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If the relationship that the parents do not agree with continues, you must consider the outcome, after all, the parents are from the past, and they have seen a lot of people, and their intuition is not necessarily correct, but relatively speaking, accuracy accounts for a large part. So if you want to continue, be sure to communicate with them and know why they don't agree.
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Hello! If my parents are so opposed, they must not continue, because they are all from the past, so they are also very sad.
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It depends on whether it is worth having.
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You make your own decisions about your own love, and others can't help you decide!
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Think carefully about what causes your parents to disagree.
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When we fall in love, we will definitely ask our parents to consult, because emotionally speaking, telling our parents about our emotional status is not only a respect for them, but also a positive response to their concern for us, which is one of the ways we express our cherished feelings with our parents. Also, if you are in a relationship with the goal of marriage, then of course you should let your parents know.
In my opinion, the feelings that parents do not agree with will not last, or should not continue. Because if a relationship is not supported by parents, then the road to happiness in the future will be difficult. After all, in this world, it is the parents who love themselves the most, and the love of parents for their children is the only constant, but the feelings have a certain timeliness, and it is difficult to guarantee whether they can go long.
Therefore, if parents have different opinions on feelings, we should communicate with our parents and let our parents help us with our staff. If the communication is fruitless, you can make judgments and choices based on your trust in the relationship and the opinions of your parents.
1.It's better not to continue.
If a relationship is not approved by the parents, then I personally recommend that it is better not to continue, I think the relationship will not last. Because my parents have traveled and experienced many more things than myself, I am quite experienced in looking at people. If your parents are opposed to your relationship, at this time, you should also think about why your parents are not optimistic about whether this relationship is really reliable?
2.Feelings can be variable.
When falling in love, in a sweet love, there will be a lack of judgment on feelings. As the saying goes: the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.
Love is beautiful, but love also has a certain period, if it is said that after a period of sweetness, the relationship has changed. Then it will naturally realize that no matter how good the relationship is, there will be a time when it expires. Therefore, when the relationship is questioned by parents, it is necessary to consider whether the relationship is credible and whether it can withstand the impact and test of time.
3.Ask parents for their opinions.
When the relationship is opposed by your parents, you must calm down and don't go against your parents rashly, because your parents are the people who love you the most in the world, and only your parents are the people who want you to be good in the world. When parents are not optimistic about their relationship, they should ask their parents' opinions and ideas in time to understand why their parents do not support the relationship, and then reflect on it. Finally, make judgments and choices about this relationship based on your own thoughts and parents' opinions, as well as your recognition of the relationship.
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Do you want to listen to your parents' opinions when you are in love?
Personally, you can listen to your parents' opinions, because the vast majority of parents in the world want their children to live well, so you should listen to their views and refer to them.
Many people think that listening to their parents means that they have to do what they say. Please, you are already an adult, and your parents can listen to their opinions and choose for yourself. Love and marriage are related to the happiness of your own life, think carefully and make your own choice.
All love can listen to the opinions of parents and consider how to do it yourself.
In fact, most of our parents' opinions come from their life experiences, and our thoughts are just that we feel happy to be with him at the moment, and we think too much about the future and too simple. The opinion of your parents is definitely a factor that cannot be ignored, but the most important thing is to listen to your own heart, because it is not your parents who can accompany you until you grow old, but your other and you.
Do you have to listen to your parents when you fall in love?
In real life, most girls will not listen to their parents' opinions, and even if their parents strongly oppose them, they will only turn into an underground relationship and no longer open to their parents. But such a relationship is often difficult to break up to the end, and it usually takes several years to finally break up. So, what's wrong in between?
Is it really the parents' judgment that is right? Not really. The core question is:
The pressure from your parents makes you neglect to observe each other, and instead focus on confronting your parents, trying to prove that your choice is correct. And the more you want to prove it, the more Wang Xiao will not look at the other party's shortcomings, will not look at the other party objectively, you will take a filter to see his trapped imperial draft, and you can't listen to others' negation of him. You will feel that when others deny him, they are denying yourself.
So, should you listen to your parents in love? Parents' opinions can be consulted. But in this process, you must see your partner's shortcomings, run in with him, get along normally, and find out whether you are suitable in time.
Don't let the pressure from your parents blind you.
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If your parents don't approve of you being together, do you feel the need to continue?
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The relationship that the parents do not agree with, I think it should be carefully considered, because the parents are both from the past, and they have a lot of experience in Xiangtong, they can't be wrong about people, if you insist again and again, and you are not happy after the banquet and marriage, all the post-Bitan fruits are borne by yourself.
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It depends on whether you love each other enough.
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Communicate more, it is best to get the understanding of your parents, otherwise, you must persevere, after all, it is your life's thing.
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Traditional parents are the right parents. Here we take the relatively poor family conditions of girls as an example. If the family is not in the right place, is it necessary to continue? I think that for a female Zen girl, a boy can get married if he meets the following two points.
First of all, boys should be assertive.
Second, boys should have the best of both worlds and make each other respect each other.
Take the future mother-in-law as an example, she has taken care of two men in her life, and one more woman is not too much. If you treat girls with a strict attitude towards self-discipline, then there will definitely be a gap in the girl's heart, which will cause more and more conflicts, and even meet with parents, because the family conditions are not good, and you will not be given the opportunity to continue dating. At this time, the boy has to learn to balance the relationship between the two parties.
If the boy doesn't care about it, then the girl should end the relationship as soon as possible, there is no need to fall in love again. Finally, I want to say to the side that Hezhen is in relatively poor condition, the current family situation is your parents' business, not equal to what your future will be, you must be brave, pick up self-confidence, and work together with the other half, because there is really no time for you to feel inferior, only in this way, the door is not the right love, can continue to walk.
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If this is the only irreplaceable love affair you have, then go on.
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