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After getting married, women are not suitable, and they have male girlfriends, and they should also pay attention to proportionality when getting along with male friends. Many people think that there is no pure friendship between men and women, and the term male girlfriend makes people feel more like a woman raising a spare tire.
, so in this case, it is not appropriate for women to have male girlfriends after they get married. And after getting married, women should also pay attention to the balance of getting along with male friends, take care of their partner's feelings, and also respect friends of the opposite sex. <>
1. Is there pure friendship between men and women?
It is believed that there is pure friendship between men and women, but sometimes some people of the opposite sex do get along with each other, and for various reasons, people will also think that women have male girlfriends, or that there is a certain ambiguity in the word male girlfriends, so women still do not call other friends of the opposite sex male girlfriends after marriage, which is very inappropriate, and pure friendship also requires us to grasp the degree when getting along with the opposite sex, and respect each other is also respect for ourselves. <>
2. How to get along with friends of the opposite sex after marriage.
First of all, you must remember your married status, when you get along with friends of the opposite sex, you should mark a good scale for yourself, communicate within the scope of politeness, remember to respect your partner, and at the same time, if a friend of the opposite sex has a partner, you should respect the other party's partner, do not do too intimate body movements, keep the bottom line and proportion between friends, and tell your partner to communicate generously, so as not to misunderstand. <>
Friendship is precious, but after marriage, respect for the partner is also very important, which requires women to always pay attention to their own proportions in the relationship, and to introduce their partners to their friends in a timely manner, to give each other enough respect and security.
Socialize with friends of the opposite sex generously and tell your partner about these things, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings and hurt the feelings of husband and wife. Therefore, women should not call their friends of the opposite sex as male girlfriends after marriage, and at the same time pay attention to the proportions of communication.
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I don't think it's suitable to have a male girlfriend because it may cause misunderstanding for my husband. It is necessary to pay attention to the attitude of two people to get along, the way two people get along, and the distance between two people, which are all issues that should be paid attention to.
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I think it's appropriate to have; But pay attention to keep a distance from your male girlfriend after marriage, don't go out alone, pay attention to your behavior, don't have intimate contact with your male girlfriend, and be sure to consider your husband's feelings.
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I don't think it's suitable to have male girlfriends, and women after marriage should keep a proper distance from all boys to give each other enough security.
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Personally, I feel that it is not suitable to have male girlfriends, because a married woman must keep a friendly distance from the opposite sex, otherwise it is easy to cause some unnecessary misunderstandings.
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It's also very suitable, as long as your husband doesn't mind having a male girlfriend. And since they are already best friends, it proves that the relationship between the two is very good.
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Not suitable, after marriage, you should keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, and it is best not to be overly intimate, which will affect the marital feelings.
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It's very suitable, and it's also a normal interpersonal interaction for a woman, so there's no need to mind too much.
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Two people may simply think that it is a good friend relationship, and they cannot produce love, and they know each other too well, and feel that the other party can only be friends, but not lovers, and get married.
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Because the relationship between two people is very good, because the other party takes good care of themselves, but the love of two people still needs some attraction and feeling, and there is no way to get married without this feeling.
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Male girlfriends are not suitable for marriage, male girlfriends just know themselves better, it is a kind of friend relationship, and marriage must have the kind of person they admire.
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That's because the two of them still have a lot of shortcomings, and the other party can't accept them, and secondly, because they're afraid that if they don't get together in the end, this friendship will end.
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Because the relationship between two people is not love, although it is particularly good, but the two of them are above friendship, and love is not full, so they will not get married.
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Because girls are not very attracted to male girlfriends. They prefer the opposite sex who can attract them, and male girlfriends don't have much of a chance.
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The more this kind of particularly good male girlfriend, in fact, is not suitable for marriage, because they know each other too well and are only suitable for being friends.
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Because the two of them are just good friends, and there is no love between men and women, how can they get married.
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Because girls only have a special emotion for their male girlfriends, the two of them can be said to be friends and above lovers, so they will not choose to get married directly.
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Because there is no love between two people, they are just friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship, and they don't have that kind of idea of getting married.
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It's because they're too familiar and know each other's shortcomings, and if they break up in the future, then the two will be very embarrassed
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It's very simple, the woman and the male girlfriend are poor and need to find a third party to provide them with money, so the woman finds a husband to support her and the male girlfriend, and the male girlfriend and her cheat the woman's husband out of the money and the woman divorces her husband.
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Marry directly, how can you get married so hastily? Who's going to get married in a hasty way? I hadn't been to his house, I hadn't even had a meal with him, so why should I get married so hastily?
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Just like many men will have particularly good female friends, women will also have male girlfriends. It's just that for a married woman, is it appropriate for a woman to have a male girlfriend with a better relationship? Can a woman have a male girlfriend after marriage?
In fact, there can be pure friendship between women and male girlfriends. Can a woman have a male girlfriend?
After marriage, a woman can actually have a male girlfriend, but a woman should pay attention to the following places when getting along with a male girlfriend.
1. Don't speak ill of your husband in front of your male girlfriends
In fact, many times, male girlfriends and female girlfriends have similar roles, and women usually like to talk about some life topics with male girlfriends. However, there is one thing that women should pay attention to is that even if you like to complain about your husband with your female girlfriend on weekdays, but in front of your male girlfriend, a woman is not suitable to speak ill of her husband, maybe you can confide in him about some unhappy things, but you can't let a man judge another man's good or bad, otherwise something will go wrong sooner or later.
2. Keep your distance from male girlfriends
When a woman is dating a male girlfriend, no matter how deep the friendship between the two is, no matter how long the two have known each other, they must abide by some standards and bottom lines that should be adhered to between men and women. Maybe you don't treat him as a man, maybe you like to hook up with him on weekdays, without measure, but in the eyes of outsiders, your relationship is actually very ambiguous. Especially when her husband sees it, it will be uncomfortable, so women should still keep a proper distance from their male girlfriends.
3. If you have something to find a husband, you can't find a male girlfriend
When many women encounter things, they may not necessarily ask their husbands for help at the first time, but will ask for help from the male girlfriends around them. Maybe you have formed a habit for a long time, but when you get married and become a married woman, you should treat your husband as the closest person of the opposite sex around you. When you have something to do, instead of looking for your husband, but thinking of a male girlfriend, what does your husband think?
He must think that you treat him as an outsider, and normal men will be jealous when they encounter this situation.
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Personally, I think that women who have male girlfriends are playing hooligans, and there is no problem with having friends of the opposite sex, but anyone who keeps talking about girlfriends is playing hooligans.
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Summary. It is normal for a married man to have a female girlfriend, and in this case, most of this man's female girlfriends are there before marriage, either classmates, or colleagues with a good relationship, or netizens who can talk to each other, etc. In fact, if a married man has a girlfriend, but he can grasp the degree of dating, then there is nothing wrong.
It is normal for a married man to have a female girlfriend, and in this kind of situation, most of this man's female girlfriends are there before marriage, either classmates, or colleagues with a good relationship Zen Peiliang, or netizens who can talk to each other, etc. In fact, if a married man has a girlfriend, but he can hold He Yun to this degree, then there is nothing to do.
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