Even if it s a blind date, is the blind date girl really unreliable?

Let's see who introduced the blind date.

First of all, when you go to the marriage agency, you have to pay the membership fee or registration fee first, depending on the size of the matchmaking, generally ranging from hundreds to thousands, you pay not immediately someone is waiting for you to go on a blind date, but also wait for the notice, and give you a contact in two days**, let you contact directly, whether this is a marriage trust, we don't know. Or directly ask you to meet at the marriage agency, but the appearance and requirements must fully meet your standards, but if you want to have further relationships, the other party will generally refuse you for other reasons such as incompatibility or personality incompatibility, and you will have to meet the other person for a meeting fee, so that the concoction has been hanging you and constantly hollowing out your money.

Secondly, some people who promise to associate with you, often ask you out, ask for this or that, or lead you to a teahouse and restaurant they are familiar with to consume, you don't have any money, it's really difficult to continue dating, even if you have a little money, spend all your money, they will tell you bye.

Generally, bad marriage agencies are deceiving people step by step, often defrauding marriage seekers of money in the name of paying filing fees, meeting fees, tea fees, success fees, etc., and even hiring some male and female marriage trusts to continue to defraud money in the process of interacting with marriage seekers. Nursery children are often hired to play the role of a rich woman or a diamond king to attract some people who don't know the truth. Most of the people in these marriage agencies will talk flatteringly and promise lifelong service until they get married, but in fact, these are all for the purpose of deception.

Blind dates are reliable, blind dates are reliable, anyway, what you really want to come to is to date.

Blind date is a very unreliable means of chasing marriage with a particularly low success rate. Many excellent people are too busy with work and don't have time to find a partner, so they enter the blind date market. So I believe that there are also a lot of *** men and women, and there is no problem with staring at hunger.

I don't think blind dates are necessarily reliable, the blind dates I see are 80%** anyway, 80% have personality problems, 80% falsely report income, 80% WeChat chat is very good, and the introduction of people who meet people is not necessarily reliable. Both of you laugh at the group, and your parents know each other, and it may not be reliable. If you meet on a blind date, you have to fall in love if you see the right eye, and you can't get married, you can't fall in love, you won't fall in love, no matter how useless you are.

The only advantage of a blind date introduced by an acquaintance is that it is not easy to meet bad people and will not be cheated out of money.

The rest of me personally feels that it doesn't have much effect, and most of the people who can go on a blind date are a sharp head in their eyes for a moment, and the rest of the sparse pieces are really seen through the red dust. Appointments can be done on their own, but it is not recommended that you blindly choose and solidify the identification, don't get married for the sake of getting married, there are no rules, you can't fall in love for a lifetime。The consequences of choosing the wrong one are far greater than not choosing, so I suggest that it is most important to see clearly, so don't blindly assume that the blind date must be reliable.

Don't take the blind date too complicated. Before going on a blind date, you have to understand that a blind date is not a negotiation, nor is it a deal。It's just a chance to get to know someone you wouldn't normally know.

It's not that you will avoid the process of falling in love through a blind date, and go straight to get married. If you don't feel for each other, this is normal, and you should know someone. If you have a good impression of each other, it is actually no different from free love, but the way two people know each other is different.

It is through blind dates that you can know what kind of person is suitable for you. Many people reject blind dates, on the one hand, they feel that the purpose is too strong, and on the other hand, they also feel that there are too many wonders. But in fact, if you think about it, there are all kinds of wonders in the world, and all kinds of people have seen it, which is also to increase knowledge

The main thing is that the more people you meet, the more you know what you want.

If you want to get rid of the single, blind date is a very efficient way. Most people just want to find a good match, and then talk about it as long as possible. So what does it mean to be compatible?

In fact, it can also be seen conditionally, the general environment in which a person lives, and even his income, his family background, his educational background, etc., will have a certain impact on it. This can actually be judged on a blind date, because the introducer basically asks you about it, which saves you from having to say it yourself.

