reason. After all, whether he wins or loses, it is not a good thing for him.
A man, if he always quarrels with you because of a little thing, or even finds fault with you every day and makes you unhappy. It must be that he has changed his mind and thinks that you are not worthy of him, or has a better choice, and thinks you are bad in comparison.
3. Pay attention to image. Pay a lot of attention to your own image, because your husband has changed his mind, he becomes not concerned about your opinion, but he will care about the opinion of other women, so he will become very concerned about his image, such as: pay attention to clothing, pay attention to hairstyle, etc.
How to get along with each other
1. Mutual appreciation, can be summarized into two principles, one is: "strive to be appreciated by the other party"; The second is to "strive to appreciate each other". The true charm of love lies in the joy of burying each other. Don't be shy about showing your love to your loved ones, and don't be stingy with your compliments.
Appreciation is a kind of recognition, affirmation and encouragement of each other's reputation, which will inevitably make people have a sense of satisfaction, the so-called understanding of the greatest meaning is affirmation, recognition, praise and appreciation, appreciation is the common psychological need of both parties, and it is also one of the secrets of a good relationship between husband and wife.
2. Personality independence, marriage is one-to-one freedom, one-to-one democracy. Don't be paranoid about "you're mine," as that will turn your love nest into a prison for each other. If we want love to "grow", we must first make sure that it is carefully nurtured and unwaveringly cared for.
Instead of changing oneself, let alone trying to change each other, each should adjust themselves to a moderate space, both to stay together and to be alone with each other. In the soil of marriage, let the two trees of individuality grow freely, and you can naturally reap the fruits of happiness.
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Before you intend to be tempted, ask yourself if you can accept the result, when you doubt, you have already concluded for him, once the seeds of doubt are planted, it is a matter of time before you change your mind!
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Hello! You can ask him directly, did you say he had a change of heart? If he doesn't say it, then you can ask him yourself, you can ask him, you don't love me anymore, how can you be like this?!
If he really doesn't want to say it, you can check his mobile phone yourself, if his mobile phone has chat records with other women, you can ask him directly, if he says no, you can trust him, but if he says yes, then it proves that he really has a change of heart, and you don't have to be too sad, because you can still redeem it, you can talk to him well, and then tell him, if you really change your mind, then you can divorce! If he really changes his mind, then divorce! If he says that he has not changed his mind, then you can believe him, and if he has really changed his mind, then you can divorce him directly and do not recover.
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