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I don't know what you've experienced that makes you so pessimistic about love, but I want to say that only two people who love each other can make it possible to go to the end.
We always see all kinds of love in real life, some are as vigorous as fireworks, but they are fleeting, some are as plain as clear water, but they have a long history, and holding hands is a lifetime.
But no matter what kind of love, the two people who can go to the end must love each other.
Two people who love each other may not be able to make it to the end, and I agree with this sentence. It's not enough to just have two people in love, after all, we live in a real life, how much love has fallen in front of the material, this kind of thing is too much, and it is not strange.
If two people want to really go to the end, they must not only have enough emotional foundation, but also have enough material foundation to be able to overcome many obstacles and finally hold hands and step into marriage.
But even if everything in life is not a problem, two people who love each other may be separated step by step in time, and some love cannot stand the test of time.
Two people who love each other may not be able to go to the end, but two people who can go to the end must love each other. This should actually be regarded as a very simple truth, two people in life are willing to make compromises and concessions in getting along, willing to tolerate and understand each other's lives, and willing to work hard to give, if there is no love between the two, how can these be done?
Maybe people who love each other will still separate, but people who don't love each other will never go to the end. In the end, we grew old hand in hand, not just hand in hand and into marriage. There can be a temporary success in a marriage, but there will not be a lifetime of success.
If there is really a husband and wife who can live for a lifetime, the two people are actually full of love for a long time.
The future is always full of infinite possibilities, we should still have expectations for love, and in the future life, we can meet our own love with a sunny attitude.
Don't be so pessimistic in love, believe that two people who love each other can go to the end, and also believe that you can be happy.
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Because when two people who love each other enter the marriage hall, their parents may not be very good in terms of finance, so it is difficult to reach the end.
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Because of two people who love each other. It is possible that the personality is not suitable or that it is not allowed at home. This may affect the two people who love each other to end up together. Because marriage needs to be considered comprehensively.
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It is indeed not easy for people who love each other to come together, because when they are in love, it is a matter of two people, and it is good for the two of us to be good, but to come together, there will be many factors in establishing a family, and the interference of parents will lead to the end of the relationship between two people.
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Although the two love each other very much, their temperament, personality and living environment will be different, which may affect whether the two people will end up together. So love is not the only factor that goes to the end.
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Because love can't withstand the torture of reality, sometimes when the reality is too cruel, in order not to let the other party worry about it, I choose to let go.
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I don't know if you've heard that there are four stages of love. A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship that can be called true love must go through four stages, namely: coexistence, anti-dependence, independence, symbiosis, and the time required to transition between stages is not necessarily from person to person.
Phase 1: Coexistence. This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.
Phase 2: Anti-dependency. When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for themselves to do what they want, and then the other party will feel left out.
The fourth stage: symbiosis. At this time, a new way of getting along has taken shape, and your (your) person (she) has become your (your) closest person.
Together, you support each other and create your own life together. Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other. However, most people don't make it through the second or third stage, and it's a shame to break up.
Many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, like this.
The second and third phases will be shortened. It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, so don't give up easily. It is a rare thing for two people who love each other to go in the end, but in fact, it is also a very simple thing, whether you love enough, whether you understand enough, whether you trust each other enough, whether you have the confidence to be sure that each other is the person you will be in your life.
There is a run-in period in the process of falling in love, but many people admit defeat and give up in this run-in period. Maybe some are their own problems, some are external pressure, and some are suspicious of each other, this is a very normal thing, the time of the run-in period is uncertain, some may be a year, some may be several years, in fact, many people think that as long as they love each other, they can go forever. But how long can love last?
The shelf life of love is only sixteen months, those freshness will soon disappear, and the rest is a test for you, maybe there are a lot of tedious things, maybe your current life is not going the way you thought at the beginning, maybe you will find that the other party has some shortcomings. So a lot of people hold on halfway and give up. So whether two people can last a long time depends on your heart, whether you can understand each other, whether you can tolerate each other's shortcomings, whether you can love each other as always, and whether you will always believe in each other...
I hope you can do it ...
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