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From nothing to nothing to nothing to say, this is the status quo of most couples, and the reasons for this are as follows:
I've known each other for too long, and the two of them have said almost everything they can say, and there is no novelty anymore. Because I know it very well, sometimes I don't say anything, and the other party knows what it means, so there is no need to speak. A long-term lack of communication will lead to two parties not having a common topic and not understanding what the other person is up to?
I don't know what the other party thinks, so I don't know what to say.
Living together for a long time makes two people stumble together in time, struggle in trivial matters, quarrels, cold wars, ignore people, and the relationship between the two people fades, and they are not interested in talking to each other. What's more serious is that there is no love between two people, they are just about to fall in love, and couples who live together are too lazy to talk to each other. It's a sad thing for two couples to never talk about nothing.
Love is a technical job, and if couples want to have something to say often, they must learn to keep love fresh in business. Here are a few suggestions for reference:
Couples who have nothing to say for a long time can see chat as an important means of communication, making it ritualistic.
For example, two people put down their mobile phones before going to bed every day and "chat for 5 yuan". Two people do something together, travel, fitness, spending time with the kids, doing housework, ......If you can do it for two people, don't do it alone, so that two people can have some common topics.
Both of them must continue to learn and improve, often learn new knowledge and accept new ideas. Only when your knowledge and thinking horizons are constantly updated will you become attractive to your partner.
Love needs to be managed, and feelings can be kept fresh, and only by working together can two people go from having nothing to say to nothing to saying again. Don't encounter too many examples like this in life, communicate more, understand each other's difficulties, tolerate each other's shortcomings, often empathize, and be good at discovering each other's shining points. Don't let trivial things affect your happiness, just go in the right direction.
Perhaps this will greatly improve the ...... of the status quo where there is nothing to say
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The feelings are gone, and the freshness is gone. may be because their feelings are weak, so they have nothing to say; It may also be that they know each other too well and feel that there is no freshness.
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Couples never have nothing to say about nothing, which is caused by many reasons, maybe when two people didn't know each other before, they have a lot of topics to talk about, and after gradually becoming very familiar, they don't have anything to say, but just see each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, and pick on each other.
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I think it's because they are not suitable for each other and their views don't agree, so they have nothing to say when they are together, and such two people are fruitless, and they should end as soon as possible.
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Because the relationship between two people is gone, the two people have changed from intimate people to people who have nothing to talk about, and the feelings of two people have changed.
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The main thing is that there is no freshness between two people, so something should be done to make the freshness between two people regain the freshness, so that the relationship can become sweet.
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The main reason is that the relationship between the two has passed, so they have reached a dull area, and the content of the speech is relatively small.
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There are three possibilities. The first is that the novelty has passed; The second is that they understand each other thoroughly, and the other party knows what he is going to do with one look; The third is that you are tired and don't want to pour more energy into each other! Of these three possibilities, there are only two final endings, the first is more and more love, deeper and deeper feelings, and finally a happy ending!
The second is to get more and more bored with each other, feel that the other party is getting more and more boring, don't want to continue, and finally break up! Remember, love accumulates slowly, and neither does love!
If life is only as it is when you first see each other, when you first see each other, because you are not familiar with each other, you hide the bad side of yourself, show the other side you want to show to others, and hope to leave a good impression on each other, and you have reservations about each other. After that, I became more and more familiar, picking my nose in front of me, farting in the bed, throwing socks, etc., it turned out that TA was such a person, so vulgar and unbearable, the image collapsed, and I would mumble in my heart: "TA is also the same as my predecessor, it turns out that the world."'Men'It's all the same!
Maybe TA is not as good as his predecessor in some way. ”
We all love to compare, we are all ordinary laymen, and so am I. So we have seven emotions and six desires, and sometimes we can't control ourselves, we can't be empty, and we can't be saints. I don't want people who have ever entered the body to end up as strangers, but after all, they don't have enough emotional intelligence, lose to time, and lose to trivial ......From the first quarrel, the Cold War, has laid the groundwork for the later nothing, why feelings need to be managed, this is the truth.
The two teeth are still fighting, not to mention the two strangers to each other.
The process of falling in love is: at the beginning of becoming a couple, there are actually many curiosities about each other. For example, when he will hold you, such as under what circumstances he will want to kiss you, etc., so it is not annoying to be tired of being together.
You can talk about the past and the future, so you can talk about everything. But after all this has been discussed, there is really no topic to talk about. After being together for a long time, they have a clear understanding of each other's temperament and lifestyle, and there is no interest and need to explore, at this time the relationship is also the most prone to problems, such as the girl feels that he is beginning to be cold to herself, etc., causing a series of contradictions, many times in addition to expressing that I miss you very much, in fact, there is no other topic to talk about, or even embarrassing chat.
At this time, it doesn't mean that he doesn't like you, you still have to explore your own way of getting along, just get through it. Just do your own thing and don't just think about it all the time.
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It means that there is no relationship between the two people, and they no longer want to find some topics for each other, and they don't want to change themselves, so they feel that life is like this, and it may be time to break up.
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It means that these two people are already very disgusted with each other, and they don't attach much importance to this relationship and want to separate.
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It means that the relationship between the two has broken down, and when the two have nothing to say, it means that the relationship between the two should be terminated, otherwise it will hurt each other if it continues.
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The emergence of this phenomenon mainly means that there is actually nothing to share between two people, and the relationship may come to an end if the relationship fades.
