Everyone thinks that four years of college got something

Everyone's college life is different, and what they get is different. Some people actively participate in various club activities, so as to exercise their social skills and expand their contacts; Some people have studied hard and obtained various scholarship-level certificates; Some are addicted to games all day long, and they have achieved nothing in four years of college; Some people talk about love and gain valuable love ......

I've learned a lot I have to study at any time Read more books Don't be carried away by other people's inertia There will always be a time when they regret it Don't rely on others Ask for others rather than yourself Know what you want Work Love The future The society is complicated Stick to your own path.

I see the dark side of society more clearly.

University, many say it's an ivory tower. In fact, from junior high school and high school, everyone has expectations.

Some people, before going to college, almost never left their parents, left the city where they lived, and entered the university, before they began to live in a dormitory and have roommates; Start a person in a new city to get acquainted, live, and step into the track of a new city.

After entering the university, you will find that it will no longer be like someone in junior high school and high school, urging you to study, staring at your homework, whether you go to class or not, whether you complete your homework, it all depends on whether you are conscious or not. There is a lot of personal freedom, which also means that you have to decide a lot of things on your own, and you have to learn to take responsibility and choose the consequences yourself.

Some people, in college, have been in a mess for four years, playing games in the dormitory every day, eating in the cafeteria, two o'clock and one line, and the four years pass quickly. When it was time to find a job after graduation, I began to panic.

Some people, who have no supervision in college, also rely on their own consciousness to complete their studies on time, and enrich the use of free time after class to participate in various interest clubs, which are not the time and energy conditions in high school to participate, and some people will plan early, after graduation, is to take the postgraduate examination, the civil service examination, or to study abroad, and early according to the plan day by day, semester by semester.

Perhaps, during the college entrance examination, when entering this university, everyone's score line and starting point are relatively similar, but after four years of college, the difference is fully reflected. Self-conscious, assertive, and positive students will behave positively and assertively, whether in their studies or later job searches; And some of them may never be able to understand what kind of work and life they really want.

Some college classmates and roommates have a very close relationship, and after graduation and work, marriage and childbirth, they still occasionally contact each other and greet each other; Some graduation photos may be the last time we met. For four years, it may have been a hurried passerby.

Which city to choose, which school to start college life, in fact, the choice has been foreshadowed at the beginning, just like the road of our life, many of them need to be experienced, only in the continuous experience, to perceive and experience, in order to enrich our life and experience, no section of the road can be replaced by a shortcut, the hardships you suffer today will also lay the groundwork for a certain day in the future. Your school is also an important and unforgettable experience in your life, maybe you will meet the other half who will accompany you hand in hand in the future, you will make like-minded friends, and because of the university experience, lay the follow-up work, no matter which one, please cherish and live every day of college life.

Be a responsible person for yourself in college. Understand and use your inner strength and potential, find what you are really good at and strive to develop, find what you are not good at, that is, your own shortcomings, and try to overcome them.

For example, in your studies, strive to get the best level in the subjects you like and are good at, because this will help you better achieve your dreams in the future. If you are not good at or do not like the subjects, you should not give up, and you must ensure that you pass, because if you are not careful, they may pull you back and become a stumbling block on your way to success.

In terms of life, it is necessary to be gregarious, and the easiest way to be gregarious is to put aside selfish thoughts, put aside the idea of taking advantage of small advantages, and also allow others to take advantage of small advantages, and you can pay a little attention to yourself, and you don't have to take it to heart.

But for their own growth, they must not follow the crowd, have their own plans, their own goals, even if they play with their classmates and have fun, but the main line in their hearts is always to improve themselves, and the activities that leave the main line must be corrected in time.

Strive to improve my ability to learn independently, interpersonal skills, ability to resist pressure, ability to love, ability to control emotions, appropriately improve physical fitness, psychological quality, and strive to graduate from the time I can tell myself that my entire college career has not been wasted, to the greatest extent to do what I should do, did not follow the crowd, formed my own stable and clear world view and values, from today into the society, I can be confident and optimistic, although the ideal is still far away, but I know that I am approaching him.

When I went back from the university dormitory, I learned a lot about how to deal with people and experience, which taught me a lot.

1. How to get along with others and fit in with the group.

Here's my own example: When we were freshman years, there were six of us in the dormitory, and the dormitory director always liked to arrange "shows" for us. Playing poker, chasing Hanye eggplant dramas, etc.

In her words, after the intense high school life, college life is given to us by God to enjoy. The other four expressed support and approval.

Therefore, I am also embarrassed to "stand out from the crowd", and slowly get closer to this group, and I also play. The relationship between the university dormitory and the dormitory cannot be very stiff, but I feel very uncomfortable, very empty and empty, because the purpose of my college is to study, and to be excited rather than wasted time.

Second, I learned the customs and anecdotes of various places, because everyone comes from all over the world and will share the beautiful scenery and food of various places with each other. At the beginning of the new semester every year, it is the time for the food exhibition in the dormitory. Nowadays, I have never forgotten the taste of vinegar-soaked ginger brought by my roommate in Jiangxi.

3. I also learned to develop hobbies, for example, in our dormitory, there are good singers, and we also fall in love with singing, although the singing is not good, but it can be pleasant. In addition, there are people who like to read poetry and dance. If it is good for health and improves ourselves, we will all cultivate hobbies.

College life is good, and the relationship between the college dorms is not so bad. As long as you understand that you don't go to college to play, not to be gregarious for the sake of being gregarious. It's about learning, in order to achieve your dreams, and then find your true group, and always move towards your ideals.

In college, first of all, I learned a wealth of more profound knowledge than before, and secondly, I learned how to behave with people, get along with people, know what to promise and what to refuse, make friends who are not brothers, learn about their side of the wind and horses, and also learn self-confidence, believing that I can become the best version of myself.