Problems that arose on a blind date

Maybe she doesn't want to go on a blind date now, but she came here because of the urging of her family. So all kinds of performance is reluctant.

First of all, she didn't come at the appointed time, and she was still sleeping when you hit **, which means that she doesn't pay much attention to this date. It's none of your business. , 35 is not high or low in the middle, ok.

It's been a while to eat, and it's been a while to go to a farther place by car, and it's about two hours to a teahouse. This time is a bit common, and when you are not familiar, you will be tired if you date for too long. After eating, I will eat again after sitting. And eat the sturdy ones! Cattle!

500 yuan, in fact, is enough. See that you usually go out less to spend these things.

The big brother of Hunan cuisine.

It's a bit small to order two or three on the first date, and it's about the same for 3 dishes and one soup. But whether she asked you to order food too is the point. If it's all up to her, that's not good, unless she says it to you and recommends it to you that she thinks it's delicious. If there is an order for you not to order yourself, then OK.

However, you are dating, why do you sit in front of her when you fight? Convoluted. It could be that she is not sensible, or it could be that she does not like you.

You can see for yourself, if she is more mature in dealing with people, she just doesn't like it. If it is not deeply involved in the world, it is understandable.

No change, what a bad excuse. There are two possibilities, 1. Seeing whether you are willing to spend money for her is also evaluating you. 2. I don't like it.

Finally, what you ask is what she does to you. And not really the reason for whether or not to continue. Whether you want to continue or not depends on whether you like her in your own heart or not.

Ask a woman who is not familiar to come out on a date, whether it is a blind date or not, usually the order is more expensive than others, and others will not be embarrassed to order a cheap one.

If you don't have enough money, tell the woman directly, she won't mind (if she has a good character, resolutely don't if she has a bad character). If you insist on eating noodles, she will misunderstand that you are stingy. At this time, you also need to be creative, think of a place that a woman wants to go to, but you can afford it financially, and please eat noodles on a date to make it feel a bit like coping with people.

Or you can also make a promise to the other person, like taking her out next time or something, because there is not enough money to bring today.

I think that on a first date, if she was a woman I took for granted at the time of my checkout, I would think again about whether or not to see her again next time. It's not that men don't want to invite women to dinner, and it is not recommended to invite expensive ones, it's just that we all want to invite the kind of woman who will appreciate you for inviting her to dinner, not take it for granted. I don't think the woman you described above has reached the basic standard of observation and conduct that I have in mind.

I feel that maybe the girl is still young and immature enough, so this kind of performance is normal. If you can accept it, continue, but I personally think it's better to forget it and find a like-minded person. You tell me?

It depends on what kind of object you want, you can say your own requirements and situation at the beginning, and if you can accept it, you can pull it if you can! In fact, when you didn't have enough money before, you could just say it and see how she reacted. You say, "I'm sorry, I didn't bring much money out today, and I might not have enough to eat."

I'll take you to eat something delicious, the one you want to eat, will we eat it next time? "There are rice noodles at more than 1 o'clock, which is rare hahaha

You don't keep following each other, she won't eat if she doesn't want to.

It's a waste of time for such a woman to have a relationship, and I'm still sleeping at one o'clock in the afternoon, which is lazy enough; Second, he also picks expensive food, is selfish and vain, does not know how to run a house, and does not know how to consider the man; 3. The man pays the bill when he goes out, and I don't need to tell me what happens to this woman; Fourth, if you take a taxi and sit in front of you, it will mean that it is not interesting for you. You can see that the woman doesn't like you at all.

It doesn't cost much to eat pizza pasta, it's only more than 100 yuan at most, how much pressure do you have, brother, how much do you have a month

Feelings are not produced all at once, it requires a series of communication and exchanges between people, don't be in a hurry to refuse, contact for a period of time. This is not in vain.

Feelings can be cultivated.

You know, it's not easy to find someone who truly loves you.

But if you're feeling miserable with her.

