After the divorce, from the perspective of children s growth, should I see my children more or less?

Introduction: Family Relationships.

It also affects the growth of children, and sometimes parents do not handle family relationships well, which can also lead to family breakdown. If the parents are divorced, will not seeing their children after the divorce hurt the growth of the children?

First of all, as a parent, you have the responsibility to raise your own children, although you are divorced, you are not tutored by yourself, but by the other party. So in such a situation, on the one hand, you have to bear the financial responsibility, and on the other hand, you need the joint influence of both parents in the process of growing up. If you don't look at your child, then your child may be hurt by your parents, which will also affect your child's cognition, and you may feel that your parents may be so indifferent.

In addition, if you don't go to see your child, you don't know if your child's life is good, and if your child doesn't live particularly well on the other side, he suffers some bad treatment. In such a situation, if you don't help your child to solve it, then it may cause immeasurable harm, and there is a blood connection between yourself and your child, and in the end, when you are old, if you want to see your child again, it is estimated that it is unlikely. Therefore, it is advisable to visit the children frequently, even if they are not raised by themselves after the divorce.

First of all, a good family relationship is very beneficial to the growth of children, and children are more likely to have self-confidence under a good family relationship. It is easier to develop an optimistic attitude, and at the same time, it can also help children cope with the difficulties in life. When children face a bad parental relationship, it is easy to feel very tired and insecure.

Therefore, whether parents are together or not, they should not directly expose family conflicts to their children, although some people are divorced. But children can still feel the love from both parents, and this is the way that is really conducive to children's growth and does not affect their own development.

Children will feel very lonely, envy and jealousy of other children, so that they will have a kind of hatred for their mother, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children.

It has a serious impact on the growth of the child, and if you don't see the child after the divorce, the child will lack father's love or mother's love, so that the child will really become a child of a single-parent family, and he will be particularly lacking in love when he grows up.

Yes, this will indeed bring some harm to the child's growth, so that the child has no way to feel the love of his parents, and there is no way to let the child grow up healthy and happy.

Hello, divorce is a stranger, don't go to see the child, don't let the child feel that you still have a little fatherly love, this is not good for the child. If you are divorced and your children follow you, you should care more about your children and give them more care, so that they can grow up healthily and not be affected by your affairs. You are divorced, and the children are with you, so you have to see the children more, give them more care, and don't affect the children because of your affairs, which is not good.

If you are divorced and your children follow you, you should care more about your children and buy more things for them, so that the children will feel your care, which is also very helpful for the healthy growth of the children. If you are divorced and your children follow you, you should visit your children more and buy him more things, so that they can feel your love.

When I am divorced and have not remarried, I often take time to spend with my ex-husband's children. But not long after, my ex-husband remarried, and after he remarried, I went to see the children again, but his remarried wife said to me very directly: "Pai Wei I will take good care of your children, if you have nothing to do in the future, don't come to disturb our lives!"

Later, I remarried myself, so in order to avoid conflicts between the two families, I saw my children less and less. Slowly, I became less close to my ex-husband's children, and like most women, after my second marriage, I slowly put my mind on my new family, and slowly became alienated and indifferent to my original children.

This is also something that cannot be helped, because I also want to live a happy life, and I don't want to have any conflicts in my family because of my children. It should be said that you can't have it both ways, and I chose a new family and alienated and ex-husband's children.

Every woman wants to be able to remarry and live a happy life. However, some women will be more cautious when starting a family again because they have encountered a failed marriage. And for the children with her ex-husband, she will become less concerned, which is also the helplessness of the bright hall.

However, what I want to say here is that the most harmful to divorce is often the children. No matter what kind of life parents live in the future, please minimize the harm to your children and do not let your children fall victim to the failure of their parents' marriage.

In this case, everyone will have a different answer. But in general, there are two answers. One is choosing not to divorce for the sake of the children.

And always keep a smile on his face in front of the child. I want my child to always feel that he is living in a happy family. The other is for children.

Divorce is the choice. Or choose to divorce for your own sake. If you choose to divorce for the sake of your children, it may be that such a marriage is no longer possible.

Even if you insist on it, it may be a heavy injury to the child. Choose to divorce for your own sake. Why?

People have their own things to pursue in this life, and they can never pursue them in marriage. This will make your life feel very defeated. So I will also choose to divorce.

If the child is very fond of his mom and dad. I have always felt that my parents are also very harmonious. Every day when I come home, I see the smiles of my parents.

Every day after returning home, the family is living happily, so that the child feels particularly secure. In such a situation, if there is a serious conflict between parents and parents. Or irreconcilable contradictions.

And such parents should also be very mature, Mom and Dad. Therefore, they will not show such a contradiction and such an emotion in front of their children. In their minds, children may be very, very important.

One way or another. It doesn't matter what you do, as long as the child is happy as long as the child is safe. If it is such a family, parents are also thinking like this, and they are also such mature, so such a family, I think you can choose not to divorce for the sake of your children.

Because children are the future of the whole family. You are such a father and mother, the person who cherishes you the most on the tip of your heart. They will be willing to choose to sacrifice themselves for the sake of their children.

If it's the one I'll talk about later. Even if the family is not divorced, the children will not be able to gain security and happiness. Then such a family may divorce as soon as possible, which is still a good thing for the children.

Because the child is in such a family, he will always be the punching bag of the father and mother. It is impossible for a child to find happiness in such a father and mother. They also don't stop arguing because of their own children.

It can even be more one-sided quarrels, which will hurt the child or affect the child because of the escalation of the emotional conflict between them. So what does such a family mean to children?Of course, in such a family, parents must be immature, because they will only think about themselves and only because of their own emotions.

And harming the child without taking care of the child. It is not a good thing for such a family to choose divorce.

After the divorce, there is no possibility for the husband and wife to reconcile, for the sake of the child's growth, should they see the child more, or less optimistic?

Hello, after the divorce caused by the relationship between husband and wife due to feelings or various reasons, the child should continue to be loved and cared for, after all, the child is innocent, and the child cannot lose the right to be loved by his parents because of your relationship. And children need to have the love of their parents to be conducive to healthy growth and mental health, even if you are divorced, but you still can't treat your children badly, I suggest that you should still see your children more, so that children understand that even if their parents are not in a family, but will not let children lose their love and care, if you don't see your children for a long time, it is easy for children to complain and hold grudges against you, which is also unfair to children. Therefore, for the sake of the children, for the healthy growth of the children, I suggest that you still watch more and care more about the children, which is also the right and obligation of every father and filial piety.

If the child is within two years old and the mother and the parents cannot reach an agreement on custody, the court will award it to the womanChildren up to the age of two can live with their father, provided that they are physically and mentally healthy;The court shall decide on the issue of child support over the age of two in the best interests of the child;If you are over 8 years old, you need to take into account your child's opinion. 1. If the child is not more than two years old, he or she generally lives with his mother. If the parties fight for custody of the child and cannot reach an agreement, unless the woman suffers from a long-term infectious disease or other serious illness and is not suitable to live with the child, the court will generally award custody to the woman.

2. For the custody of children under the age of two, the main consideration is to benefit the child's physical and mental health, if the parents agree to let the child under the age of two live with the father, and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it is also okay.

3. If the child has reached the age of two, the parents shall first negotiate to resolve the issue of custody, and if no agreement can be reached, the court will make a judgment according to the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child.

4. If the child is over 8 years old and there is a dispute between the two parties over the ownership of custody, the child's opinion needs to be considered. Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court shall make a judgment in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child on the basis of the specific circumstances of both parties to the bulk sale. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.