Blind date is a traditional way of marriage and love, and it is also a way to meet newcomers, and whether it is reliable depends on personal experience and attitude. The reliability of the blind date is related to the following factors: the purpose of the blind date and the attitude:

If the people who participate in the blind date are sincere and seek a long-term stable relationship, the success rate of the blind date will be relatively high. Understanding and communication between both parties: The key to the success of a blind date lies in mutual understanding and communication between both parties.

If the two sides can gradually establish a relationship of trust and mutual respect on the basis of mutual understanding, the success rate of preparing for each other will be higher. Self-conditions and requirements: Self-conditions and requirements are an important factor affecting blind dates.

If your own conditions and requirements are too high, it may limit the range of options for matching, resulting in the failure of the blind date. Environment and Situation: The success rate of a blind date is also related to the environment and situation.

For example, if the blind date is not suitable for the place and time, it may affect the mutual mood and mentality, leading to the failure of the blind date. In general, the blind date itself is not an unreliable way, but depends on the attitude and behavior of the participants. If both parties on a blind date have a sincere attitude and positive actions, the blind date can achieve the desired purpose.

Blind dates are a traditional way of dating, but for many people, it's still a very big unknown. Many people ask: Is blind date reliable?

The answer is: maybe, but not necessarily. First of all, the main factors that make a blind date reliable are multifaceted.

The success of a blind date depends on various factors, such as the accuracy of the match, the smoothness of the communication, the interests and hobbies of both parties, values, and so on. Sometimes, even people who are interested in thinking about it will show a completely different side than they expected when dating. Therefore, it is not uncommon for a large rough appearance to fail.

Secondly, it is important to note that blind dates are not a dating method for everyone. For people who are more introverted and not good at socializing, blind dates can make them feel very uncomfortable and have a negative impact on their dating plans. In this case, attending other types of social events or using a dating app may be more suitable for them.

The degree of reliability of the blind date is also related to your stupid expectations and attitude. If you set too strict standards in advance, and the blind date is unable to meet them, it will lead to the failure of the date. When going on a blind date, you should keep an open mind, respect the opinions of the opposite sex, actively look for common ground and explore opportunities to get to know each other. At last.

I think that blind date is a very special emotional experience, and it often takes many interactions and understanding to develop a stable and mature relationship. Although blind date is seen as a traditional way of making friends in modern society, it is still a way for people to learn more about their physical conditions after initially paying attention to their appearance, body shape, etc., and in appropriate circumstances, it can also be a process for people to continue to grow and improve.

Blind dates, for people, may bring very high emotional investment and costs. In the process of blind date, we will spend a lot of time and emotion, constantly adapting to each other's temper, personality and living habits, in order to achieve the purpose of fighting and digging to know each other. Especially in China, society's expectations for romantic relationships are often very high, and blind dates have become one of the ways to get family blessings and recognition.

Such pressure and expectations will make people who participate in blind dates feel more and more nervous, and they are more measured to understand each other, often only focusing on whether the two parties have a common topic and whether their personalities are compatible, and ignoring the intrinsic value and potential advantages of the other party, such a mentality is the biggest problem that blind dates bring to people.

At the same time, blind date is also a process of growth and improvement. Through blind dates, we will not only better understand our emotional needs and expectations for a relationship, but we will also constantly adjust our mindset and way of thinking. This kind of growth may not be very obvious and immediate, but if we see blind date as a process of learning and experiencing, then we can draw more nutrients and dissipation from each blind date process.

Whether it is success or failure, blind dates will leave a deep impression on us, let us discover our shortcomings in love, and also strengthen our position and beliefs in interpersonal relationships. Therefore, when talking about the perception of blind dates, I think this process is not only a communication between two people, but also a direction of self-cultivation and growth. We need to see the opportunities and challenges in blind dates, and find a better self and lifestyle from them.