The best thing to do is to make it clear to her right away.

This will probably hurt her the least.

You just say you like her too, but you have a scary illness like hepatitis B or impotence, and you promise that she will give up on you!

Outright refusal to pull. The longer it drags on. The deeper the wound.

Tell her what you think directly. Men, you can't afford to put it down.

In fact, you don't like her in the first place, you think it's just a physiological requirement now, men are often lower body animals, you are also an adult, you should learn to think rationally, impulsiveness will ruin your happiness, please consider carefully.

The girl before really didn't have much cultivation, not necessarily if she was a lady, but at least she had to be polite. She doesn't have any concept of etiquette and politeness, so don't you want to. Don't be hungry just because you want to fall in love now.

In addition, you have to think about how you can still support a woman with a salary of 2,000 yuan a month? When you have a child in the future, growth and education are very big expenses, can you support a family by yourself? Even if it doesn't tire you down, at least the quality of life will be low.

Your mother is from the past, and it makes absolutely sense, a woman who can only dress up is really useless, and you can't afford to pay for it! She wants to buy a new dress today, a new jewelry tomorrow, and cosmetics the day after tomorrow, this desire of women is almost a bottomless pit, and your little money will be tossed all of a sudden.

Your income is not high, it can only be said that it is enough. So the woman you are looking for must at least be financially independent, and you can't just rely on you to support her. Don't think your mom is conservative and doesn't take her opinion into account.

It is indeed very important for a woman to have a good character, and it is definitely more important than her appearance. You're right.

You just want a girlfriend right now, no matter who that person is.

You can find a better one, don't just look for one because of a momentary emptiness.

I saw you on a blind date a year ago, and your girl is just approaching you, and you feel it. As for whether you want to contact her or not, it depends on how you feel. If you like her, contact her, you can't just find someone just because you're older, and you'll regret it.

Severe maternal love deficiency and unparenting problems, flash!

I feel bad about this girl!

The family is too far away from you, and the life will be far from you, of course, this is not the main thing!

She was very rude. Impolite people will make you lose face! One of my classmates found a low-quality girlfriend, so all our classmates laughed at him! This one is not the main thing either!

The main thing is that she doesn't like you at all, or that she doesn't like you, it's your family conditions, your house, your money! There are too many such women around me, and she is only for your living conditions!

Personally, I think you're in good condition!

You have to take my word for it, because I've been with at least 20 men, and conditions like yours are already very good! You're not in a big grade, so have confidence in yourself!

Love can't be in a hurry, and marriage is even more! I'm the same age as you, but I'm a woman, so I'm already old. I was also very anxious before, but I couldn't deal with it in a hurry, so I must find someone who is satisfied with me and agreeable!

My current boyfriend is my junior high school classmate, he graduated from college, we met again, and now we are on a good relationship, and I am glad that I didn't find a random man to marry!

Physiologically, you've been waiting for so many years, just wait! My man asked me to tell you that hands are omnipotent!

Psychologically, you have to believe that there is someone waiting for you at the next stop!

Give it up, that girl doesn't deserve it.

Find it yourself, blind date? Not good.

Isn't it a physiological problem for my brother to hold on? Let's solve it ourselves, take a long-term view, and besides, you haven't seen that girl for more than a year and haven't been in touch, how do you know if she has been in love for more than a year, or whether she has been, but you haven't talked about it for more than a year, hehe, think twice before you do, brother, there are beautiful women and girls with good tempers and good personalities waiting for you!! Don't be discouraged brother.

First of all, you have to be soberly aware that you can't just wipe a girlfriend because of impulse. The girl in front, I don't feel very good, a girlfriend or wife who doesn't understand etiquette will make you very faceless in front of relatives and friends, you may not think of that kind of pain, if the two are really related to that, do you say this matter is big or small? Neither is it to let you be united.

