The brothers are both in their 30s, and they haven t started a family, is this life over?

Updated on society 2024-08-14
63 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Of course not, of course not, it's normal to get married late these days, I'm not married in my 30s, I'm not very old, and I'm not married when I'm 50 years old, so I'm really old.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I think I'm in my 30s, I haven't started a family yet, in fact, it's good to live by myself, there's no need, I care so much, and besides, this is also fate, fate hasn't arrived, you don't have to force yourself too much, do your own things well, and then make money, don't worry, at least your life is guaranteed, isn't it?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    We are both 30 years old and have not started a family, everyone has their own plans, first do a good job and then start a family, it may also be that the requirements are high, the fate of love is not enough, it doesn't matter to grasp the opportunity, be self-motivated, brave to pursue love, there will be a happy love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    According to the previous customs, it is also the age when you should start a family and start a business, but now it is not a problem for this age not to get married or in a few years later.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The two brothers are in their thirties, they haven't started a family, they have nothing to do in this life, their thirties are not too old, and they can get married at the age of 35.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is not necessarily, boys in their 30s are not too old, as long as you can live your life well, I believe you will definitely find a girl who is suitable for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Marriage does not mean that it will not work in this life, people first start a business and then settle down, and those who marry early have not seen any success.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    As long as you live comfortably, there is no need to think about it for so long, which will make you very tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In this year, it is normal for her to get married late. Now this society does not emphasize starting a family as much as before, you can also start a business first and then start a family.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not too late at all, be self-motivated.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are more than 50 miles to go. Don't worry, the other half will always show up!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The male Kiritto had no economy when he was young, and it was better not to get married if he was not fully mature. failed the woman and couldn't give happiness. Although husband and wife are chaotic, men still have to have money. There are a lot of 30-year-old men who are not married, and there are a lot of people who are married and divorced!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    We must admit and accept that most people are ordinary people, which is also a sign of a person's maturity. Consider whether you are on the right path, whether you have developed the habit of reaching your goals, and whether you have the ability and resources to succeed.

    If you know where to go and how to go, it's never too late to go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not over, when life starts, it's not too late, but if your life only starts without persistence, I think this is your life, you have to live it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, it's never too late to start. Didn't Jack Ma also go through a lot of failures to succeed? As long as you are self-motivated, the start is good.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, you have to have a belief and take your time to realize it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't have a family in your 30s, it's fine.

    Men in their 30s are very popular.

    The question is, do you have a career of your own?

    If you're in your 30s, you can't get anything done.

    Then I'm sure girls will have a hard time falling in love with you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't give up, work hard, and at the same time, don't be impatient, and work and live in a down-to-earth manner.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's just that the right person for you hasn't shown up yet.

    Don't give up in a hurry.

    You meet the right person for yourself.

    It's going to be happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't give up, it's just that fate hasn't arrived.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At the age of 30, the career has just begun, and it will slowly become more mature, and if you meet the right person, you will get married soon.

    Believe in yourself, not getting married is fate not coming.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People who ask this question often don't give up on themselves, the more you want to do it, the more you can't do it, don't get into the horns, your so-called giving up is just choosing another way...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Now there are many people who have not started a family in their 30s, especially in first-tier cities, but they have to find it quickly, and getting married late is not good for children.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Bowing your head is not admitting defeat, but seeing the path you are taking; Looking up is not pride, it is to see your own sky, don't admit defeat to the world

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you're a warm man, maybe there's still salvation, haha.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Brother, you should work hard instead of giving up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    30 years old, the next time is still very long, although nothing is achieved now, but it is not too late to start working hard, at most it is only a few years later than others' success, and the whole life is still very short in these years.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In fact, what matters is not your current age, but your goals, your ideals. What people fear most is a hopeless life, and that is called terror. It doesn't matter, take a little time to think carefully about what kind of life you want to live, such as (getting married this year, how much money you can save, what kind of girlfriend you want to find and what position you can reach by the end of the year).

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Eldest sister, the most important thing for you at the moment is to get back to normal with your husband. In fact, there are more people who are worse than you, but you are considered to have a sense of crisis, which is a good thing. You can pay more attention to your surroundings to see if there are any projects that are more suitable for starting a business, or if there is a cheaper house.

    Your child is 8 years old and it is not recommended that you buy a house. In fact, you can calculate that you rent for 70 years.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I'm just 30 divorced today plus unemployed. Hehe......

