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What to do if the child is disobedient As the saying goes: seven or eight suspicions. At this time, children are curious, want to make their own decisions about everything, to try, and the rebellious psychology is gradually increasing to meet their psychological needs
1. Treat it calmly, when the child loses his temper, let him stay alone in a room for a while, don't rush to convince him, it won't take long for him to calm down, and then he will accept it when he is reasoning with him.
Second, appropriate experience, sometimes the child's way of solving the problem is incorrect, at this time, the adult may wish to let him try without danger, when he hits the wall, in the reason for him, he will be happy to accept.
3. Communication, when the child does something wrong, don't blindly blame, patiently ask why he does this, and help him analyze the consequences of doing so, so that he can realize the seriousness, learn how to solve such problems in the future, and regulate his emotions.
Fourth, timely encouragement, encouragement is good medicine for any naughty child, when he finds that he has made a little progress, to encourage praise, give him confidence, he will consciously restrain his behavior, continue to strengthen, and gradually change bad habits.
Fifth, the role of role models, you can tell children some stories of celebrities who have been obedient since childhood, let children tell what you know from the story, and you can also use the obedient children around the children as role models, guide the children to follow the characters in the story and the children around them, and be a reasonable child.
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1. Leave him alone, hang him aside, and when he sees no one coaxing him, he will naturally do whatever he should do; This situation is that he usually dotes on the child too much, and he can do anything, so that he can do whatever he wants. When you ignore him, he is naturally obedient. For example, if a child is disobedient at noon, he can be disciplined in this way.
2. Discipline him strictly, make unremitting efforts to correct bad behaviors, and when the limbs are cracked, he should naturally come over.
3. Praise him, encourage him to guide him to develop good habits, and give necessary rewards. For example, let him develop good living habits, when he is naughty and disobedient, he can say that our baby is awesome and must be well cleaned up. Then do it well, give praise, and motivate it often, and you will develop good habits over time.
4. Walk into the child's world, be friends with him, and don't blindly accuse and scold him. When you know what your child really thinks, you will know how to educate him.
5. Let the child play more, when he has enough activity every day, his naughty personality will naturally decrease. Because it is a child's nature to love to play, for some children who are naturally active, let him play more, and the problem of naughtiness will naturally be reduced.
6. Reason with the child, let him understand that the consequences of doing so are wrong, and he will not fool around when he understands it. Of course, be patient, reason with people what he understands, and let him clear his hunger. You can be persuaded by cartoons, or real things in life.
7. Establish the authority of parents, and at the same time, parents should not quarrel in front of their children, and create a loving and democratic environment for children. In this way, children will care and love others, and parents should spend more time with their children, which can relieve children's naughtiness and anxiety.
Children are particularly naughty, should guide him well, tell him should not be so naughty, should learn well, in fact, naughty is the nature of children, as long as they do not do things out of line, adults try to restrain it.
There are probably several reasons: too much rejection, lack of self-confidence, little contact with the outside world, and people who have a great impact on children's lives are also introverted.
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