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I don't know if you're a man or a woman, and I don't know if you have children, don't divorce easily unless you have to, there are too many things involved after divorce, unless you can get out of it.
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Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.
Here's why:
First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be caused by financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.
You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.
Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.
Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.
The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!
When you meet someone who is bored, love boldly! Enjoy life!
In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!
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When marriage is a last resort, don't choose divorce, because after divorce, you will find that life is not as good as before, and everything will get worse.
In this world, there are some journeys that have to be faced alone, and when you travel alone, no matter how far the road is, no matter how dark the night is, you have to go down silently alone.
Maybe when a person is really helpless, he has no choice but to smile except for smiling, maybe the best appearance of a person is quiet, even if he lives alone, travels through one city after another, and walks through one street after another. On the road, not for someone, just to meet the unknown self on the unknown way.
Love is like a broken faucet, telling you rationally that it is not worth it, but no matter how you tighten it, it is in vain, and the feelings are difficult to collect.
Everything must be open-minded, in the future on the road, you will meet more people and things, even if there are difficulties, but also to solve them with a smile, go out more to have fun and relax, forget all the unhappiness.
Life has to go on, there is still a long way to go, you can't regress because of emotional things, forget the past, face life positively, work hard, I believe you will get better and better, come on.
Most of the happy people are similar, the unhappy people are different, many people want poetry and distance, the poetry and distance you yearn for, you will find that this is just another "current embarrassment", this is the status quo of most people.
People who have the ability to make themselves happy, no matter what state they are in, will have a sense of happiness, marriage has the happiness of marriage, and singleness also has the happiness of being single, and I will enjoy what I have.
For most people, marriage is by no means the focus of loneliness, marriage is not the end of life, divorce is just a choice for adults, nothing more.
An unhappy marriage, because you want to be happy, will choose to leave, if you are really happy enough, who wants to break up like this?
Find the direction you want to move forward and establish your own independent self-awareness, life will be wonderful, and it will be the same if you leave anyone.
The key is that many people choose to stand still and draw the ground as a prison, maybe such days will be more difficult after divorce.
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After divorce, it is still more likely that you can get a happy married life again. First of all, when you have been divorced, you should learn from the lessons of your previous failed marriage, summarize the root cause of your failure in this marriage, and take this as a warning, and do not completely lose confidence in marriage and love in your future life, but should have a more proactive attitude to find your true love and your own life, so that you can feel as happy and happy as possible in the following days. Secondly, when you have been divorced, your pursuit of marriage and love should be more realistic, you should combine your own reality, you should not have too high requirements for feelings and your other half, and then look for a new marriage partner, instead of paying attention to the other party's appearance and material conditions, etc., it is better to pay more attention to whether the other party's character and their own character are compatible, these basic elements, Because these elements will really determine whether the marriage between themselves and the other party can be truly long and happy, when they divorce and choose to start a new married life, then they and their other half must achieve mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual respect in daily life, at the same time, the husband and wife must also learn to communicate and communicate with each other, so as to ensure the continuation and happiness of the marriage of the two people.
Therefore, there is no need to regard divorce as so important, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.
We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high, why are we stagnating in one place when the road of life is so long. If you have been stagnant, you will miss out on other scenery on the road of life, and there are better people and better things waiting for you ahead.
Things not to do after a divorce.
1. Don't throw yourself into the arms of others as soon as you get divorced, such feelings are often problematic. Immediately after the divorce, you put yourself into another relationship, this is just your impulse, you haven't calmly considered, you just need someone to soothe the wounded heart, and you don't think about whether this person is suitable, this is often untrue, there are many hidden dangers. At least half a year to calm yourself down before you can better see many problems. >>>More
Respect your choice, now that you are divorced, it means that you have thought it through. There is no regret in the world to take medicine, since you have chosen, let the future road become more exciting, I think that is the right one.
You should first compare the divorce and not divorce, which is more beneficial to you, instead of thinking that your life will change due to divorce, just like when you got married, thinking that maybe the man will change when you get married, or your situation will get better, but in fact, it is not for the better, but for the worse. If you don't improve your thinking logic and analyze the reasons why these things happen, you will never be able to jump out of this circle.
Every family has a difficult scripture, first discuss with your husband to persuade them to leave, if you don't succeed, don't become benevolent, go out with your husband to travel, Hainan and Yunnan are good honeymoon locations, guaranteed to be cooler than the honeymoon at home.
I think it's better to ask yourself this question, since ancient times, it has been difficult for Qing officials to decide family affairs. All others can do is help you analyze. >>>More