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You didn't have a family at the age of 30, what's there to be ashamed of. There are many older young people in this era who have not started a family, and there are many reasons, and whether they have a family or not should be determined according to their own situation.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is normal for young people in their 30s to be unmarried, and young people nowadays are demanding and have a perfect quality of life.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is true that there will be some gossip in the countryside, so you don't have to pay attention to it, but it is very common in the big city, and I hope you will meet your good relationship as soon as possible.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Look at you as a man or a woman, if you are a man, you should start a family, and if you are a woman, it is indeed a little late, but now you are busy with your own career, and there is no shame in not starting a family, as long as you have a successful career, they will not say anything.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    We don't have a family in middle age It's not a kind of unbelief Even if the deal is still very good It seems that if you have a family after you have a responsibility If you don't have the ability to take responsibility in middle age, then you still don't want to start a family Occupation refers to a job that participates in the social division of labor, uses professional skills and knowledge to create material or spiritual wealth, obtains reasonable remuneration, and enriches the material or spiritual life of society. Occupation is the work that people do in society as a means of earning a living; From a social point of view, occupation is the social role obtained by workers, and workers assume certain obligations and responsibilities for the society and receive corresponding remuneration; From the perspective of human resources required for national economic activities, occupations refer to specialized labor positions with different natures, different contents, different forms, and different operations. The object world of an individual refers to the world that surrounds an individual from the moment of its birth, and it includes the material entities that support the existence of the individual and the various factors used for the development of the individual.

    From the perspective of the individual's living situation, the object world of the individual is the natural world and the form of this natural world in the broad sense that we usually refer to. This world is from low to high, and what they present to individuals is a sequence composed of "primitive nature, humanized nature, active nature, virtual nature" and so on. It's better to dislike it early than to dislike it when you're married, in fact, it's okay if you don't eat garlic.

    Maybe she also likes to eat garlic, anyway, the long pain is better than the short pain, and it doesn't have much impact, so as not to complain about it after marriage, and affect the intimate relationship between the two.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Why do you feel unlucky, life doesn't have to be spent by two people together.

    There is nothing wrong with being alone, of course, it is good to meet the right person and live together for the rest of your life.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It doesn't have to be a misfortune, but a life without marriage can be said to be very incomplete. Marrying the wrong person isn't necessarily better than being single.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    To be confident, it is better to live with two people than to be alone, and there is one person to discuss everything, and there will be children, so that it can be regarded as a complete life.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No way! There are many people who have a family and divorce, and there are not a few who choose not to get married.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's a pity that I haven't started a family in middle age.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    30 years old isn't too big. What do you mean by having no career, having a stable job to support yourself is not a waste. As for promotion and salary increase to become a leader, I personally think this is a matter of opportunity. Don't worry too much.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    For some, miracles don't happen.

    For others, anything is possible.

    Whatever you have believed in the past, whatever you have done in the past, whatever you have ever had, it is never too late to change if you want to.

    Anything that happens has a purpose and helps me.

    Don't get what you want.

    About to get better.

    What you lose is better than what you gain.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Most men in China are like this, they are not rich families, and they are not nouveau riche, how many people can buy houses on their own in the current housing prices.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    People are not afraid of having nothing, they are afraid of eating and being lazy, as long as they admit that nothing is a problem.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Thirty-one flowers for men and thirty tofu dregs for women.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It depends on whether he works hard or not, if he is a mess, there is definitely no hope, but if he is willing to work hard, he will definitely be able to create his own wealth.

  47. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It seems to me that there is no salvation. I believe you have a kind of hatred that iron does not make steel. The mud can't hold up the wall.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Leave your dignity behind for money, and then use money to buy back your dignity (

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Do you have to have these to survive? Is the status quo bad?

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's too late to start changing.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If you are poor, you will think about change, and now you start to think, as long as you are in the right direction and stick to it, it will become, and some things are actually very simple

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Did your parents' generation succeed?

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    As long as you don't give up, work hard from now on, and still be saved, believe in yourself.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Yes, there is, but it's almost impossible.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Yes, as long as he is willing to have perseverance.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Yes, it depends on what he thinks.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    There should be, but it depends on whether he gives it or not.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If you work hard, you will have everything, and if you don't work hard, you will have nothing.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Human beings have four dimensions: morality, spirituality, mindfulness, and materiality. Starting a family is only a matter of the mental and material dimensions, and the key is the growth of virtue and spirituality. Cultivating one's spirituality through painting, **, and literature; By doing good deeds and being kind to others, I believe that your life will change.

    Your life will be full of joy.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    In fact, what you look down on the most is not your current situation: no job, no family, feeling like you have nothing. You're just scared of the future right now, you're scared of this purposeless life, over and over again.

    It's not the cruelty of reality, it's the result of your own making, you don't have the courage to embrace change, you are afraid of change but you encounter it, you use the cruelty of reality as an excuse to hide in your own world. In fact, the situation is not as bad as you think, your dissatisfaction with your job means that you are self-motivated, maybe you are unemployed now, you can only say that your luck is not very good, your girlfriend left you, maybe she is waiting for you to keep her, everything is unknown, it is your own fear and would rather believe in your own imagination. Be brave, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    This is a problem that most post-80s generations will encounter, there is no way, who let us catch up with this era! Now that you've caught up, let's face it bravely! You can't go back and reincarnate!

    If the job is gone, you can look for it again, and you can find it again when your girlfriend is gone. There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge! High housing prices are not a problem, nor are they high for us, everyone thinks it is high, as long as it is a problem, there will always be a solution, right?

    Buddy, let's encourage together!

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I feel the same way.,I'm very confused.。。。 It's almost 30 too.,There's no hope in sight.。。。

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    yes, like you, I don't know where tomorrow lies.

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