Why are teachers children prone to school bully?

Being able to see more of the child's strengths, looking at them with a developmental perspective, and not putting the score first. Some parents only have scores in their eyes. After the test results, when you see that your child is not doing well, you will reprimand your child.

Generally speaking, teachers do not pay so much attention to the level of children's scores, but pay more attention to some problems behind the scores. He is patient, has lessons in educating children, and encourages him when he sees that his children do not do well in exams. ‍‍

The learning environment and learning atmosphere are good, teachers generally understand the principles of pedagogy and the psychology of students, and will naturally create a positive family environment and a good learning atmosphere that is conducive to their children's learning, and will not let children spend their leisure time on mobile phones and TV. ‍

The resources for learning are different, and it is normal to be a top student.

Teachers pay more attention to home-school cooperation and provide positive education to children. Teachers in the teaching profession are well aware of the importance of communicating with children's teachers about children's academic situation and its significance to children's development, that is, to form a two-way interaction between parents and teachers in children's education. As a teacher, the teacher's professional habits make him clearly aware of the purpose and true connotation of "home-school cooperation", that is, after communicating with the child's teacher about the child's education, parents should also carry out continuous education in a timely manner, rather than seeking help from the teacher in a one-way way.

Children from teacher families are not "nerds" who can only read, but are often versatile and well-rounded students. Because teachers are more aware and familiar with the laws of education, they know what kind of environment children will learn better, it is easy to create a warm, understanding and democratic family atmosphere, and they can also give appropriate guidance in learning.

The learning atmosphere of the teacher's family is heavier, and the parents also know how to get along with their children and control the psychological changes of their children. The harmonious and active family atmosphere is not only conducive to the child's learning, but also allows him to develop his interests more freely.

Teachers who have been in contact with exams for a long time understand the characteristics of exams, and it is easier to see that academic performance does not mean everything for children. As teachers, parents can stand outside the exam to educate their children more rationally, focusing on the all-round development of children. And when parents don't put grades first in their children's education, it is easier for children to give full play to their abilities and strengths.

The influence of the family environment is also one thing. Teachers' families are relatively quiet, and they generally don't have too much entertainment. Teachers often deal with books, like to learn, and have a learning environment at home.

Parents are the best teachers, parents like to study, read books, is also a subtle influence on children, parents teach by example is better than words.

Know how to get along with children: Give children a more relaxed environment for growth. When it comes to educating children, teachers also have advantages that other parents don't have.

Teachers, who are exposed to advanced educational concepts, also pay attention to methods and skills when educating children. For example, when communicating with children, they will pay attention to skills and pay attention to being friends with children.

Even if the teacher cannot accompany the child, there is a correct educational theory to guide the child, so that the child can develop a good study habit from an early age. Wang Yuxiang, vice principal of Funiu Road No. 4 Primary School, said that teachers can give children some guidance in terms of concept and knowledge.

Teachers are more rational, do not protect their children's shortcomings, have a clearer understanding, and help will be more rational; When guiding, it will be more scientific and rational, so that children can avoid detours.

Many people have the impression that a teacher's child should learn well. After all, they have educational resources that many people don't have, and many people envy those children whose parents are teachers since childhood. In fact, this is not the case many times, and there are not many anti-wisdom and knowledge of teachers who become real scholars.

Carefully analyzed, there are mainly the following reasons:

One: To become a real top student, you must not only rely on your own efforts, but also on your talent

We have to admit that sometimes learning still depends on talent, and some students work hard, but their grades are still not good. There are some students who have excellent talent and can easily get good grades. Anyone who has ever gone to school knows that some real top students are not only hard at work, but also very smart.

There are many people who study hard, but there are only a few top students. Under the teacher's requirements, the teacher's children are likely to study more seriously and work hard, but there are still very few truly talented people, and they are not available.

Two: In junior high school, the teacher's children are prone to rebellion

Adolescent rebellion is normal, and the teacher's children are generally more serious, why? The main reason is that teachers are more strict with their children, and when they reach adolescence, they begin to rebel, and the degree of rebellion is still more serious. Although many teachers have been in the education industry for many years and have met a variety of students, they have no way to solve some problems when their children have some problems.

I remember when I was in junior high school, a female teacher treated her students very strictly, and many students would be afraid of her, but her children did not study well, and the teacher was also very helpless.

Three: Teachers can only tutor one subject

Although some children's parents are teachers, a teacher generally only teaches one subject. If there is a problem in other subjects, the teacher has no way to solve it, which means that the teacher's ability is limited, and his ability to help the child is also very limited. Some people say that they can help children develop a good study habit, but study habits are only one factor in achieving good grades, and there are other factors that cannot be controlled.

Because the teachers are very busy, they ignore the children, which leads to their reverse rent and anti-fiction psychology, and then they break the jar and fall, and the grades decline, and the teacher's requirements for the children are very high, resulting in the extreme psychological imbalance of the children.

Because teachers are usually busy and don't pay much attention to their children's learning, they feel that their children can do their best.

Parents who become teachers seem to be the best people to educate their children, but in reality, many times they are unable to give their children the right education. Here are some of the reasons that can cause this.

First, parents who become teachers may face two different kinds of criticism.

