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Anonymous users2024-02-16It makes sense that people who love each other can't be together, in the relationship, be content and happy, cherish everything you have now, so that you will not have emotional regrets in your future life. There are a lot of major factors.
1. Severe opposition from both parents.
I think the severe opposition of the parents on both sides is one of them, many young people are very in love with each other in college, forced by the pressure of their parents, they feel that the man must have a certain economic foundation, so he has blocked it many times, and there are individual women's parents who ask the man to have a car and a house, and the door is right, so two people who obviously love each other can't be together.
2. Both of them are too young and their ideas are too naïve.
The two of them are too young, and their ideas are too naïve, which may also lead to the reason why people who love each other can't be together, and the young two people enter college life, and because of their lack of understanding of society, they love each other vigorously, thinking that everything can surpass the cruelty of reality, but when they are about to graduate, they find that they can't give each other what they want, so they have no choice but to break up.
3. Both men and women expect too much from each other and pursue perfection too much.
Whoever gets along with whom has to go through the initial process of love, it is inevitable that they will bear more pain, there will be pain if there is love, but one of the two sides can not insist on love, can not really grasp their own ideas, and think that the other party should love themselves more.
At the same time, he was harsh on himself, and as a result, he was even more demanding on others, and as he got older, he found that it was not easy to find someone who really loved you, and he regretted breaking up.
In fact, it is not easy to fall in love, and if you can find a good one, you should be content, know how to do it and cherish it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-15One party already has someone to love, or the opposition of parents and family, or financial problems
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Love is delicate.
It needs to be maintained by the joint efforts of both sides. Sincere love is needed, mutual giving, love can't stand the hurt!
What is harm?
It's the uncertainty of his dedication. There is no love response to him, an expression that love for him will not understand.
It is to hurt the other party's sincerity, which is the deepest irreparable damage!
Those who love each other can treat each other sincerely and be together forever.
To give love, it is more important to tolerate each other's shortcomings, two people will inevitably have friction, don't both of them are stubborn and don't admit defeat, there must always be a stuffy person to say the air cover sail first"I'm sorry".This is not a faceless lose.
It's a concession that loves to please!
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Anonymous users2024-02-13Because love is too painful. Maybe you'll have a fight when you become lovers,。。 Be friends then. That way, you won't be angry with your loved one. Such.. How nice!!
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Anonymous users2024-02-12I also have such an experience, love is not as perfect as we imagined, not love can be together, love is easy to stay together, sometimes because of family, environment... And so many other factors make it impossible for two people to be together. Therefore, when you can't stay together, just let go, letting go is also a kind of happiness, and you know what helplessness is when you have experienced it yourself.
As long as you have truly loved and owned, what regrets do you have?
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