My boyfriend, who has been with me for a few years, divorced last year but never told me why

My boyfriend has been divorced for more than half a year, I have known him for two months, and he himself said that he was unwilling to tell his colleagues and friends that he was divorced. His ex-wife has a very strong personality, the two have been quarreling since they got married, and they divorced after two years of quarrelling, and there is a little girl who has returned to the woman, and he has not seen the child since the divorce, he said that although he wants to have children, he will not go to see the children, and he does not want to have anything to do with his ex-wife's family. He has a very cheerful personality, talks a lot, is very good to me, only met a few times is catching up with a small festival, gave me a gold Buddha pendant, I dare not accept him unhappy, I received it has not been worn, I see that he is very lost, I asked him why this is the case, we both don't know each other very well, he said that he is sure that I will be his wife's ...... in the future.

Coaxed me every day for fear that I would be unhappy, I mentioned to him that the two of us are equal, don't think that he is not as good as me, blindly accommodating me.

He said that he didn't tell his colleagues about the divorce, he felt too ashamed, and he also felt that his first marriage was too failed, I want to ask, according to his personality, what kind of psychology is he, has he not come out of that marriage, or simply feels embarrassed? Is there anything I should pay attention to in my future relationship?

My boyfriend has been divorced for more than half a year, I have known him for two months, and he himself said that he was unwilling to tell his colleagues and friends that he was divorced. His ex-wife has a very strong personality, the two have been quarreling since they got married, and they divorced after two years of quarrelling, and there is a little girl who has returned to the woman, and he has not seen the child since the divorce, he said that although he wants to have children, he will not go to see the children, and he does not want to have anything to do with his ex-wife's family. He has a very cheerful personality, talks a lot, is very good to me, only met a few times is catching up with a small festival, gave me a gold Buddha pendant, I dare not accept him unhappy, I received it has not been worn, I see that he is very lost, I asked him why this is the case, we both don't know each other very well, he said that he is sure that I will be his wife's ...... in the future.

Coaxed me every day for fear that I would be unhappy, I mentioned to him that the two of us are equal, don't think that he is not as good as me, blindly accommodating me. He said that he did not tell his colleagues about the divorce and felt that it was too embarrassing and that his first marriage was too much of a failure.

He doesn't plan to marry you, he probably has another woman.

I don't want to bother you anymore.

In fact, it is a common practice for modern people to choose divorce when they find that they are not suitable for each other. And there is nothing wrong with divorce in itself, and we should not deny a person because he has been divorced. When you meet a man and find out that he has been in a marriage, you struggle with whether to continue or not.

So, don't rush to conclusions, calm down and look at the root of this matter.

The fact that your boyfriend has divorced is not a big deal in itself, but the problem is that you found out by accident, which means that your boyfriend has not confessed to you. And a man who hides something from you has to be suspicious of his character and motives. Just like Xiaoxiao, the three views, personality, temper and economic conditions between her and her boyfriend are very suitable, and the relationship between the two people quickly warmed up after they met, and they soon entered the stage of talking about marriage.

Xiaoxiao even brought her boyfriend home some time ago and introduced it to her parents. This relationship is about to become a sure fact. But unexpectedly, Xiaoxiao accidentally found out that her boyfriend was married and had a two-year-old child.

Xiaoxiao was like a bolt from the blue, and felt that he had been deceived. Of course, her boyfriend quibbled in every way, saying that he was afraid that Xiaoxiao would leave him, and he was also afraid that Xiaoxiao would dislike him because of this, so he planned to tell her again after a while. Fortunately, Xiaoxiao is a sane girl, she broke up with her boyfriend decisively, and canceled the upcoming engagement ceremony.

Many people don't understand her either, thinking that since the relationship between the two is so good, why care about the past? Xiaoxiao replied: "I don't care about his past, but a man can't even do the most basic honesty, how can he talk about the future?"

Indeed, honesty is the basic attribute of a person, if this man loves you enough and values you, he should tell you the truth about his marriage history, and it is up to you to choose and decide whether to continue the relationship, rather than using deception to obtain a relationship.

What's more, in a relationship, if a person can't be honest with you, then you may be hurt more in the future. Therefore, the divorce of your boyfriend is not a necessary factor for you to consider whether you should continue or not, but the quality and character of the man himself.

This depends on whether you can accept it, and divorce is now a very common phenomenon in this society. If you really confirm that you love him, then I suggest that you discuss the best with your family, after all, the elders of many families have no way to accept a second marriage, and a marriage that is not supported by the family is not good after all.

Your boyfriend has been divorced, it depends on how much you care about this matter, if you care about it, then don't continue, because there is a pimple in your heart to communicate, but it will hurt each other.

Find out what the reason for his divorce is and why he is hiding it from you, if he tells you frankly, and the divorce is not his fault, and you still like him, you should continue to continue, because divorce is not a reason for two people not to be together.

No, the most important thing in the relationship between couples is to be honest with each other, concealing the marriage history is disrespectful to you, and it is not very fair, although the divorce is before you, but you have the right to know.

I think it's best not to continue, if the other party is really good to you, he won't hide the fact that you have been divorced, and you won't find out by accident.

I think that you feel uncomfortable in your own heart after such a boyfriend divorced, and of course you don't get along very well, so you shouldn't continue in this case, and you should separate immediately.

found that this boyfriend has been divorced, then the first thing you should do is see if this boy is very good, whether it is very suitable for you, and if you think it is very suitable, you can continue.