In addition, when you are looking for a girlfriend now, you must clearly know that you are not playing, not experiencing the feeling of a heartbeat, but looking for someone who can accompany you through your life in the future, can you not seriously consider this matter? Of course, don't be too idealistic, many people's dream lover and their real lover are different, there is no perfect person, the most important thing is that the personality must be compatible.

For your lifelong happiness, check it out.

Maybe a year has passed, and she has changed a lot

A lot can happen in a year, don't you say?

If she's still the same way she used to be, then you can wait.

I think this kind of girl is not suitable for you, there is a certain gap between the two of you, and it is not suitable for being together, don't look for one because you want to find one, you have to know that you are looking for someone who has lived with you for a lifetime, not someone who can meet your physical needs.

First depends on whether you need a woman or get married, and then whether you have a choice. If you need to have no choice, you have to try to get along with her, people often make choices without a choice, and people often have a choice and will be entangled in the contradiction between choice and how to choose. People's thinking and thoughts will affect the thoughts and behaviors of others, and you must believe in yourself, you can change her, and you can also change the living environment.

You don't have much communication, do you?

You don't know each other, do you?

Sometimes the first feeling may not be accurate, if you can, try to date and then decide.

But don't worry, life events, learning, etc., there will definitely be a princess who belongs to you.

I think it doesn't have to be beautiful to find a wife, but you must be cultivated, and it's very important to behave as a person. That girl's behavior that day may have been for some other reason, or maybe people didn't have feelings for you at the time.

So I didn't care so much, but at least the politeness was still there.

I think you're 26 years old and don't have a girlfriend yet, and you have to find the reason in yourself. After all, you are not the kind of person whose conditions are too bad, at least you still have a house and a shop, and you also have your own profession. Don't hang yourself on this tree, it's still a tree you're not very happy with.

Don't like it, it's that you don't have a girlfriend, if there is a good one you will consider?

I feel like you should still send that girl a text message or something, after all, you don't have a girlfriend now, although she was wrong last time, but you can't cover it with a little bit, take the initiative, give each other a chance, if you still feel bad, it's OK to break up again, people will always change.

From my personal point of view, whether a boy looks good or not also depends on dressing up, you can show sunshine and refreshment in dressing, hehe, most girls like sunny boys, don't feel inferior because of their appearance, the main thing is inner beauty.

If a girl really gets along with you, she won't judge a person by her looks. Because you already know what you look like when you meet for the first time! If you have a second chance to meet, it proves that there is still a good chance, so give full play to your personality charm!

If the quality gap is relatively large, barely living together will only bring more trouble to later life. What he's shown at your colleague's house is just the beginning, and he'll show more and more in the future. Hehe, you can meet a lot of people through your family or friends, expand your life circle, and you should be able to find someone you really like!

It's better to have a lack than to have it!!

Good luck! It's really not good to come to Yangzhou, and I'll introduce you to it! Hey! Yangzhou is a beautiful woman! 1

"The two of you are not fellow travelers in the first place, the twisted melon is not sweet, and you will not be happy if you are barely combined." It will only add to the troubles, and it will be too late to regret it! Take responsibility for your own happiness and the well-being of others.

I think women must be open-minded, reasonable, and realistic, and appearance is not very important

Don't be too anxious about emotional matters, it's useless to be anxious, it depends on fate.

The girl you described really doesn't feel very good about me, maybe it's because she's still young, I haven't experienced such a thing before, so I don't pay much attention to my behavior, you don't just deny her on one side, maybe she has something good about you haven't found out yet.

If the two of you really have fate, you can talk to her slowly when you are really together in the future, remind her, I think these problems are easy to solve, not a big problem don't need to worry too much, but on the other hand, if you really don't have a little feeling for her, you still don't choose her as well, feelings can not be forced, although your current age is indeed to the age of marriage, just like you said yourself, "You need a woman physially and in your heart", Then don't end up lonely for a woman you don't love.

Wait for fate, when fate comes, you can't escape if you want to, don't rush to the present, I hope you can find your happiness as soon as possible.