Is it very unfilial for a 35 year old person who has not started a family? Isn t there a sense of be

I think that starting a family and filial piety have never been a fixed match, that is: whether you have a family or not has nothing to do with filial piety.

The ancient precept always says that "starting a family and starting a business" and "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great......".There are many such ancient precepts. I think it's not advisable for a lot of people to get carried away by this kind of thinking and go about their lives in a step-by-step manner.

Modern times are an open and pluralistic society, and the standard of filial piety has long changed from the ancient "parents are not far away" to children and grandchildren working hard to make their parents live a healthy life. Having a family is no longer a necessity for an individual's social life, and both men and women can earn their own money and support their families. Judging from the surrounding examples, many people's families are based on the hard work of their parents, buying a wedding house, buying a car, a bride price, holding a wedding banquet, ......A series of all rely on the support of their parents' money, and even owe a lot of debts, is this considered filial piety?

On the contrary, if you are 35 years old and do not have a family, but you can take care of yourself, and even take care of your parents to protect your family, then you are a filial child.

Human life is very long, and the meaning of life has never been standardized, and there is no rule that says that you must get married, you must start a family, and you must succeed ......Have a good heart, choose what you like and try to do it well, you are the best!

Hello, not having a family at the age of 35 is not unfilial, but also has the meaning of living.

As the saying goes: "There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest", it does not mean that at the age of 35, if you are not married, you must be unfilial to your parents, mainly because in the eyes of many people, 35 years old should be a double harvest of family and career, whether it is a boy or a girl, if you are 35 years old, if you are not married, your parents must be very anxious, especially when you see your peers who are about the same age as themselves, they are already full of children and grandchildren, and when they enjoy the joy of family, I believe that their hearts must be particularly unpleasant.

What exactly is marriage for?

In the final analysis, isn't it for the sake of passing on the ancestry and continuing one's own bloodline from generation to generation? As long as the children do not get married for a day, the parents will have an inexhaustible heart, they are worried that they are getting older and older, and they will be more and more unable to do it in the future, and the children can get married as soon as possible, let them hold their grandchildren as soon as possible, and they can enjoy their old age in peace, which is probably their greatest wish in this life.

Not getting married is your own real world, and it has nothing to do with filial piety to your parents, but your parents will urge you to find the girl you like, hoping that you can have both family and business, instead of being alone.

After the age of 30, I have a stable life, good economic conditions, and often go home to chat with my parents, which is already filial piety to my parents.

As for your love, when it comes to getting married, it can be regarded as reassuring your parents, and it can be regarded as an indirect completion of a kind of filial piety.

You are living a very good life alone now, and you will not have any sense of unfilial existence.

Everyone has their own way of living, marriage is not a necessity for us, of course you meet the person you love, marriage is a wonderful thing, if not, single is also a kind of freedom and happiness, filial piety when to say to use marriage to judge? If you don't get married, you can take your parents to see the beautiful scenery, you can accompany them to go shopping, cook, eat, walk, etc., and you have free time, how can you not have the meaning of life? There are many meanings in life, eating well, going to see the scenery, and accompanying your parents.

Everyone has their own way of living. You can't take care of everyone. Just honor your parents. Other people's opinions have no real impact on you. Leave him alone.

Everyone has their own aspirations, so there is no need to think about it so much. You can't always live in someone else's mouth.

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