My parents don t approve of me continuing to date my boyfriend, what should I do I want to run away

Updated on society 2024-03-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your dad has helped you find a good job, if you go out, it will only make your relationship more stiff, I don't approve of you going out, because I am in a similar situation with you now, I also thought about running away from home, but thinking about it will only make the relationship worse and worse, you can now work and wait, wait until your boyfriend graduates, make a decision, then maybe there will be a turnaround, I am like this now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A sucker. Parents won't hurt you.

    There will be a lot of problems with the divorce of the parents at the boyfriend's family.

    You don't understand if you don't go through it, you get hurt when you go through it.

    Think it through for yourself.

    Anyone will harm you.

    Except for parents.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's true that parents care for their children. It's better to understand why your parents are against you, make it clear what you have to say, and then negotiate a way to accept them. (Communicate more with your parents and don't stiffen the relationship).

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hey, I used to be like you, but I later found out that home is the best, and the people who love me the most are my parents. Later, I communicated with my parents for a long time, and now everything is solved! If your boyfriend is really good, then let your parents meet more and communicate with each other, and I believe you will definitely get your happiness!!

    Wishing you happiness!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The reason why parents are like this will definitely be good for your future!! But if your boyfriend really has the courage to do something that will appeal to your parents, I'm for you! But you can't leave the house!

    Home is the best place in the world! Didn't you just get a job, your boyfriend is still in school, maybe wait, there will be a turnaround.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Ask the reason.

    There are some reasons why parents don't agree with their boyfriends. If your parents tell you that you don't like your boyfriend, then you need to ask why you don't like your boyfriend, so that you can find the best way to fix it.

    2. Test your boyfriend's reaction.

    When the girl's parents object, the girl should also observe her boyfriend's reaction, if the boyfriend is not in a hurry at all, but retreats, and feels that it doesn't matter, it means that he doesn't care about you, and he doesn't care what your parents think. If your boyfriend knows that your parents don't like him, but is sad, and has been anxious to solve the problem with you, it means that he is really serious and wants to get your parents' approval.

    3. Convince parents together.

    After knowing the reason why your parents don't like your boyfriend, and your boyfriend shows that he cares about you, if you really decide to live for the rest of your life, then you can go to your parents to discuss it. If it's an economic reason, try to earn money, and if it's a distance reason, then the boy has to make concessions.

    4. Let your boyfriend get along with his parents.

    Usually when girls go home, they also take their boyfriends home, get along with their parents more, and let their parents see how their boyfriends behave, so that their parents will be much more relieved after a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1.Convince your mom, I always feel that your mom doesn't approve of him or doesn't know him well, and doesn't want to meet so soon.

    2.Convince your boyfriend to find a suitable opportunity to come again, plan for both sides, and make an impression of the parents for the first time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello, I'm Moriyama, a co-teacher who asks for a question, and I'm happy to serve you. You can communicate with your parents first and ask what the specific reason is not allowed to come to the house! If you are a minor and your parents don't let you fall in love, you can communicate with your parents well, and then wait until you are an adult.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A: The key is that you like your boyfriend, you can sit on your parents' work, and you can explain how good this boyfriend is to you, and your parents will accept your boyfriend over time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then let your parents go to your boyfriend's house.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

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  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why don't <> agree? The first thing you have to understand is that parents are often kind to their children. Speaking of which, they still have a bit of the traditional thinking of the old times, and two people can't live together without getting married.

    Since there is a problem, it is even more necessary to communicate well. You have to let them understand that in this life, you have to marry him, and the relationship has reached the point where no matter who you are, you must first let them see your determination. They often think that they are the right person, and you have to let them understand that they can now make their own decisions about marriage, and they can't pay attention to the orders of their parents and the words of the matchmaker like in the old times.

    There is no parent who does not feel sorry for their children, and in comparison, they are all a piece of meat that has fallen from their parents. Although the girl said that she wanted to get married, she often couldn't stop her tears on the day of marriage. If your boyfriend is out of town, your parents are even more taboo.

    I often care about whether you will have a good life in the future? You can tell your parents about some of his situation, and they will accept it by default.

    They don't agree mainly for your own good, maybe his development was not particularly good at that time, which is why the parents are strongly opposed. And if you rush to bring your boyfriend home, it is also easy to cause gossip from neighbors. Your parents are right, you have to slowly understand and reason with him, move with affection, and see that you are very determined, and you can only passively accept this fact.

    Sometimes you and your parents are not from the same era, and some words are often difficult to communicate. You can choose to ask some other elders in the family to help you communicate with your parents. The future is promising, as long as we live together happily, even if we rent a house, we will have a feeling of bitterness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    None of the parents were satisfied or even felt qualified. It's either appearance, family, or too simple.

    From your question, you said that you can never find a boyfriend who is satisfactory to your parents or even qualified, and you have had three boyfriends, but your parents are not satisfied, and your appearance, family background, and simple mind are not qualified in your parents' standards, so you can't even like it. Then you have to ask your parents whether they are satisfying their own face or really want you to live happily with the person you love, and after listening to your description, I personally think that the former is more likely.

    From the perspective of parents, parents may be too perfect for you to choose a partner, but there is no right or wrong for these external standards, who parents want to choose a man who meets a series of advantages standards such as handsome, better, mature and stable, self-motivated, and able to take responsibility, which is also related to the face of the family.

