Marriage has entered the point where there is nothing to say, is it still necessary to hold on?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-13
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Marriage has entered the point where there is nothing to say, so there is no need to insist on it. There are many boyfriends and girlfriends who can't stop talking when they are just together, but after getting married, you will find that the common language between the two is getting less and less, and after going home, both of them are busy playing with their mobile phones and rarely talking, or sometimes when you want to say a few words to him, he is like he is ignoring him, which is really sad to the heart.

    If in a marriage, both of them have reached the point where they have nothing to say, then this marriage is about to come to an end.

    1. Follow your heart's thoughts and don't force it

    The most important thing for the two to be together is to be happy, happy, and feel relaxed and happy, if you have nothing to say, every day when you go home is a very heavy sense of depression, this kind of day is really not easy to live, because you have a hard day of work, want to go home can have a warm and warm feeling, but after going home it is more depressing, then there is no need to be together and separate directly, so it is good for you and him.

    2. Relax your mood and go out for a trip

    We can temporarily take a small long vacation to travel to beautiful places, so that two people can have a sense of distance for a while, maybe when you come back next time, you will find that the relationship between the two will be warm.

    3. Only by understanding each other can a good marriage be maintained

    Everyone hopes that their marriage can be happy, and this happiness needs two people to guard, not unilateral pay, we all need to understand each other, to listen to each other's voices, so as to find a common topic to chat about, if two people are busy with their own careers and never communicate, resulting in two people have nothing to say, this embarrassing scene is like a cold violence.

    Then separate as soon as possible, and everyone will live their own way, which is good for everyone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    There is no need to insist anymore, there is no common topic between the two people, which proves that there is no attraction.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Hello, there is no need, because the most important thing in marriage is communication, so that you can know what the other party is thinking and wanting, and there is nothing to say, then there is no difference between it and a stranger.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you feel that two people are not together, and you still feel that you miss each other, then it is still necessary to persevere. Marriage is actually a dull process in the end, and there will definitely be nothing to say, but if you can still spend it and accompany each other, this is the ultimate meaning of marriage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If it weren't for the temporary Cold War, there would really be no need to persist any longer, and it would be a kind of torture for everyone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Marriage has entered the point where there is nothing to say, so there is no need to insist on it, because your relationship is getting weaker and weaker, but the marriage is not happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is necessary to insist on the marriage will inevitably tend to be dull, and the daily trivialities and firewood, rice, oil and salt will eventually wear out the feeling of the heartbeat that once was, but it should still be persevered.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is no need to persist in this situation, because marriage is a very happy thing, and if there is nothing to say, then it will not be interesting.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The twisted melon is not sweet, and the marriage has become a situation where there is nothing to say, which means that it has become a stranger, and there is no need to insist at all, and the end is a relief for both parties.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When marriage has reached the point where there is nothing to say, sometimes you can let go for a while and don't divorce first, maybe because of contradictions, wait until you are separated for a period of time and meet again.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no need, because two people have no common topic and are very indifferent to each other, so there is no need to insist.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If both parties have not violated some personal bottom line issues, then it is still necessary for this marriage to exist, because slowly you will find that this kind of plainness is very good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Marriage has reached the point where there is nothing to say, and this matter does not necessarily mean that it can't be insisted on, there is nothing to say, it's just that both people hate each other very much and don't understand each other, but in fact, they still miss each other in their hearts.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What to do when the marriage has nothing to say.

    Let the relationship between two people develop naturally, without being deliberate. In such an embarrassing moment, you don't have to do anything deliberately.

    The man can use his sense of humor to resolve the deadlock. Most men have a good sense of humor.

    The woman can solve the problem by her own weaknesses. Women usually have some weaknesses in life, such as fear of the dark.

    Ensure that both sides are always free of the economy and spirit.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's nothing to say, so let's get a divorce, it's okay if you're free, you can find someone to talk about and live with, that's more interesting, I think. So, he really can't force marriage or something, he can't make do with it, he can't just live coldly like this because of the so-called children, and then you will only harm the children and the family.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In a marriage without love, there is no language in common, and getting along with each other will only make both parties more sad, and there is no contact with each other, and there is no need to be together! It only adds to the sadness!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Marriage has reached the point where it is impossible to speak. Is it still necessary to insist? If you suspect that there is still a little room for redemption, you should hold on to it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the marriage reaches the point where there is nothing to say, such a marriage is very bitter Sometimes, you can create a topic by yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    From falling in love to getting married, husband and wife have been together for a long time, and two people have unconsciously changed from having nothing to talk about to having nothing to say, as if everything should be like this, and as if it shouldn't be like this. Sometimes I have nothing to say, and I feel too familiar, and when I am familiar with what he says, I know what he is going to say next. In short, couples can live together without talking, as long as they are comfortable in this state.

    A good friend of mine is like that. Her husband has been married to her for two years. After only two years, they had nothing to say to each other.

    After eating after work, my husband will play computer games, and when he stops playing, he will go to bed, and then take out his mobile phone and return to his girlfriend to play, with an obvious attitude, preferring to look at his phone rather than talk.

