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Anonymous users2024-02-16Marriage partners are determined by fate in previous lives, not what you want to find now.
However, if we actively accumulate virtue and do good deeds, be filial to our relatives and respect our teachers, work hard, and start a business diligently, then our marriage will be auspicious and happy.
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Anonymous users2024-02-15By studying Buddhism, you can be more aware of yourself, understand what you are thinking, and as you improve your level of Buddhism, you will be more aware of what kind of partner is suitable for you, and you will also be very clear about each other, and see through most superficial things.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14First: Wholeheartedly recite the name of Nan Wu Guanyin Bodhisattva, and ask the Bodhisattva for protection! The sixth volume of the Lengyan Sutra: Asking for a wife and getting a wife.
Second, strengthen one's own Buddhist study and cultivation. Self-cultivation can improve one's charm and attractiveness.
Third: Think more about the qualities that your partner should have, because her qualities are a blessing in your future life.
Fourth: Looking for a direction should be like-minded and like-minded, because the future life should be dull, and it is easy to get along with common topics, which will help the family to stabilize. Husband and wife are one heart. All idealism manifests, and the happiness and harmony of the family are inseparable from the heart.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13Buddhism will only teach you to leave love, not to court. You're in the wrong door, you go and teach chickens.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Buddhism teaches people to choose a partner:
Choose like-minded people. You don't necessarily choose "love", love is unreliable, what if you love today and don't love tomorrow, and love sometimes turns into "hate". If there is a common hobby and a common language, the common ambition will ...... in the long run
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Therefore, when choosing, there must be a very correct standard, with character as the first, and the rest of the conditions are second.
First, I hope that the other party is a person who understands, as the saying goes: "I am willing to fight with people who understand, and I am not willing to talk to people who are confused." ”
The second is to be kind, to have a very good heart, not willing to harm others, not willing to harm others and benefit oneself, and have a very good heart.
The third is honesty, not slippery, not many, many tricks.
The fourth is decency, the style is decent, and the relationship between men and women is also very decent.
Such a person is very good, and he is the best choice. Other conditions can be lowered, a perfect person does not have, perfect is a saint; It's not easy to find a sage now.
Our marriage and family problems have been solved well, which is very convenient for the cultivation of special features. Building a Buddha-like family is very beneficial to one's own entry into the world, one's birth, the Dharma, and the Dharma.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Three points that have not been able to find a good partner.
1. Values will fascinate people, and different values bring different cognitions.
2. Buddhism talks about cause and effect, and beware of not being in a situation where you can't find a good partner.
3. A good standard also depends on the ability to appreciate people and things.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Fate is insufficient, you should recite the Buddha,
There are all walks of life in the work, but what kind of career are we suitable for? In fact, at the beginning of graduation, you also have to make some plans, some people feel that they have learned a major, they must do the job of the professional counterpart, in fact, it is not necessarily the case, to find a job, first of all, to be interested, and then to consider the salary, as for the professional aspect, it is also to be considered, but not as the first element to consider. <> >>>More
Although everyone wants to find the best partner, which is the so-called high-quality partner, I think that finding a partner is not necessarily to find the best, but to find the most suitable for yourself, and the most suitable for yourself is the best, but it must be the best for you, not necessarily for others. >>>More
Understand each other, tolerate each other, sit down and talk about something, a long life, don't give up easily, join hands to grow old, and become each other's soul mates.
Overcome your dislike for your partner, your inability to accept your personality or appearance, and your ability to interact with others. Overcome antipathy for one's partner, fear of what others will say about oneself, isolate oneself from the outside world, and have little or no social activity. Overcoming his aversion to his partner, "self-incarcerating", closing his eyes and hearings, isolating himself from social contact, living in a life of so-called his own fantasies, hiding his true feelings, and fearing what others will say. >>>More
Hello! From your question, I can feel the taste of confusion, and I think you should also want to know what "true self" looks like, right? In fact, to borrow a very popular saying: if you see or can't see, you are there, not true or false. >>>More