If you experience emotional pain in your life, must there be a reason?

I think it's right, because there are reasons for emotional discomfort, personality or trivial things in life that cause us not to get together in the end.

I think there must be a reason for this, because everyone doesn't want to experience this kind of emotional pain, in fact, this kind of pain is really very serious, and it is also very helpless.

I think so, in my opinion, those who experience emotional pain must be people who are particularly fragile or immature in their hearts, so they will meet unreliable people.

There have been cases of not being understood, being hurt. The damage dealt is continuous. This hides a sense of powerlessness and unforgiveness for that person.

It was the man who made you miserable for so long, and he made you stop being brave and become timid. It was he who made you no longer believe in the existence of love and dare not simply give.

But is what you see real? Some people experience the same "misfortune" but can quickly come out and become braver and stronger. The same Niki was injured, why did someone become braver and someone more vulnerable?

It wasn't the person who said that sentence that hurt you, but the unbraveness that was powerless to protect yourself at that time.

Same "damage", different power.

People have three choices when faced with suffering: fight or flight, which correspond to two primordial energies: yin and yang. When taking damage, choosing how to respond determines the power of the "damage".

Those who choose to flee are using the contraction of negative energy to allow others to "behave" in your world and surrender their own interests. Those who choose to fight are using the expanded masculine energy, they are determined to protect their interests, and they respect and support their feelings.

The reason why we feel hurt in some situations is because of a conflict of beliefs with that person. You have a disagreement, and he expresses it so firmly, that it makes you doubt your beliefs and choices.

The more you believe his views, the more you doubt yourself. You allow thoughts that do not belong to you to exist in your spiritual world and endure the pain of facing it for long periods of time. You can also make different choices, blend the contradictions, or keep your opinion to yourself.

Because you still don't know what kind of life you need, and the standard of the other half of living together, if you are very sensible, you will suffer very little, don't pay real feelings for impulsiveness, don't force yourself to do things you don't like to do for a so-called responsibility, and be with people you don't love, so you will regret it for a lifetime, you will also feel unhappy and unhappy, when you have experienced a lot, you know, in fact, what kind of life you need, what kind of people you hope to find to live with.

We are all very naïve animals, but after experiencing feelings again and again, betrayal, hurt, deception, promise, gaffes, and hearts, we finally know that in fact, rationality can not suffer so much, and we do not have to experience everything that we should not bear. In fact, even if you have experienced a very bad relationship and failed, but it is an opportunity to start from scratch, you must be able to grasp it, or you will never have the opportunity to review what was wrong with the last failure, learn how to fall in love next time, how to give, cherish, and distinguish between good and bad human nature.

God has made you experience so many lovers and failures because this is all to pave the way for a partner you can finally go through for a lifetime, an experience... Face everything with an optimistic heart, don't blame anyone, or things, after all, you have had and enjoyed.

The process, the result is very bad, in fact, it doesn't matter.

Only oneself can be relied on, feelings are not necessary, women must have their own careers and be better for themselves, etc.

They have learned that when they encounter difficulties or setbacks, they still have to rely on themselves to soothe themselves, and then they must not be overly invested in the face of feelings, otherwise they will be vulnerable to great harm at that time.

Yes, I'm a very fragile person, so once I encounter this situation, it is generally difficult to get out.

No, I will choose to divert my attention to heal myself, maybe through work, maybe by starting a new relationship, and let myself out.

No, I like to face the reality, since I have chosen to separate from the other party, and I have been hurt by the other party, I will resolutely let go of the other party and find my own happiness again.

After the emotional injury, I will not be immersed in the psychological pain and can't get out, because there is no need, people have to learn to let go, but also to accept emotional changes, this is life.

Yes, I am a very emotional person, and if a relationship is hurt, I will always be immersed in the pain and will not be able to get out.

It won't sink forever. Time is the medicine for all wounds. Over time, even deep wounds will slowly heal.

Yes. Because emotional injury is the most difficult kind of injury, this kind of injury is very heavy and takes time to slow down.

I won't be unable to walk out all the time, but I'm sure I'll be sad for a while at first, I'll talk to my friends, go out and walk more, and after that time I won't think about the things that I used to be unhappy about.

If it were me, I would have been in pain for a while, but I wouldn't have been able to get out of it all the time. You can do something else, divert your attention, and time will ** yours. When you meet another relationship later, and then enter into marriage with the other person, you will find that everything before is nothing.