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Children still have to be served on the table. Finally, depending on the situation, if there are a lot of people in the family, the location is not enough, the child will eat next to it, if the location is enough, the child still has to eat on the table, because the meal is about reunion, if the child does not eat much, it is not like a family to eat when eating. Eating is meant to be a happy dinner for the whole family.
If there is a guest, it is the children of the Sina guests who eat at the table, and the children of the family have no place to sit next to them. If the seats are enough, you must go to the table to eat, after all, the meal is a reunion.
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*Children can't eat at the table**, this is because children don't understand the rules on the wine table, and they look ugly after seeing delicious food, leaving a bad impression. In the past, the ideology was more feudal and traditional, and women and children were often the objects of discrimination, so women and children were not allowed to eat at the table. But now that society is open, children can eat at the table.
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Don't engage in this set of feudal superstitions.
It is necessary to nurture children from an early age.
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Hello dear, this is the pedantic custom of the old society, because in the past, food was precious. Especially when relatives and guests come to Hansou's house, they not only have to eat on the kang, but also eat the omen first, and the women and children can only move chopsticks when the men on the kang finish eating. This is also done out of respect for the guests.
Ordinary people are pure-hearted, if a guest sees a woman and a child eating together, how can they easily put down chopsticks when there is a lack of food? How can you bear to see the Lord's family holding back their saliva for themselves? Women and children are not allowed to go to the kang, and guests can eat calmly.
Although there is a suspicion of self-deception, it has also achieved the effect of not being out of sight and out of mind. It doesn't matter if you are wronged, you can't neglect visitors.
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Table etiquette.
1. After taking a seat, the posture should be upright, the feet should be under the seat, not arbitrarily straightened, and the elbows should not be leaned against the edge of the table or put the hands on the back of the adjacent seat.
2. When dining, you must be gentle and elegant, calm and quiet, and not impatient.
3. At the dining table, you should not only care about yourself, but also care about others, especially the female guests on both sides.
4. If there is food in the mouth, you should avoid talking.
5. Self-tableware should not be extended into the public dining plate to pick up dishes.
6. You must eat in small bites, do not stuff in large mouthfuls, and the food cannot be stuffed into the mouth if you have not swallowed it.
7. When scooping soup with vegetables, use chopsticks and spoons.
8. Eat imported things, don't spit it out, if the food is hot, you can drink water or juice to take a shower.
9. When delivering food, the elbows should be leaning inward, not open to the sides and touching the adjacent seats.
10. When holding knives and forks in your own hands, or when others are chewing food, you should avoid talking to others or toasting.
11. Do not pick your teeth with your fingers, use a toothpick, and cover it with your hand or handkerchief.
12. Avoid coughing, sneezing, and vomiting at the dinner table. If you don't hold back, say "I'm sorry."
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