On the one hand, they may be overly involved in their children's learning, trying to fully control their child's learning pace and direction. This excessive control can cause children to lose opportunities for self-development and creativity, preventing them from reaching their potential.

On the other hand, parents who become teachers may be too loose about their children's learning, thinking that their children can decide for themselves what to learn and how much to learn. In this case, the child may become irresponsible and lack self-discipline, leading to a decline in academic performance.

Second, parents of teachers may not be able to provide adequate attention and support to their children due to their own stressful and exhaustive work.

They may spend a lot of time and energy on work and neglect the needs of their children. In this case, the child may feel neglected and not valued, and thus lose interest in learning.

In addition, parents who work as teachers may also lack the time and energy to provide meaningful companionship and guidance to their children due to long working hours.

Thirdly, parents who become teachers may face some psychological pressure that prevents them from educating their children in the right way.

As teachers, they may be highly valued and expected by their colleagues and parents. This stress can cause them to feel anxious and nervous, making it impossible to educate their children in a proper way. In addition, parents of some teachers may focus too much on their children's academic performance and neglect their emotional needs and personality development.

Although parents who become teachers have professional knowledge and experience, this does not necessarily mean that they will be able to provide the best education for their children. Only when they understand their challenges and limitations, and actively seek help and support, will they be able to truly provide an effective education for their children.

We don't need to criticize teachers' children for their academic performance, this logic does not make sense, is it true that the children of rich people must be rich? Are the children of the poor necessarily poor for the rest of their lives? Obviously, this is not the case, there are no absolutes, so it is normal for teachers' children to have poor academic performance, and we must look at this problem rationally.

I don't agree with the word "many" in the problem of many teachers' children's poor learning, as far as I have personally experienced in the past few years, almost all of the teachers' children I have seen have good academic performance, and other aspects are also good, very few will be poor academic performance, usually not good in other aspects of learning is not good.

First of all, let's talk about the reasons why teachers' children's grades are not necessarily good, as follows:

1. Teachers' children are ordinary people, and teachers are also ordinary people, so the quality of learning is not directly related to whether they are teachers' children.

2. As a father and mother, teachers will also enter the misunderstanding of teaching children, and children's teaching is not only the teaching of subjects, but also the teaching of how to behave.

3. Learning is based on interest, and some teachers' children may naturally like sports or art, so their natural academic performance is not so prominent.

The first and second situations mainly express that after removing the position of teacher, the teacher is an ordinary person, and there will be some problems in the teaching of children. Therefore, the quality of children's academic performance should depend on the learning method and learning attitude, as parents and teachers do not give children these skills, poor grades are expected.

The third situation mainly means that each child is independent and special. Every child is good at not only reading, but also many other aspects, such as sports, art, etc., as a teacher can see the importance of interest for children, may only let the child develop his interests, reduce the pressure on academic performance.

Therefore, it is normal for teachers' children to have good or bad academic performance, and we don't need to be too surprised or too excited, just treat them as ordinary people, in fact, it is what those teachers' children want.

A lot of bad ones, but also a lot of very good ones! It should be said that the polarization is quite serious. If the college entrance examination admission is only used as the criterion, then the children of young teachers are weaker; The children of middle and high school teachers are better; The children of college teachers are more differentiated, but the group of college teachers' children goes abroad a lot, no matter how good or bad their grades are.

Why don't I know that the children of the collective teachers exist, in my opinion, it is about a good job, if you compare it with Edison and Jobs, it will definitely not be comparable.

Nonsense, there are too many excellent grades for teachers' children. I'm a teacher, and my daughter got a better 211, and I don't even have a face. Everyone has an opinion that their children are not well educated, and what is a good teacher.

Besides, the teacher has a low status in society, and he doesn't even take advantage of this advantage, which is really a teacher in vain.

That's because teachers have very little time to teach their children and are super impatient, and they often compare the good students they teach with their children, so they are always criticizing children, so that children don't want their parents to teach.

The teacher is still very hard, the child's homeroom teacher takes two classes of mathematics, classwork and error correction are corrected on the same day, the child is taken care of by the elderly for several months, and at nine o'clock in the evening, he also calls the parents to communicate with the students.

I haven't heard that the children's academic performance of teachers is not good, anyway, the worst children of my colleagues around me are undergraduates!

The most people who go to Tsinghua University and Peking University are the children of teachers, and your problem does not exist, and the children of teachers generally have better grades than the children of other professions.

Because as a teacher, most of the time is devoted to the students. On Fridays, I teach and lecture at school, and I have to correct homework in the evening. I have to prepare for classes on Saturdays and Sundays, and I don't have much time to spend with my children.

What is the conclusion of this, the children of teachers around me have not become scumbags. Either good grades or upper average. Is it psychological for people who raise this type of view?

There are good and bad people in every category. Comparatively speaking, parents who are teachers may pay more attention to the education of their children, and they also pay more attention to the education method than the average person. What's more, the growth of people is mainly the tempering and growth of character, what is the significance of saying that a student's grades are good or bad.

There is cause and effect in the world, you can look at it with your heart, every teacher who teaches students with heart, his or her children will not be bad. "People who are good do not deceive the sky, and people who are evil are afraid of the sky are not afraid."

To be honest, teachers sometimes don't put enough energy into their own children. Some children have mediocre grades, and there are also congenital factors, such as children's ability to accept is slightly slower.