Two people who love each other will still have a sense of loneliness together, why is this happening

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    It's because two people really love each other, but they don't know how to get along and don't give each other enough security. You can accompany each other out shopping, eating, and watching movies.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Because two people can't go into each other's hearts, two people can't care about each other, so two people will have some loneliness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    People who love each other should not have a lonely feeling, if two people are together, then it is very good, the relationship is lovely, if you want to say that there is a sense of work, I don't understand very well, you mean two people, I am not around, when you are, the feeling of being alone alone, is it possible, yes, but my daughter said that two people together have a lonely feeling, then I feel that there should be no such thought, you should not have a feeling, because the words of the two of you are partnered, How can you blend into a feeling of loneliness? I don't understand, if you are annoyed by people, then I don't understand, because when I used to be in love, then when I was alone, when I was doing things there, maybe it was a lonely feeling, but uh, if you say that if you do things alone, it is normal to feel lonely, and anyone has a feeling of loneliness, but if you say that two people are together and there is a feeling of loneliness, I don't understand.

    Everyone has a lonely time, but this lonely time is not your own time, it may just be that the time has not come, so I think this feeling, then this lonely feeling is not always there, so in this case, then you can't think too much about the feeling of loneliness, everyone has it, but it's not that you have special goods, so I think this feeling is actually such a thing, well, As a person, you have to learn to adapt, loneliness comes from overcoming loneliness, loneliness is the norm in life, many things have to be done by you alone, you can see alone, so you have to learn to overcome loneliness, in addition, you have to say that two people who love each other are together, not that I don't feel like this I don't have you, because if two people are together, there should be no feeling of loneliness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    This happens because you're introverted and not very communicative, and you don't have a common topic.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It may be because the two people have been together for a long time, so there is no sense of freshness, it may be that the two people have completely different plans for the future, or there is no common topic, it may be that the two people are busy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because two people are really alike, but how to get along, there is not enough sense of insurance for each other. Or many accompany each other to go shopping, have dinner, and watch movies.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It takes a long time for love to sublimate into family affection, and it is accompanied by countless challenges, sadness and sadness and can't go on and feel that the other party doesn't care about themselves, these are all tribulations that need to be experienced, and then there will be family affection!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The two of you will also have this phenomenon if your personality is incompatible, maybe you are more introverted and preferential to this phenomenon, and you can chat privately after adopting.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There should be no feeling, two people should be happy together, if it doesn't feel right, make it clear, delay you delay him (her).

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In the same bed, different dreams, holding your right hand but the heartbeat is on the left, I look at you, but you look at the scenery outside the window.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't love each other, if you love, two people will feel happy together even if they don't say anything.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hearts are not together, there is no blending, mutual distrust, not initiative, not considerate, and they do not feel warm ...... each other

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I guess there is no common language, and I can't find a topic to talk about, so I guess there is nothing to talk about.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This sentence comes from "Laughing Field", the original sentence in it is, at first, you pulled me to watch the rain together, a hundred ghosts walked at night in the heavy rain, we were happier than ghosts in it, and later, you pulled me to live together, living a lot of people's lives, it is difficult to write romanticly, the above is an original text, narrating an expression of emotional life, of course, if you really understand this passage alone, there are several different interpretations.

    In fact, the emotional explanation is that when two people are just together, they are mixed in a variety of living environments, and their hearts are actually full of sweetness and happiness, and they are happy and happy in any environment, no matter how bad the surrounding environment is, they can be with the people they like, these bad things will not affect themselves, and happiness and satisfaction will not be replaced.

    Many people should have experienced this general feeling of first love, love is a very mysterious thing, can make you happy and sweet, but also make you don't want to eat, can really change a person's mentality and mood, can make a person's mental outlook change dramatically, when you are happy, you face any environment and your heart is full of hope, this is the power of love.

    Of course, there is another explanation that reflects a social phenomenon, reflecting an indifferent behavior that is not a big deal to see the excitement, just like some bad human life has happened, and many people are even anxious and worried.

    But some people don't think it's a big deal to see the excitement, and saying cool things in the crowd and fueling the situation makes things uncontrollable, and it is actually very reasonable and understandable to explain it with this sentence.

    In the society we live in now, there are some people who like to mix in the crowd to watch the excitement, others just watch the excitement but at least they don't cause trouble, but there are some people who not only watch the excitement but also think that the matter is not big enough, and they add a fire to it, such as saying cool words.

    For example, promoting false news and so on, these people are very happy when they encounter big things, whether it is good or bad, they like to do some small actions in it, and this sentence explains that these also work.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. Not enough trust.

    Two people don't trust each other enough in this relationship. Maybe the other party just has something they don't want to say, which is related to self-esteem, but you will feel that you should tell you everything, and you should be honest with each other when you fall in love, and you shouldn't hide it from each other. Something happened at home and I don't want to tell you, so I reduce the time I spend with you, and you not only can't understand him, but you will also wonder why he is like this.

    Instead of asking him directly, you complain to others, so that your problems will be known to everyone, and his name will be corrupted by you indirectly.

    2. Didn't think about each other's future.

    Two people are just falling in love together, but they have never thought about the future development, two people think that only love each other can be, but there are many practical factors to consider in the future. The two are in love with each other, but they are separated because of the material aspect. Two people graduated from college, and there is no shortage of people everywhere, not to mention that their academic qualifications are not outstanding in the application, and the two of them began to quarrel because of all aspects of their lives, and their feelings were consumed because of the broken future.

    3. The family is opposed.

    There is only this one in the girl's family, and the family loves it. Boys and girls are not people in the same place, boys have to go back to their homes after graduation, and they want girls to go back with him, but the girls' families are against it, and there is no way for girls to leave their homes, after all, there is only one in the family. But boys can't come to her, the house and car at home have been bought, and the job has been found for him.

    Because neither of the two people wants to talk to anyone, and the family continues to exert pressure to express their opposition to them, and in the end, the personal feelings of the two sons can only end in breaking up.

    Fourth, the character is still not suitable.

    The two have gone through a long run-in, but they found that each other's personalities still don't get along. You like to be quiet, but he can't be quiet, he likes to be lively. You are willing to read a book at night, but he wants to go to the movie, and the temper of the two people is relatively stubborn, and they are unwilling to change because of each other.

    Even though they tried to run in with each other, they still continued.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. It may be that your way is wrong, you can try to welcome and refuse. Don't rely too much on it.

    Why do two people often feel lonely when they are together?

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while

    There are two possibilities, one is that you like him very much, and the two of you have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be a little contradiction or something, but when you really don't look back, in the end, you will be even more lonely. The second one, as I think you understand, is that you don't actually like him. Hope it helps.

    Have a great day!

    I love it, I feel like I don't get a response, and I feel empty.

    Since you like it, don't give up easily, and if you can succeed casually, won't you have such a great sense of accomplishment?

    It's not that I give up, it's because I'm already very good to him, but he still can't see it, and he doesn't care about me, so I feel very tired and helpless inside.

    We are together, I basically do all the housework, and I have to find a way to do things to make money, and many times I am really helpless.

    It may be that your way is wrong, you can try to welcome and refuse. Don't rely too much on it.

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