    So do these standards matter for parents? Personally, I think that marriage, more important than appearance, social status, unit and background, is whether the three views of the two people are compatible, if you think that the three views of two people are very compatible, and can promote each other's growth, they are willing to support and promote each other rationally, so what are you waiting for? It doesn't matter what you look like anymore, because you will be happy.

    Of course, there are many people who belong to other viewpoints such as the Appearance Association, and here I say that there is no right or wrong opinion, depending on whose position it stands on.

    It's not unreasonable for your parents to think about it, and to some extent, it's also their way of being responsible for you, and you can listen to some advice, such as your boyfriend's family situation: worry about your living conditions in the future. Simple-minded:

    It's easy to be tricked, can't protect you, and so on. But from your standpoint, you have to think about whether you choose your boyfriend or your parents.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. What should I do if my parents don't agree with my boyfriend when I bring my boyfriend home?

    1. Ask the reason.

    Generally speaking, if parents disagree with their boyfriend, there must be a certain reason. If your parents tell you that you don't like your boyfriend, then you can ask your parents why they don't like it, so that you can find the right solution and find a solution.

    2. Test your boyfriend's reaction.

    When the girl's parents object, the girl also has to observe the boyfriend's reaction, if the boyfriend is not in a hurry at all and also retreats, he will feel that it doesn't matter, it means that he doesn't care about you at all, and he doesn't care what your parents think. If you want your boyfriend to know that your parents don't like him, but he is sad, and he has been anxious to solve this problem with you, it means that he is really serious and wants to get a kind of approval from your parents.

    3. Convince parents together.

    Knowing the reason why your parents don't like your boyfriend, and you really decide to live together, then you can also go to your parents together to discuss it. If it's for economic reasons, it's about trying to make money, and if it's for distance, then the boy has to make concessions.

    4. Let your boyfriend get along with his parents.

    In normal times, when a girl goes home, she can take her boyfriend home more often, get along with her parents more, and let her parents also see some of her boyfriend's behavior, and her parents will be very relieved after a long time.

    Second, my boyfriend's mother disagrees with the strategy.

    1. Look at your boyfriend's attitude.

    When your boyfriend's mother doesn't like you and doesn't agree with you being together, then you have to look at your boyfriend's attitude, if your boyfriend is determined to be with you, and has made a lot of efforts in front of his parents, it means that he cares about you very much, if you love each other very much, then you can choose to work together to persuade each other's parents, contact each other's parents more, chat, and remember to buy them some gifts during the New Year's holidays.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't agree, just wait, this matter is urgent.

    More explanations are needed.

    Agreed and went again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't know the reason why your parents don't agree, you can not take your boyfriend back for the time being, and then bring it back after you have figured out the reason and communicated with your parents.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. Hello, there must be some reason why your parents don't approve of you going to find a boyfriend, right?

    What should I do if my parents don't approve of me going to find a boyfriend.

    Hello, there must be some reason why your parents don't approve of you going to find a boyfriend, right?

    Yes, because we took out a loan of 50,000 yuan online, and asked him to come to my house to see if he could repay it before the Chinese New Year, but he never came to my parents to help me pay it back, so let's separate.

    Communicate carefully with your parents first, and don't act in a righteous way.

    1.Let's talk about things, let's not talk about emotional matters. 2.Why can't my boyfriend come to the house 3 years agoIf you can't come, you should tell your parents.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. Communicate with your parents well, after all, it is the boy you like, and besides, you live with him, and it is not your parents who will live with him in the future, talk to your parents, it is good to be good to you and you like him very much.

    Do you have a friend who ran away from home because her parents didn't approve of being with her boyfriend, how did you explain this to your parents?

    Communicate with Mu Hongxian's parents, after all, it is the boy he likes, and besides, you live with him, and it is not your parents who will live with him in the future.

    His parents didn't think he was too good-looking.

    It was a two-hour drive from his house, and his parents were too far away.

    How do I convince my parents?

    Talk to your parents, when you fall in love, you look at your personality rather than your looks, and the most important thing is that your personality is suitable, and it's not far by car for two hours, and it's good to get married and live together in the future.

    I want to go to work on the subject's side, how can I tell my parents that they will agree?

    Anyway, if you're looking for a job, it's not your parents who will help you find it, so it's better to go directly to your partner to find a job.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your parents don't approve of continuing your relationship with your boyfriend, you have to tell your boyfriend for the following reasons:

    1. Lovers must be honest with each other and cannot hide anything from each other, otherwise once the matter is exposed, the other party will not only complain about you, but also affect your emotions.

    Second, the love between you must be supported by the family, and love without family support will not be happy. Therefore, you do not run away from your parents' opposition, but face and resolve it.

    3. Tell your boyfriend about this matter, not only will it not affect your relationship, but Xiang Suiyuan's rebellion will strengthen his love for you, and it also requires the two of you to find a way to solve and face it together, and finally get the support of your family.

    Fourth, if your position is the same as that of your parents, and you don't want to continue dating your boyfriend, you should tell him to get together and disperse.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    At this time, it's useless to say anything, it's useless for anyone to object, you just want the answer in your heart, you already have the answer in your heart, Wang Jian and I were like this back then, but sometimes, you still have to think about the long term,. You are not suitable for each other, but no matter how you choose, it will be a pity, just live a good moment.

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