What can I do to be loved? How to be loved by everyone in the workplace?

When a person is seen and loved, it is not something he can deliberately shape. Although there are very few such people (some people think that there are no such people), it is already extremely successful to be recognized and liked by more than 80% of the people around you.

First of all, you have to love others, don't look down on other people because they have some shortcomings, no one is perfect.

Be sincere with everyone, even if someone has done you badly, attacked you with words and deeds, it does not mean that the person's words and deeds are correct and effective, it may indicate his ignorance or incompetence, and therefore he needs to be influenced with sincerity.

Do everything with the consequences in mind, but not with care. Don't be sorry for others' words and deeds, especially don't scold the country, spit spit, etc.! This kind of "little thing" often shows the level of a person's personality.

Do what you can, that is, do your job well; Do whatever others need to do, even if it's something that is right and beyond your ability, i.e., helpful. Don't do anything that is bad for yourself, bad for society, bad for others, that is, don't do bad things.

insist on being a good person, so you are the person everyone loves. Although it's hard to do, it can definitely be done!

Be sincere to people, and exchange sincerity for sincerity. You're basically superficial. No one is a nerd.

1. Smile in the face of colleagues, no matter who you interact with, you must maintain or burn a smile, because this can shorten the distance with people, especially when interacting with Duanyou customers or friends, don't often lock your eyebrows, and often show your smile to leave a good impression. Therefore, even the cleaning aunt should show your bright smile. 2. Identify the object of flattery, it is absolutely not okay to have no sycophants in the workplace, but the flattery of only the boss will definitely offend the public, especially if you don't put your colleagues in your eyes, see your colleagues as if you see the air, and often treat your colleagues and subordinates harshly.

If you can't be kind to others, don't think about being kind to others when it's critical.

3. To be principled but not stubborn, career success is usually those who talk about principles but do not stick to the principles of people, principled, but know how to be at the right time of other people's opinions, will not bow to everything, only promises, so that the shirt is easy to leave people without assertiveness, cowardice and incompetence, the negative impression that things can not be enough, at the same time, excessive principles will also leave a bad impression that people do not know how to flexibly use the rules to achieve the results of things. 4. To learn to cooperate with others, no matter how perfect the rules and regulations of the company or the unit are, to do a good job can not always leave the cooperation of colleagues, and the harmonious working environment and harmonious colleague relationship are easy to form affinity and harmony between colleagues. You know, peaceful'The relationship between colleagues can definitely harmonize the team relationship and form the combat effectiveness of the team.

5. Be empathetic and low-key people, low-key and empathetic in the workplace is the basic unspoken rule, no one likes to work with a strong personality like to show off and self-righteous guys, especially the lack of cooperation spirit at work everywhere to personal interests or small group interests of people, usually will be spurned by colleagues, therefore, a colleague when sick, colleagues when they are too busy to help, will let you win favor in the company's way.