What should I do if I become a third party in a relationship?

First, you should first make it clear to your "boyfriend" and ask him why he is cheating on you and what he plans to do. You must have him give you an explanation, you can't become a "little three" in vain. If he says he still loves you, but doesn't know how to tell the woman to wait a little longer, then don't believe him.

Men deceive the "little three" like this, and he does the same to you. You tell him, either you will break up, or he will break up with the woman, or you will make it clear to the woman and let him choose.

Second, if that man still doesn't choose you, then you give up. But you go and tell the woman about it. Don't let that woman know that you are the "little three" in their relationship and come to you for trouble.

You just tell her that you didn't mean to become a "little three", and that the man deceived you, but you plan to leave him now and make it clear to her.

Third, when it is broken, it is broken. Don't be attached to that man anymore, he doesn't deserve it. You have better people to choose from. And don't care about this "little three" incident anymore, after all, you didn't mean it, there is no need to feel guilty, you have to look forward.

Quit out, even if you like that guy again, you can't let yourself be a junior. The junior is a rat crossing the street, everyone shouts and beats, you shouldn't want your life to become like this. Look at how many good endings the current junior can have, and how many can there be in the upper position of the junior junior. <>

If you are determined to be a junior, what do you want your parents to think? It's not an exaggeration to say that if your affair isn't discovered by others, I think it's fine. But what if someone else finds out, after all, paper can't hold fire.

The news must have reached your parents right away, so that your parents will be scolded and poked in the back. Don't think this kind of thing is impossible, Xiao San is the most hated thing by people now, and you just jumped into such a pit.

When the mistress doesn't end well, even if you are now alive with the dead of his love. But after a while, he is willing to divorce his wife for you. I don't think that's possible, people can go home again when they're tired of playing.

But what about you, you wasted your youth and couldn't get what you wanted, and in the end you were abandoned by others like broken shoes.

This kind of person is not worth your effort, his reputation is bad, and he finally gets himself bruised all over his body, what do you say, who knows that you have done three in the future, I really dare not live with you, I am afraid of green hats.

If you can part decisively, you will naturally be happy, and you will not have to suffer yourself. But the ideal is that you can't just give up on this person, you live under moral condemnation, maybe you live in your own inner condemnation, in short, you don't feel good.

Because of love. Many times, women are willing to ignore other people's eyes, don't care about fame, is the heart of the other party is "true love", and it is precisely this true love that met another person before you, your so-called "true love" divides the heart into two, he can now discard the person he met first for you, then he will also discard you when he meets the next "true love". Your current "theory of true love" is nothing more than a deception to cover your ears and steal the bell.

If he truly loves you, why is he putting you in a dilemma?

Because of money. For the sake of profit, be able to endure being a third party, since you have made a choice, you should also understand your own situation, not for fame, not for love, only for money. I don't want to judge whether this value is correct or not, I am not you, naturally I don't understand your life situation, whether you are forced by life or money supremacy, when you choose the not-so-fair title of the third person, you should bear all the consequences.

As for how to deal with oneself, those who understand the purpose will not be disturbed by the surrounding environment, endure what you should endure, and then get what you deserve.

Due to other needs. It could be a sense of companionship, it could be a sense of identity, it could be anything else you want from him. You don't get it from anywhere else, and when he can give you what you want, even if it's a despised third party, you're willing to be.

But have you ever thought that what you get from him is only temporary, and that this gain is achieved at the expense of the happiness of others?

If you can convince me, I have thought about all the results, even if it is the original match to beat me, others insult me, it is all I deserve, then you can continue with the current situation, let go of the anxiety and fear in your heart, and live generously. However, if you can't do it, you should be decisive and separate, and live a happier and more chic life.

In the end, I would like to say that it doesn't have to be this person, separate him, you will meet better, and you deserve better.

I will take the initiative to keep a certain distance from each other, I will not be a person who destroys other people's families, and the final result will only be a lose-lose situation, and it will also affect my own reputation.

I hate Little 3 very much, so if I'm Little 3, I'll find the original match, fight with her, hit that scumbag hard, and then leave him.

If it were me, I would have opted out because I think it's very bad to destroy other people's feelings, and it's even worse to destroy other people's families.