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You can think of letting your child learn to confide in others, and you can take your child to do something relaxing.
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For example, communicate peacefully, empathize with the child, or communicate with the child through friends.
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Go to the zoo to experience the joy of animals, go to the movies and watch TV, what you see is what makes you feel pleasant.
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Children in the rebellious period are actually very difficult to educate, because at this time, children do not listen to lectures at all, even if the parents say more truth, no matter how many methods they use, they may not be able to really accept the parents' statements. So when children are in a rebellious period, what methods should parents use to channel their psychology?
For children in the rebellious period, in fact, what they hope most is that others can understand their own thoughts. In other words, if parents want to channel their psychology, they must not refute their children. This kind of rebuttal does not mean that you can't question their point of view, but you don't want to refute them when you are angry or if you are not in a good emotional state.
I believe that parents must also be in a bad mood, so the child is in a rebellious period, in fact, his mood is also very bad, and we don't know what kind of things he will do.
As parents, if you want to channel the psychological problems of your children in the rebellious period, you must learn to move people with emotion, that is to say, in the process of educating children, we should not say too much about the big truth, in fact, they do not understand this truth. It's just that they don't listen to it at all. But if we can influence them with love and teach them in an emotional way, it can be more effective.
This also shows that in the process of educating children, in fact, parents can properly follow their emotions to educate them, that is, when they raise some questions or ask some questions, parents should not be in a hurry to refute them, you can try to think about what their problems are. Sometimes some of the ideas that the child makes may be correct, but the parents do not want to admit it. However, learning to admit that children are right is actually a way to educate them.
When we think about their problems, they will see the change of parents and know that parents are also doing their best.
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It is necessary to pay attention to the tone of voice must be gentle and gentle, not too excited, and be humble when communicating, and consider problems from the perspective of the child, so as to help him better develop his mental health.
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When the child is buried in the rebellious period, parents should communicate more with the child, get along with the child like a friend, do not impose their own ideas on the child's thoughts, and do not veto everything the child knows. Ride a ruler.
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When the child is in the rebellious period, parents must be patient to educate the child, pay attention not to be too impatient, try to interfere with the child, understand the child's heart, and give him independent space.
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Hello, the personality is different, the way of performance is not the same, some children like to do against their parents, some children are unwilling to listen to their parents, some children are silent, the more parents let them do, the more reluctant the children are to do, there are many forms of expression, however, the generation of children's rebellious psychology is a normal phenomenon, it is understandable, and it is also a transitional stage in the growth process of each child, each child has its own personality and characteristics and thinking space, Just don't deliberately do rebellious children or particularly obedient children, as children grow older, their thoughts will mature, and their thinking will change and be rich, so that they will have their own unique insights and ways to solve problems when dealing with things and dealing with things, and they will have different ideas and views from parents and others, and children themselves also have the desire to express themselves and show themselves, and at the same time, they want to prove themselves to others, and over time, they have formed their own personality and character. Naturally, there is the so-called judgment of the psychology of rebellion, and the parents have formed a certain degree of generation gap, however, there is a psychology of judgment can not be completely regarded as bad, just to prove that the child himself is always growing, but this takes a period of time and a process, if the child can find himself in time in this process, examine himself, face himself, correct himself and improve himself, and finally correct himself to improve himself, then the child will have a lot of great gains, and will get out of the judgment period as soon as possible. As for the length of this process, it depends on the perspective from which the child understands and treats, in addition, if it is a child, it should take into account that the parents and children were born in the era, the social environment in which they live, the education they received, and the life experience and social experience are determined by different social backgrounds, so the position and perspective on people and things are different from the children. If you are a parent, you should give your child a certain space to develop and show yourself, and you don't have to rush to prescribe how your child should do things according to the wishes of your parents, but parents must find out the problems of your child in a timely manner, grasp the general direction of your child's development, and give your child certain recognition and encouragement, and communicate and exchange with your child in a timely manner, so that parents can understand and understand their children's mental trends in a timely manner. Good health and good luck to your child! Have a beautiful life of your own.
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