If the other party is good enough to you, there is no need to divorce in this situation, but he hides this kind of thing from you, so you still have to communicate with him well.

If the boyfriend's character is worth scrutinizing, I think it can be continued, and if the boyfriend's character is not good, there is no need to continue.

If it really happened to me, I would probably choose to give up the relationship, not because he was divorced, but because he was not honest enough with me, I didn't have enough confidence to do my homework, and there would be no need to continue.

If the two are truly in love, of course they have to continue, but the most important thing to tell him is that the most important thing for two people to be together is trust. Moreover, divorced people are also more experienced and will hurt people more.

If you are particularly concerned that the other person is divorced, then break up. If you don't care, you feel that this is the right person, then continue to be with him.

You can't judge a person's good or bad just by whether he is divorced or not, you can observe more whether he really has a problem personally, and then consider whether to continue.

I think you need to talk about whether he did it intentionally or unintentionally, and if it did, probably shouldn't have continued.

If your boyfriend loves you very much, I don't think divorce is a reason to separate. You should choose to continue.

Summary. Hello, dear.

Because I haven't divorced yet, he knows that I've been with my boyfriend for more than half a year, and every time I separate, he ignores me, every time.

Hello, dear.

What is your specific situation?

Are you not divorced and having a relationship with your boyfriend at the same time?

Does your boyfriend know you're married or would he still want to be with you? Didn't he complain?

He knows everything about me, and he says he doesn't care if he wants to be with me, and he doesn't complain about me when he is usually very good, but he ignores me when I go home, and he doesn't say anything about the New Year's holidays.

Hello. When you weren't together, his attitude was cold for a long time.

I didn't say anything about every festival, and I ignored every time I was separated, didn't I hate me because I was annoyed.

Don't you reply to messages?

I don't like to answer, I send ten sentences, sometimes I reply one or two sentences, sometimes I don't reply, can I not worry about getting angry.

So do you usually ask him why?

Every time I ask him, he says that he has a family to accompany him when he goes home, and I always feel that he chats with me again for fear that my family will misunderstand, and when he is together, his friends look for him and he ignores it, and sometimes his family doesn't pick up ****, I don't know if I am in front of him and he doesn't want to pick it up or that's it.

Hello. Does his family know about your existence?

Last year, he took me to his house for a few days, and he rarely talked to his parents at home, but I was very introverted and had no friends but family to talk to him.

Hello. What is her parents' attitude towards you?

His parents were very nice to me.

Have I talked to you about marriage and the future?

Out of the psychology of thinking that you are a fool, you can cheat for a while, and if you find out, you will coax and divide, and you will not suffer anyway, and you will not suffer. I don't cherish you, I don't treat you like a woman to spend your life with or treat as equals. Even if you don't dislike him, he won't be nice to you.

A person's age cannot be hidden, especially to his girlfriend, and the past cannot be hidden. But the boyfriend concealed it, indicating that he was ready that the ID card would not be given to you. The boyfriend and girlfriend ID card won't show you, what does it mean?

Only treat you as a playmate or even a pet, even more as an ATM (but not really the ATM is more respected, so the ATM has to show a bank card for cash, and it is also allowed to read identity information)! Fu Dou shouted.

Divorce can be found as long as the girlfriend goes to the place where the boyfriend has lived, and if he conceals it, it means that he is not ready to let you contact his family and old friends, such a boyfriend, do you have a future with him?

Don't say that you are afraid of losing you to hide it, Ming Qiye knows that he is not worthy of you, and he doesn't think about how to make up for you, but chooses to deceive. It can be seen that he didn't want to be nice to you. Just thinking about using you and making you lower your status to cater to him. A day of deception counts as a day.

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Hello, you and your boyfriend have known each other for almost three years before you know that he is not divorced, you should do this: talk to him once, let him make a decision, if he cherishes your relationship, let him handle his relationship well, and prepare for divorce.

My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost three years and I just found out that he is not divorced, what should I do.

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Hello, you and Lu and your boyfriend have known each other for almost three years before you know that he is not divorced, you should do this: talk to him once, let him make a decision, if Zaoyan stares at the fruit he cherishes your relationship, let him handle his relationship well, and make a good divorce.

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Hello, you and your boyfriend have known each other for almost three years before you know that he is not divorced, you should do this: you talk to your boyfriend once, let him still divorce the marriage, if he can't do it, then you still have to make your own decision, his marriage status, you can't be with him, this is a disrespect to you, and it is unreasonable to laugh at the cheat.

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Hello, you and your boyfriend have known each other for almost three years before you know that he is not divorced from the oak slippery marriage, you should do this: you and him have a good relationship with this marriage, let him draw conclusions, you can't hide it from you like this, he has delayed you for three years, he is so insincere, you see if you can divorce you, if he can't do it, you still have to make a decision early.

Okay thank you. I'm ready to sue him.

If you get my money back, I will easily let him go.

It's okay, he's been untrue to you for three years.

How much he took from you, you have to get it back.

How old are you.

I'm thirty-eight. He was from 1981.

Yes, you can.

Do I need to write a complaint?

You can go directly to the relevant department to file a complaint.

If you go, just fill in the **.

Let him return the relevant ones to you.

You are rightly demanding, and he has delayed you for so long.