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It means that the two people are already in a quiet period, and the two people are already tired of each other, and it is very likely that they will break up immediately.
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This shows that the husband and wife don't actually have much affection, and it is better to divorce as soon as possible in such a situation.
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It shows that two people have been together for a long time and know each other very well, and this process is also a process that every couple will go through.
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Maybe the topics you talked about at first were deliberately found. Between lovers, you can talk about everything, but there are some topics that you don't need to deliberately find. For example, when you get off work, you can talk about people or things you encounter at work, and share happy things together.
Then the atmosphere between you will be relaxed. If you can go to a certain topic, it will cause you to be in the same state for a long time, and you will not be able to relax. A truly intimate relationship is to know what the other person wants to say with a single look, which is the so-called heart and soul.
It is a problem for most people to have nothing to say after a long time between couples, but this is normal, because the two have been together for a long time, they know each other well, and they are no longer like when they first met, they still have a great sense of freshness and curiosity about each other, and they want to know what each other is doing and thinking at all times. After a long time, I am familiar with it, and these feelings are less, which is normal. You can often go out for a walk and share your opinions, or occasionally separate, after all, Xiao Bie is better than newlyweds.
When a couple has been in love for a longer time, the less topics they talk about, and there will be a strong contrast with the early stage of the relationship, so many people will feel that the relationship between two people has changed. They start to find the right topic to communicate, whether it's a man or a woman, they start to do their own thing, enjoy the space and time that belongs to them. The days when there is nothing to say will make many couples quarrel and easy to be anxious, and some couples will think that there is a contradiction and crisis in the relationship between two people.
Lovers are showing their best side to each other at the beginning, and they just have endless topics to talk about together, no matter what they do, as long as they are very happy together, but after a long time, each other's shortcomings are slowly exposed, and they are not as patient as before, and they will even start to quarrel. As the saying goes, feelings need to accumulate slowly, not in a hurry, the more enthusiastic it comes, the faster it cools. So be sure not to focus all your attention on the other person, but to retain your own personality and let your strengths slowly show each other.
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Because couples have been together for a long time, they will be very familiar with each other, and there will be no topics to talk about, so they will become more and more speechless.
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I think it's because over time, couples have slowly become family, maybe the other party understands each other, there is no common topic, and at the same time it loses its freshness.
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Because we have been together for too long, we have probably finished saying what we should have said, so after being together for a long time, we will talk less and less.
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It represents the depth of love, even if there is nothing to say, you can judge the other person's inner thoughts through one action and one look at the other party.
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Couples talk about nothing and nothing to say about each other, which means that the end of love has been lost, because they have lost a sense of freshness between each other.
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It means that the fate between the couple is gone, and it means that the two of them are not suitable and will break up.
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It means that the couple has entered a dull period, and the two people often get along with each other, so they slowly have nothing to say.
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It means that the relationship between two people has gradually cooled, but if it is well maintained and managed, it can also have a good change.
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This means that the relationship between the two parties has changed, and the relationship between the two people has become cold, so there is no topic to talk about.
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It means that two people have been together for a long time, and even if there is nothing to say, it will not affect the relationship between two people.
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Because during the run-in period, it was not handled properly, and it became tired, so I began to recall when I was single, and then began to compare, and I was dissatisfied. Coupled with the fact that the second stage is not handled properly, patience has been lost. Just go with the flow.
After all, I feel like I've fought and worked hard. After a period of conversation and understanding, I feel that there is still a gap between my original wishes, and I think that there is no further possibility of the relationship, and I will not use the enthusiasm and strength at the beginning to make up those words that go against my heart, besides, words will never be greater than actions, <>
It is the curiosity and freshness of each other under mutual affection, even if the topic is trivial and boring, it does not feel like chewing wax, but the freshness is over, and they know each other too well, and this is the time to really test whether the three views and connotations of the two are more compatible, and if they are more compatible, they can still have something to talk about, thank you for the invitation. Just because you have nothing to talk about doesn't mean you don't have feelings. It's just a symptom of a return to normal life after the sweetest period of time.
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I just feel that it is a place to eat and sleep, but from a man to a father, but our lives have changed dramatically, every day after work, I want to go home and hug my child, look at the child's innocent smile, sometimes hear the child's cry, the man is too lazy to do one thing twice, the same, the man is too lazy to say a sentence separately twice. This is all because the man has mastered himself, and he is already very familiar with the married woman, and there is no accident for him to make different and fresh moves, which are decided by the male mind.
If you want to love to go further, the main thing is to update the content of your life. People are also adaptable, and any kind of life mode will lose its freshness after a long time, which is the long-term affection of people. Therefore, let love go far can break the previous life pattern and change the state of life.
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It means that the relationship has reached a bottleneck or even an end, and the two people have no common topic, and the less they communicate, the relationship will gradually fade.
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It means that two people have a relationship crisis. If there is nothing to say about anything, it must be that there are some differences between the two sides and they are unwilling to take the initiative to confide in each other, and this situation needs to be broken in time.
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It means that the relationship between you is coming to an end, and you should change each other as soon as possible, otherwise you will break up sooner or later.
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It means that the two people have been together for a long time now, and it also means that the two people are very familiar with each other now, even if they don't speak, it will not affect the feelings of the two people.
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It shows that the relationship between two people has come to an end, or if the relationship is very deep in this case, then you can choose to re-acquaint yourself and re-understand each other's preferences, so that there is no need to separate.
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