It s been 3 years since we broke up, and I still love her very much. What to do

Planning: 1. Determine whether she still has feelings for you, 2. Get relevant information about her through some people who know each other together, such as whether your married life is satisfactory, how your boyfriend or husband compares to you, etc.

3. If you are ashamed of yourself, you will retreat and seek another job, if you feel that you have the opportunity, you will see the stitches and see the wind and rudder.

2. Non-netizens, it's a little difficult to get out, you can go to her neighborhood to disguise yourself and spy on it, or find a private detective.

Note. 1. Don't go straight to the point and take it for granted that the other party still loves you.

2. Watch more movies, think of good lines, don't make it look like a movie, it must meet the other party's taste.

3. People who have loved each other always have a little feeling, it depends on whether you can tune her feelings back (you need to observe words and colors when you are in contact, and push the boat down the river).

4. Cook as soon as possible, don't wait for her to think.

I think you shouldn't be in love now, but more reluctant, you have paid for 3 years of affection, but the final outcome is not good. But if you think about it this way, your 3 years of love can be divided in the end, which means that she is not your favorite, and the person you love the most will not leave you, but the premise is that you have not done anything to compare with others. Try to love again, don't hang yourself from a tree again, I'm sure you'll forget, it's just that you need time now.

If she doesn't have a boyfriend, she will just propose.

Feelings are not something you say.

If you let go, you can really let go.

You haven't let go of her for three years, it can only show that you love her very much in your heart, otherwise it wouldn't be like that, but I know that she hurt you and caused the two of you to break up, and she came to you to you because she regretted it, and she wanted to be with you again.

Feelings, if you really give your sincerity, then it is difficult for you to forget, even if you still remember her after the breakup, but the pimple in your heart will remain there forever.

This question is not complicated, nor is it difficult to solve. In general, you haven't found a replacement for her. In other words, in the past 3 years, you have never opened your heart and let others walk in!

And what prevents you from opening the "heart lock" is your unwillingness to hurt you with her!

You have to believe that people are actually very forgetful animals, and when a man and a woman love something like this, when a person of the opposite sex who is more suitable for him than his ex appears, he will naturally choose the latter in comparison. The reason why you are good to her and her bad for a long time is nothing more than being controlled by the "inexplicable" emotions in your heart (to put it bluntly, you are unwilling) and walking into a "dead end", and your attention is on your ex.

No matter how beautiful the "flowers" around you are, no matter how fragrant they are, you can't see or smell them!

Friend, I think you regard this kind of "unwillingness" to past failures as "love". In my opinion, "love" and "hate" (unwillingness) are actually unforgettable.

To be honest, you may not love her at this moment, what you can't forget is just the "unwillingness" of your endless efforts to get hurt! Otherwise, you won't turn them down when they come back to you. And you need to let go of the ......It's the "hate" of your ex.

When you let go of this "unwillingness", that is the day you let go.

In fact, your so-called "she" being a friend, to a certain extent, actually indirectly helps you. If you're going to get out of that "dead end", it's a good mindset to let go and be a friend. It is a very critical step for you to let go of your "obsession" and no longer fall in love with "a flower".

Brother dei ......Why bother?! It's time to let go!

First of all, you have to understand that it was you who proposed to break up, which already hurts his heart, you know, men have the best face, so if you get together, it is very difficult Secondly, since you had so much courage to break up at that time, why regret it now? It's divided, and I'll meet a good man in the future. It's not about what he thinks, it's about your determination.

Women are hot for a while, and men are unpredictable. You go after him again, or do you take the initiative? Boldly chase.

You have worked hard, in fact, she also told you directly, you are over, so, no matter how much you love, you are not her dish, you have done your best for the love you can't let go of for three years, at this point, you must cut off the heart that you still want to look back on, completely forget the past - cut, change - a mood, work hard, be the best yourself. In the vast sea of people, how can you not have someone who appreciates you and loves you?

Don't deliberately think about the past experience after a breakup, it will slowly fade and become an emotionless fragment.

After everyone breaks up, they may not forget the days they used to be together, and they can't let go of their psychology. The more we want to forget, the more profound it becomes, and it gradually becomes a part of life. We don't deliberately recall the past, and we don't deliberately forget, just look at it with a normal heart.

It may be that we still have fantasies and regrets to be like this, we need to slowly and naturally eliminate, so that the emotions will fade, the plot will be blurred, and the fragments will only have an impact, and without color, we can live a normal life. Thank you! Hope to adopt!

Everyone says that time is the best medicine, and all injuries can be supplied, and three years is not too short. But you still haven't forgotten her, maybe because you are unwilling, unwilling that she can let go and start a new life after breaking up with you, but you can't, this has become an obsession in your heart, so I suggest you find another girlfriend, maybe you can forget about your ex.

Perhaps, sometimes two people together will overwhelm everyone for some reason, or he just wants to.

To feel the outside But the only thing that can be proved is that he doesn't love you as much as he used to If he loves you, he will care about you, he will not let go of you I am afraid that there is no such thing in the world as love that is widely circulated and misreported. True love, more often than not, is just a legend. Really, in this world, we often pass by it, and the end of the world is close at hand.

For some people, love is just a disposable consumer product, like disposable dishes and chopsticks, which have to be discarded when they are used up.

Don't let yourself shed tears easily, you laugh, the whole world laughs. You cry, you are the only one in the world who is crying. There are only two people who love in a person's life:

One is oneself, and the other is one's own fantasy. Maybe you can take the time to read my article, there are a lot of concepts, ideas, mentalities, and some cases similar to yours, it will help you to read more and learn more, anyway, your problems have not improved, you can take some time to understand your needs, and see how others are successful.

It's something you'll forget over time, and it's important to make your life fuller, just don't think about it. There are two ways to forget old love, the first is a new love. The second is time, if you still can't forget it, it means that the new love is not good enough, and the time is not long enough, what do you think?

I would like to know what your profession is? If you feel that you can't let go of the breakup for three years, it is possible that you are too idle, there may be too many contacts, and it is possible that you have not found a new one. If any of these three points are true, you will be able to forget her name for three years.

Look for her and see if she can change her mind? If not, forget it

It is the man who can give the woman a sense of responsibility, and the woman who sees it as her own security. As long as they were together, they didn't think about separating. When a man can't give you this, it can only mean that he doesn't take you to heart for no reason.