    The reason why couples have nothing to say is that it starts from the loss of "attraction", that is, when you are in love, you have the characteristic of attracting me, and after marriage, this characteristic attracts me, since you can't attract, the topic will naturally be less. Of course, in addition to these, there is also the estrangement between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the betrayal of the other half, and the distance between the two places, which may lead to nothing to say between the husband and wife. So, one might ask, should couples let go when they have nothing to say?

    <> in line with the attitude of "persuading but not persuading", I suggest that both husband and wife should communicate well, and good communication is the first step to solve the problem of "nothing to say" between husband and wife. Couples who love each other, don't let the feelings disappear in silence! In recent years, the "divorce rate" of couples has been rising, among them, there are not a few couples who divorce because they have nothing to say, after all, there is nothing to say in marriage, and silence is the most.

    And silence is cold violence, and cold violence takes the form of indifference, contempt, indulgence, alienation and indifference, causing mental and psychological aggression and harm to the other party.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it's necessary, it's better to settle this situation earlier, otherwise both sides will be very uncomfortable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no need, it is good to choose divorce directly at this time, otherwise it will be two people who will be uncomfortable in the end.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Personally, I don't think it's necessary to be together, just divorce and get rid of each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In real life, there are always some uncertain factors affecting marriage, some marriages have been tested many times, and eventually grow old, but some marriages are gradually having nothing to say, in the face of this situation, many people want to know whether this marriage relationship should be given up, let's find out together.

    1. Will the marriage that has nothing to say continue?

    1. Go on and don't rush to make decisions.

    Marriages without words are caused by many reasons, some of which are not fatal, and as long as you find out the crux of the problem, you can still get by. When you find that you have nothing to say between you, you should adjust in time, communicate with each other, and try to change, after all, marriage is your own choice, and you should take responsibility for the marriage, not choose to give up.

    2. Don't continue.

    If, after you have communicated, it is determined that the relationship between the two parties has broken down, and if it will only be torture to continue, and no change can be reversed in this case, then it is better not to continue.

    Second, whether the marriage that has nothing to say is to be given up

    1. I have seen a lot of marriages that have nothing to say, there are on the Internet, there are also in reality, some couples are older, and they think that the impact of divorce is not good, and it will affect the children, so they make do with it, but it is precisely because of this idea of improvisation that it has become the source of pain for the two. So in this case, it's better to give up, don't always live for your children, for decades, why not for yourself.

    2. If there is still affection between husband and wife, then communicate more, usually find more topics that the other party is interested in, affirm each other more, don't be afraid to be alone with each other, think more about your former love, is it a pity to give up easily.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When marriage becomes nothing to talk about, such a marriage is basically a pool of stagnant water, dispensable, and there is no substantive marriage.

    Suggestion, let me re-enrich the relationship, those two people are as good as ever, and care about each other.

    Either they can only separate, because long pain is better than short pain, it is recommended that the two people sit down and have a good talk to see if they can live a good life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When marriage becomes speechless, let's not talk about it, because most couples will become speechless after being together for a long time. Slowly, you can go from having nothing to say to talking in a trickle of water. It is impossible to be so in love with the past, and the heat of the Qing is very empty, and it will become a dull period, so we must accept this reality, and don't always feel inferior to the above.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Marriage without words is caused by many factors, these are not fatal reasons, as long as you find out the key to the problem, you can continue to live, when you find that you have nothing to say, you must adjust in time, communicate with each other, and close up and try to change, after all, marriage is your own choice, you should be responsible for marriage, not choose to give up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If the marriage of two people becomes such a situation and there is nothing to say, then you have to think about what the problem is, whether the two people have not grown and stopped moving, or one person can't keep up with the other. If you want to repair the marital relationship, you can try to understand how the other party communicates, how to warm up, and how to change.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When the marriage becomes speechless with Liang Tan, it proves that there is no communication between your husband and wife, Pei Tong can take the initiative to go to the scum banquet and find some topics to communicate with each other, so that your marriage will not become so boring.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When the marriage becomes speechless, then you should try to let someone else act as a mediator and continue to communicate, so as to make the marriage continue to last.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If a marriage becomes uneventful, it will become more and more cold and indifferent, and it is impossible for others to talk to each other. So if you want to save your marriage, you should find a reason why you have nothing to say, communicate more, communicate more, and understand each other more.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hello, in this case, my suggestion is that if there is any contradiction between the two people, they should communicate as soon as possible, talk about the psychological knot of the two people, and find the common interests and hobbies of the two people, as long as the two people have common interests and hobbies, then the topic of the two people will be hidden from the first banquet.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When the marriage becomes nothing to say, you can find a topic, look at each other's hobbies, you can follow each other's hobbies, or two people go to mess up some topics, so that your life is not so embarrassing This may be better, in a relationship.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If there is nothing to say about the marriage, the first thing to do is whether there is a problem in your life, and you must solve this contradiction and talk face-to-face about some of the situations in your heart.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Marriage requires two people to go both ways, when two people have nothing to say, think about how to judge Li in the future, two people can dig into each other and exchange the true thoughts of Neichang Bureau, and plan the future route.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Two people have to make some changes, they have to change their Fu Ying mentality, think more about the relationship between the two people before, two people can travel together, and they can give each other gifts during the festival can change this situation.

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