People who understand you speak for themselves, and people who don t understand you can t argue what

Updated on psychology 2024-08-10
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Summary. Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you. "Those who know you speak for themselves, and those who don't understand you are speechless" is like, "Those who know me say that I am worried, and those who do not know me say what I want" means:

    People who know my mood think that I am melancholy; If you don't know my feelings, you think I have to ask for something to stay here! Now it is generally extended to the following: Those who understand my thoughts say that I have sorrow in my heart, and those who do not understand my thoughts say what kind of desires I have (the meaning of seeking troubles for myself).

    Those who understand you speak for themselves, but those who don't understand you mean that they are speechless?

    Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you. "People who understand you don't say anything and grasp the metaphor simply, and people who don't understand you can't argue" is just like Tuqing's "Those who know me say I'm worried, and those who don't know me say what I want" means: People who understand my mood think I'm melancholy; If you don't know my feelings, you think I have to ask for something to stay here!

    Now it is generally extended to mean that those who understand my thoughts tell me that I have sorrow in my heart, while those who do not understand my thoughts say what kind of desires I have (the meaning of seeking troubles for myself).

    People who understand you don't need to explain, and people who don't understand you can't explain it. It is difficult to meet a person who understands himself in life, because many times, we can't understand others, people who understand you are staring at you without saying anything, and people who don't understand you are speechless. No matter when and where, don't easily define people and things you don't understand, or label Kailaxiang, after all, everyone has their own characteristics, and they also have their own bottom line of patience.

    Presumably, you don't want someone to define you. Smart people will talk less and do more, because the mind will work when it is open, low-level intelligence is easy to give those things you don't understand, and high-level stupidity is easy to reject those things you don't understand at all.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    "Those who understand you are self-explanatory, and those who don't understand you are speechless" means that those who understand you do not need to explain, and those who do not understand you cannot understand how to explain.

    山鸣谷应 (shān míng gǔ yìng).

    Interpretation] The original meaning is that the sound of wind and grass reverberates in the valley. Later, it is mostly used as a metaphor for mutual tacit cooperation, which echoes.

    不约而同 (bù yuē ér tóng).

    Interpretation] About: to meet. There is no prior agreement but agrees with each other.

    心解神会 ( xīn lǐng shén huì).

    Interpretation] Lead, will: comprehend, understand. It means that the other party has not said it explicitly, but he has understood it in his heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    People who understand you don't need to explain, and people who don't understand you can't explain it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Summary. Hello, those who understand you are self-evident, and those who don't understand you are those who know you are self-evident, and those who don't know you are hard to tell。

    Those who understand you speak for themselves, and those who don't understand you are speechless in English.

    Hello, people who understand you are self-evident, and those who don't know how to take advantage of you, are translated as those who know you are self-evident, and those who don't know you are hard to tell。

    The meaning of this sentence is actually very profound. It tells us that in our lives, we need to find people who really understand us and can relate to us. In this way, you can get the most out of the exchange town waiter.

    And for those who don't know us, we don't have to pay too much attention to their opinions, because they don't really understand us anyway.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As the question suggests, the person who understands you, without words, will naturally understand you; And those who don't understand you, you can't argue, and no amount of explanation will be useless.

    Only recently did I finally understand the deeper meaning of this sentence.

    In my opinion, in a normal relationship between a man and a woman or in a marriage, equality is the basic premise for a long time to get along.

    Ideally, both parties voluntarily contribute to each other, appreciate and tolerate each other. It doesn't matter who pays more or less, or who loves more and who loves more......

    Of course, if between men and women, the one who pays more does not care, and the other party who receives does not feel indebted, it can still be regarded as equality.

    I'm afraid, one of them always feels that he is at a loss, and then between words, he always tries to persuade the other party to admit that he owes. In his heart, the balance of this relationship is unbalanced, and he is also unconvinced in his heart, and he desperately wants the other party to agree with him, apologize to himself, and make regressions or other amends.

    If a woman is married, she always feels that she is married; If a man is a man, he will always feel that he is married.

    In such a situation, no matter how good the emotional foundation was before, it will be silent at the moment, and I feel tired.

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