Why is it that the more you pamper a girl, the more she will break up? What points have you overlo

Because the other person thinks you are humble. There must be no humility in the relationship, and you need to give to each other so that you can live for a long time.

It may be because she doesn't love you so much in her heart, or she may break up just to win your care and test how serious you are about this relationship, which is why everyone often says: "Women want to break up with men, often can't do it".

Love is a matter between two parties, it must be developed in the interaction between the two parties, if one party gets too much love, more than common sense, will be honestly afraid, do not know how to respond!

And if a man's contribution is to meet a woman who also loves you, then it is worth it, but if you meet a woman who doesn't love you enough or even doesn't like you, then even if you pay more, in fact, the other party doesn't feel the need.

So, in love, why do you look like the more you "pamper" the girl, but the more she will break up, in fact, you ignore these points.

Actually, she doesn't love you that much in her heart.

When I was playing with a friend yesterday, I talked about another male friend of ours, Wang Lin, and the friend said that Wang Lin had just fallen out of love recently. I didn't even know when he had a partner, but I heard that he fell out of love. I asked, "What's going on?" ”

The friend said: "Wang Lin was chasing the little master of your department before, you don't know." ”

Then I remembered that there seemed to be such a thing. For a period of time before, I often heard Wang Lin talk about his relationship with Xiaobai, either to help her find a summer job when she hadn't graduated yet, or to help her find a job with a professional counterpart after graduation, or to travel together when the two of them were on vacation.

The friend said: "It was during the trip, as soon as they came back, Wang Lin dumped that little white." ”

I asked: "From beginning to end, how good is Wang Lin to others, Xiaobai actually dumped others!" ”

A friend said: "I heard Wang Lin say that in fact, Xiaobai didn't like him very much at the beginning, maybe he found that the two were really inappropriate after traveling, and Xiaobai broke up with others." ”

Sometimes, you love someone very much and desperately want to be nice to her, and there is nothing wrong with her, and she still doesn't like you in the end, and she is not wrong. What's wrong is that you use all the good on the wrong person.

Breaking up just wants to win your attention.

Of course, excluding the case that a woman doesn't actually love you that much, there is another possibility that she actually makes a fuss just to make you care more about her.

I remembered that when I watched Rao Xueman's ** "Secret Fruit" before, Lao Duan, the father of the male protagonist Duan Baiwen in the book, married a young wife Dong Jialei after the death of the original partner. Dong Jialei doesn't know how to cook at home, she only dresses herself up beautifully every day, and often loses her temper with Lao Duan at home. Lao Duan has a good temper and often lets her.

Once, Lao Duan and his son went to the house of his old friend Sun Ping for dinner, Dong Jialei was very angry when she found out, and she said that Lao Duan had an improper relationship with Sun Ping. In the end, he dragged his suitcase and said that he was going to leave divorced.

But the next day, she came back again, and while making a fuss about finding Lao Duan, she also used Duan Baiwen's mobile phone to send a message to Lao Duan, but in fact, Lao Duan just went on a business trip.

Women are always duplicitous, and sometimes they like to make trouble, but it's not all because she really wants to leave you, she just wants to be tsundere and make you care about her more. After all, in the process of falling in love, what a woman enjoys most is when her boyfriend coaxes herself.

Test how serious you really are about the relationship.

In fact, in a relationship, the more tempted, the less beneficial it is to the relationship. But sometimes when a woman is unsure of a man's intentions or is not confident in herself, she will want to test your attitude by breaking up with you.

There are no surprises in life, you will be satisfied with everything about him, and without this surprise, the feelings will become weaker and weaker, which will lead to a breakup.

Because the more you dote on her, the more she thinks it should be, and the more she will care about your feelings and not manage them well.