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This is the most beautiful age of a woman, innocent, innocent, white. Today, the legal age of marriage for women is 20 years old, which is the first age for a woman to fall in love. But not all women can meet their other half at this beautiful age.
Many women saw the closing of Fanghua, and they became an increasingly old leftover girl, and marriage became a big problem. So why don't men want to marry older leftover women? Not because of age, but because these three points are equally unacceptable.
Men should not marry older leftover women not only because of age, but also because of these three important factors.
1. Character. In fact, Chinese really don't care that women are older than men. In the end, as the saying goes, "women's big three eight gold bricks".
A woman's life can make people sick when they get older, which is a great option for men. However, if a woman enters the ranks of "old leftover women" as she grows older, it is not a matter of age.
Some older leftover women can't marry because of their own personality problems. The basis of love is that two people are suitable for each other, that is, they have a good temper and temperament. (William Shakespeare, Hamlet, Woman) If a person is too arbitrary and runs on her mind, the people around her will not be able to get along with her, and when such a woman reaches an age, the man can no longer accept it.
2. Experience. Some older women may not marry because of their past relationship experiences. This kind of woman's feelings are too serious, and the injury is not easy to heal.
Because a woman who pretends to be another man in her heart has caused a man who can't help it, so the marriage event has been delayed like this. (A woman).
In addition to this part of the seeds of infatuation, some women are not very good at marrying because of their past relationship experiences, but their tempers are very different. They used to treat their feelings as a joke, taking advantage of the good years to take advantage of the world, playing until they were old, and wanted to get married, but no one wanted to marry. Because many men care a lot about a woman's view of love.
William Shakespeare, Hamlet, Woman) Men may not mind what kind of person you were in the past, but in the future, you have to work together, and women with a bad view of love cannot be trusted. (on the other hand).
3. Childbirth. There are three kinds of unfilial piety in the Chinese ideology, and secondly, there is no big deal, inheritance is the priority of every family. It is reported that the best age for women to have children is 123 to 129 years old, and as they get older, the risk of childbirth also increases exponentially, which is bad news for older women.
David Asher, Northern Enforcement Force).
Men don't marry older leftover women not only because of age, but also because of these three important factors Some men can't have children even if they don't mind fertility problems, but have you asked your parents for their opinions? For the elderly, the younger generations have special love constraints, and if they are not allowed to hold their grandchildren, the family will definitely overturn. This question is the most frustrating for older women.
Because with the passage of time, the disadvantages of this shortcoming become more and more prominent and become a stumbling block on the road to marriage.
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The trend of older leftover women has begun to spread in today's society, when they go to school, their parents are against falling in love, and after graduation, their jobs occupy their lives, and falling in love has become a waste of time, and most of the older leftover women are caused by this. **There are also different opinions on the problem of older leftover women, which is mainly reflected in the following points: not good-looking and bad character.
Is this really the case? According to the survey, most men would rather marry a second-married woman than marry an older leftover woman, after many surveys of different men, it is nothing more than these three reasons why men are unwilling to marry an older leftover woman!
1. Too picky.
In fact, in this world where there are more wolves and less meat, women with good looks may not all find the right person to marry, it is observed that many handsome older leftover women are not married, and the reason why they have not married is mostly because they are too picky and have no feelings for themselves. Women become numb, become emotionless, and will no longer believe in love, often because of a very unforgettable love, what kind of man can't walk into his heart, will a man like such a woman?
2. Poor temper.
Many blind dates have become numb, so much so that in the end, they no longer want to have contact with older leftover women. A female graduate student with an ordinary-looking, sturdy body and a high IQ brain was arranged by the family on a blind date, the other party's boy is working in a state-owned enterprise, and the salary is relatively good, the two families are very optimistic about the couple, after the two get along for a while, the girl has always disliked each other's education is not as high as herself, he is with this boy is this boy climbed him, and even put forward a lot of excessive requirements for the nest family, the girl's vision is too high, the boy can't stand it, this relationship ended like this.
3. It is difficult to give birth.
Although it is now advocating late marriage and late childbearing, but medically speaking, it is very difficult for women to get pregnant when they are older, and it is also very dangerous at the time of delivery, most of our generation are only children, and the continuation of incense is also very important for most families. It is very difficult to miss the best age of older leftover women to give birth, and it will cause very much damage to their bodies, and some older leftover women will be left because they cannot have children, for more feudal traditional families, it is very important to continue the incense, so sometimes even if you marry a second-married woman, you will not marry an older leftover woman.
In fact, these ideas and concepts of older leftover women and men are correct, but they each have their own pursuits, I remember that there is such a line in the movie The Leftover is King: "What's wrong with me being single, the world has enough discrimination against me." "Many women still prefer to choose arrogant singleness when they see those failed marriages.
It's okay to get married, then you have to meet the right person, if he hasn't appeared, why be single? How old is it, a woman must live a wonderful life.
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The reason for the older leftover girl is nothing more than that the first is too picky, and she wants to marry a rich and handsome woman, and the second mother is a treasure girl, and she listens to her mother for everything. There is a person in the third heart that I can't forget, so I don't want to look for it. So I basically don't go looking for older leftover women.
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I will marry an older leftover girl, it's not that the older leftover girl is bad, some people delay their marriage because of their careers, and some people because they haven't met the right one!
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If there are conditions, I will not marry an older leftover girl, because such a girl is either too high a condition, or the conditions are too poor to marry.
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I won't marry, my wife won't allow it.
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I'm not going to marry an older leftover girl, the main thing is that I already have a girlfriend now, which is not necessary for me.
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It's all time, fate, and fate.
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I am worried that such a girl is emotional, has a more extreme personality, is older, is not good at having children, is particularly delicate, has particularly high requirements for the other half, and is relatively strong.
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The reason why men don't marry older leftover women is more or less related to the high requirements of older leftover women, and they want to find young and beautiful women.
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I think there are more older leftover men and women in big cities, because there are many boys or girls in big cities, they are all fighting for work and career, and they are rarely locals, and the two of them are in different places.
When you are 35 years old, you are still single, you will feel very lonely, you will have no one to take care of you when you are sick, and you will be very eager to meet true love. The reason may be that they are too picky and it is difficult to find a man who meets their requirements.
It should be married to men who are not self-motivated.
Because of the age, many men would rather have a second marriage, rather than an older leftover woman, the older leftover woman has higher requirements and a stronger personality, so it is better to find a second-married woman.